Simmi....is she a bad parent

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Posted: 10 years ago
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If you check post from a month ago...you might see me hating on Simmi but today when DD was saying the parents are to be blame for what happen to Shiv...well that was kind of harsh...Simmi and Raj are awesome parents they support their kids and try to keep them happy...Yes Kritika is bad and yes Simmi supported her into all the bad things but why did she try to separate SidNi because she thought Roshni was a bad person...when DD insulted Sid for months and months as a Ghar Jamai Simmi kept quiet, when DD insulted Simmi for being poor in the starting of the show she felt hurt but she kept quiet...why because she wanted her son to be happy...When Simmi took DD property it was because her daughter had just lost her baby and the evidence pointed to DD...yes she chosed one child over the other but that was because she felt.DD was such a bad woman and that Sid was all caught.up in reuniting the mom and daughter duo he did not see how bad DD was...so in some part of her mind she was saving both her children from the clutches of DD...So in other words she thought she was doing good for both her children...and I see that as being a wonderful parent

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I think as most parents are, both DD and Simran aren't ideal mothers.They both love their children immensely due to which they do what they think is good for them. Parents I feel are to be blamed to an extent for how their children turn out. In this case yes DD was harsh and had said a lot of accurate yet hurtful things to both Simran and Sid, bt I think it all came out from anger, hurt and disappointment. When DD and Shiv had come back and then heard about SidNi's engagement she was behaving normally with Simran and Raj. None of this hatred words came out of her. She lost her husband minutes after they got back together. Her daughter lost her love...DD has lot of hurt within her for which she is saying a lot of hurtful things. Even in the precap she is shown throwing Roshni out as well. DD has lost all sense of ability to think straight. When the truth does come out I do hope a happy reconciliation takes place, where all is forgiven. And SidNi remarriage happens...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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yes she is a bad parent
as whatever may be her aim
she ultimately hurt sid a lot
she hurt him when kritika came
from that time she started attending only her
she forgot that she had a son too
that he loved some one with all his heart
she did not see that rajveer wanted to kill roshni
the patels did not matter for her at all then
she only saw what she wanted to see
that kritika lost her husband
she forgot rajveer was a villain
she punished roshni for no reason
she put sid through hell as well
she was inhuman to sidni many times
she brought misha to sidni life
misha is now out of hand out of control
she is in a way root for all these problems
so yes she was wrong
timely action would have prevented all this
but no use crying over split milk
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Posted: 10 years ago
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You can't say she was bad...she made some bad decisions bt that can't necessarily make her bad. If she is bad then DD is bad as well. DD has hurt Roshni multiple times. All DD cared about was herself.
Parents are humans too and they too make bad decisions and they usually are remorseful. Simran is remorseful now. Parents who aren't remorseful could be seen as bad...If making bad decisions makes someone bad then we all are bad individuals as we all tend to make bad decisions from time to time. Simran felt she was doing what she was manipulated into thinking was right for Sid, bt now she has realized that she made a big mistake.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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yes Simmi is not a bad person, but if u say that Simmi is bad then DD is worse as everything bad started because of her. Simmi has done very bad mistakes in her life but now she is repenting now.

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