Sid and Roshni are PLAIN SELFISH!!!

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Now, this is going to be an unpopular post and almost no one is going to agree, but I need to vent it out somewhere and take a break b'coz I'm almost done with the show🥱🥱 The reason I watch the show was SidNi and the couple had been ruined to a great extent yesterday and the rest of the ruining will be done this week🤢

So, i have read many posts saying SidNi are Mahan, selfless etc, till recently even I believed so.. But now I would say Sid and Roshni are PLAIN SELFISH..This is going to come out in future episodes too. I'll explain the reasons why I'm saying so..

Let us assume Misha is positive and she was truly sexually assualted and mentally disturbed. That is what SidNi knows and they don't know Misha's truth😕. In such a situation how many of u think what Sid & Roshni is doing is right?? Both of them very well know Sid can never love Misha, he can never give Roshni's place to Misha neither would he ever accept Misha as his wife and give her that love🤢. Then by forcing this relation aren't they trying to ruin the hopes & dreams of a girl who has had a major tragedy in her life and lead her to a major heartbreak?? How long can Sid take care of Misha w/o love and what would happen to her if he leaves her?? I'm fine with what SidNi is doing is b'coz I know Misha is evil but if I didn't know that like Sid & Roshni, then what Sid & Roshni is doing to Misha is cruelty🤢

On top of that Yesterday's scene, after engagement Sid stopping Roshni and saying our relation would continue🤢 It was so cheap of Sid to say that to his ex wife, after getting engaged to another girl and in front of all the guest and equally bad for Roshni to silently accept it😡. It would have been much better, if she said now since u are engaged to someone else we both should stay away. She didn't say anything, which simply implies they would continue their relation & getting Sid engaged to Misha was a farce🥱🥱

And from the SBB and spoilers, it is well known that Roshni will go to khurana house and Sid will be with Patels to investigate Shiv's death, in short SidNi will continue their LOVE STORY, if that was the case why force this engagement??😕

The only reason is that both wanted to reduce THEIR GUILT of not being able to save Misha. Isn't that a selfish reason?? To reduce THEIR GUILT & feel better, they are giving hope to a 3rd persons which BOTH are sure would be shattered in future?? And for this they are hurting entire family and in future will hurt Misha too when they keep their relation ALIVE behind her back.🤢 Since they have voluntarily done the engagement wouldn't it have been dignified to stay away from each other?? I don't think now I'll be able to enjoy SidNi scenes b'coz it would come out as ILLEGITIMATE🥱

P.S Just to make it clear I'm not a Misha fan😆, I hate her as much as everyone do but from SidNi's POV this is what I'm feeling now I hate to say this but I've started to dislike SidNi as a couple and this is coming from a diehard SidNi fan😕 And I thank CVs for making feel like this🥱


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lisasandra thumbnail
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Well said.
CV is showing wrong thing. Now they should not show Sid and Roshini togather.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I agree with you completely Rose. Well justification! Both of them will continue with extra martial affair even after Sid's engagement with Misha. Then what was the point of engagement and OTT drama. Although I stopped watching the show, from reading all the post and seeing their Mahanta; I am hating SidNi and their relationship. And thanks to the CVs for making us hating our SidNi who we loved and can't even imagine hating them to this extent
Edited by paru10 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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agree with you.I am fed aswell.
I am sure CVs didnt want us to hate Sidni.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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see a real rape vicim will never ask for marriage
that too so soon after her trauma
she will try to stay away from boys in general
normal rape victims do not fall all over their best friends
they seek the company of their mothers or girl friends
her behaviour is totally different
having said that i agree with u to an extent
if it was a real victim then what sidni are doing is cruel
but as we know the truth misha is being cruel to them

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: .chandni.

see a real rape vicim will never ask for marriage

that too so soon after her trauma
she will try to stay away from boys in general
normal rape victims do not fall all over their best friends
they seek the company of their mothers or girl friends
her behaviour is totally different
having said that i agree with u to an extent
if it was a real victim then what sidni are doing is cruel
but as we know the truth misha is being cruel to them



Ya, I do agree that we know Misha's truth but SidNi doesn't know. I also agree with the fact that a rape victim will never behave like this but here Misha is MENTALLY UNSTABLE too (according to SidNi). So, she can demand anything, that is to marry Sid or want to get the moon etc. But since SidNi are mentally fit what they are doing is WRONG. They pretend that they are doing it for the happiness of Misha whereas deep down they both know Sid CAN'T keep Misha happy Now a days he feels irritated and awkward around Misha, he won't be able to do anything for Misha even as a friend due to this forced engagement🥱 So, according to SidNi's conscience they are doing it knowing very well that Sid won't be able to keep Misha happy. Thus, even when SidNi says "Misha ki khushi ke liye", they are doing it only for their own satisfaction and reducing the guilty🥱 If they wanted Misha's happiness they would have got her treated medically and then get her married to someone who can love her
Edited by zoopassion - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: zoopassion



Ya, I do agree that we know Misha's truth but SidNi doesn't know. I also agree with the fact that a rape victim will never behave like this but here Misha is MENTALLY UNSTABLE too (according to SidNi). So, she can demand anything, that is to marry Sid or want to get the moon etc. But since SidNi are mentally fit what they are doing is WRONG. They pretend that they are doing it for the happiness of Misha whereas deep down they both know Sid CAN'T keep Misha happy Now a days he feels irritated and awkward around Misha, he won't be able to do anything for Misha even as a friend due to this forced engagement🥱 So, according to SidNi's conscience they are doing it knowing very well that Sid won't be able to keep Misha happy. Thus, even when SidNi says "Misha ki khushi ke liye", they are doing it only for their own satisfaction and reducing the guilty🥱 If they wanted Misha's happiness they would have got her treated medically and then get her married to someone who can love her


yes i agree with that
they do not know the truth
they are stuck in a very bad situation
sid feels guilty for all that happened
he considers himself responsible
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Although I have stopped watching the show, but I have mentioned this in the previous posts too. Now they are showing that even after Sid's engagement with Misha he is having extra martial affair with roshni, such a disgusting thing now they are going to show roshni as sautan of misha. LOL
But it all start with the guilt of Roshni that because of her Misha is in this situation and she become plain selfish. Roshni was hell bent and forcing it on everyone. true sacrifice is when it is done for the happiness of evryone not when it is done for removing your guilt and spoiling the happiness of everyone. If they have shown like if Sid loves misha and roshni sacrificing her love for them then it would have been the real sacrifice but here they are destroying the happiness of everyone honestly, including Misha where Sid will always love Roshni so this is totally stupidity. 😕 They are not only deceiving themselves but also misha,
This is not a true sacrifice but plain selfishness as it is not based on the honesty and loyalty of Sidni to Misha. Remember Roshni says that she will always belong to Sid and Sid also saying the same so they will always be loyal to each other, then where is Sids loyalty to Misha. I mean it seems like they are allotting Sid to nurse misha for whole life by this marriage. This is not marriage this is stupidity. Marriage is a very pure ritual in indian tradition. Now they are making mockery of marriage.
Everyone even tried to explain this same to Roshni, even Sid but She being so stupid and a fool that she will never understand it. Anyway that is how her character is from the start so you cannot expect something good from it.
Even her explanations to why she is doing this were so vague that no one, it seems like that her love for Sid is not strong enough that she can fight for that love. She tried to explain that their unconditional love I was laughing at that. I mean when her love was unconditional. Her first condition was Sid to be a middle class then after post leap her condition was that Sid should make everything alright in her family then she will be with him, then post divorce she just keep nagging Sid all the time. She suggesting that shiv will understand, I was like seriously Shiv was so against this stupidity that he died so that this should not happen and roshni is saying that papa will understand, and Sid he although blackmailed should have never agreed. I totally hated when he said this to roshni that you were mine and are mine will be mine for ever. I mean then why have you got engaged to Misha then. I was like seriously 😆 both of them are acting selfish and fool in the situation 😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Well said, but I don't think loving somebody even aftr marriage is infedility... true love do exist even after they got seperated n being with wife n children. The love relation he was talking abt not physical as everybody says ...Sid as a character never crossed his limits even after marriage eith Roshni his love his life n his evrything. So I respect his love for her n he will never hv any physical relation with Roshni if he gets married to Misha. If misha asks for that he may fullfill his husband duty or he may ask some tym...
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This is my opinion only... sorry if I am wrong...
Edited by babithaj - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Awesome post rose...even I don't know what's happening in the show...this all is irritating me a lot but because of mm y craze of SidNi I will be watching this crap🤢

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