Why Ranvi dosen't adopt a child - Page 2

Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan

That is the ideal solution. Not carrying Deepu around. Yes he is attached to the child. But he can't act like he is her Father. It's only complicating things. Also, Deepu's Mother is young and beautiful and a good singer. So it makes things even worse.

That Manjeet is disgusting and only waiting for a chance to pounce. I honestly don't even know why I watch this show anymore. It's nothing good at the moment. I really hope the show concludes in October. Because it's already run out of a story. Ravi needs to stop being so insensitive and understand the dynamics of the situation. Gunjan can't have children. Also, when Geet was trying to tell Ranvi why she didn't want Deepu to spend time with him, he cut her off! She is the kid's Mother. He has no right to cut her off.

I think he should think about how he can complete his family. Not try to act like Dad to some other kid who can never be his. It's only making matters worse! I wonder if MASH can handle a progressive track like adoption in a village setting? It would be good if they can. But I don't have any high expectations from this show anymore!

Originally posted by: Nikki36

1. I really don't get why manju is trying to break ranjan up because there is nothing really for her to gain from it. When it was baldev she wanted the money.

2. Adoption is such an obvious storyline but with a messed up gunjan who would give them a kid!!

3. Ranvi may be a little insensitive when it comes to deepu but gunjan could easily join in the fun with them, she is actually her phui

Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan

That is the ideal solution. Not carrying Deepu around. Yes he is attached to the child. But he can't act like he is her Father. It's only complicating things. Also, Deepu's Mother is young and beautiful and a good singer. So it makes things even worse.

That Manjeet is disgusting and only waiting for a chance to pounce. I honestly don't even know why I watch this show anymore. It's nothing good at the moment. I really hope the show concludes in October. Because it's already run out of a story. Ravi needs to stop being so insensitive and understand the dynamics of the situation. Gunjan can't have children. Also, when Geet was trying to tell Ranvi why she didn't want Deepu to spend time with him, he cut her off! She is the kid's Mother. He has no right to cut her off.

I think he should think about how he can complete his family. Not try to act like Dad to some other kid who can never be his. It's only making matters worse! I wonder if MASH can handle a progressive track like adoption in a village setting? It would be good if they can. But I don't have any high expectations from this show anymore! 

Originally posted by: anjs

very well put...

@bold : Instead of attending to all of Deepu's whims and fancies, they shud realise that Deepu wont be with Ranvi forever...as she belongs to a different family...so Ideally Ranvi being a grown up, has to curb his attraction towards the child...also knowing that how insecure his wife is from the child n her mother...it wudve been a wise decision for him to maintain some distance...

@red : that was too much...how can he supercede the child's mother n her decision...she isnt his family or relative to do that...he shud know where to draw the boundary

Originally posted by: sharoon3210

Yes, that is another aspect. If Gunjan is insecure, what Ranvi could have done was to speak to the music director & put a word about Geet's solo singing.

He shouldn't have done duets with Geet. If at all he wanted, he should have spent time with Gunjan & taught her music.

Originally posted by: anjs

he never paid attention to Gunjan post the mis-carriage...didnt take her for medical check-ups, nor for counselling...
 

yes, he himself gave the idea to Gunjan that he is happy playing family-family with Deepu and Geet...despite noticing Geets reluctance he kept entertaining Deepu n her fancies...

any normal woman will feel insecure, when left out like this by her husband, and here, Gunjan is highly insecure and immature...it isnt a surprise that she became so paranoid...esp when she knows that Geet was called here to trap Baldev...