swarya fans plz answer - Page 2

thanks all swarya fans who have wasted their precious time answering this post.

@neelambari
no dear...swara always thought of all those feeling as concern for a friend just like laksh before omi made him realised...after that dance only she realised her feelings for him...
if she wanted laksh over ragini, she could have gone to stop laksh from beating himself like mad leaving ragini in hospital following her accident..
and OK let's for a moment I think like u...swara loved laksh from very beginning and hide it...so what's wrong? ..falling in love is not something in ur hand...she knew laksh dont love ragini and so psychologically she never thought of him as his jeeju..he remained her friend...ragini too fall for laksh just because she was getting married to him...she didnt had much time with him...whereas swarya spend lot of time together...and swara hide her feelings for ragini...didnt went and announced of her love to laksh or anyone...what more she was expected to do?
dont take this an anti ragini post...i dont hate her...

Originally posted by: kasakthegreat

thanks all swarya fans who have wasted their precious time answering this post.

arey nothing like that yar 😛
its a public platform...lots of pov's ...our preferences make us see things differently...
any discussion s good until it is calm...

Hi kasak, can i just say ty for bringing some good debate up into the platform. now coming to the point, swara and laksh aren't having an affair, swara wouldnt even admit her feelings to herself till ragini clearly assured her of moving on. theres no betrayal here cos a) you don't control your feelings. b) laksh frankly told ragini time and again he isn't interested and c) swara didn't even admit her feelings to herself till ragini pushed it and d) i just don't think ragini loves laksh. given the cicumstances of the serial, i don't think id have a problem with it cos laksh isn't some asshole my sister dated and knew and was in love with, who broke her heart. he's an honest guy, my best friend and someone my sister admits to have moved on from. but of sisters and marrying someone your sister is in love with, if we're talking about real life then no. simply because having the parents i have, id never really grow up in swaragini's circumstance where our upbringings would be so poles apart. If i had a sister, i doubt she'd fall in love with a guy just by virtue of being arranged to marry him. we're not a traditional bunch in that way. love can happen after marriage but we have been brought up practically enough and with enough exposure to the opposite sex to know that it doesn't work that way, you have to actually know someone to love them, which ragini doesnt. so if a guy was my sister's fiance whom she knows very well and has gone out with and is genuinely in love with, then id never go out with him after their break up regardless of my feelings. cos then that was an invested relationship from both sides. but if my sister didn't love the guy and they broke up cos they didn't click and we (me and the guy) really click then id probs give it a go. in this case, I'm only answerable to my sister and if she says yes then why the hell not? thats exactly what happened with swara.

TM,
since i'm a swarya fan,guess u expect my answer.firstly,try to understand if somebody says right in a girl's face he doesn't love her like four or more times,who will go behind him??in this serial,ragini does.so we call her obsessed,crazy.even she pays no heed to her dadi's advice.and in my opinion,ragini should not be called a 'sister' to swara considering the cunning things she planned[mms and recent hotel fiasco.].she should not be given any consideration of a behen.and swara will be pagal if she makes ragini-lakshya marry.[watch lakshya's confession epi/swara's b'day epi,and swara's confession is genuine yaar.]
and,its a fiction,so pls better avoid personal qns like 'what would u do??'.it depends on each person kasak..

Originally posted by: kasakthegreat

thanks all swarya fans who have wasted their precious time answering this post.

I didn't mean that answering your post was a waste of time buddy. It was just the parts I highlighted in red which I strongly felt was illogical, that's all. We're all free to express ourselves.

First and foremost in the case of Swara it is a gradual falling in love. She did not jump and say wow rich handsome guy loves me, let me dump my sister. It happened over a period of time when she saw Lakshay's change of nature as well as sincere devotion.

Originally posted by: kasakthegreat

as I m not a shipper of any ship yet coz I see potential in all ship except swarya coz for me swarya is done & dusted, if dp had truly accepted swara coz for after marriage they will only stretch swarya with useless drama, but my question is to swarya fans which they have 2 answer is
how many of u will marry or have a affair with a person whom ur sister luv crazingly , person was about to marry ur sister once & u know about it???
don't bring ragini into it or bash her while answering. I not rooting 4 ragya but I can understand ragini.
I only asking this coz I never got attached to swarya coz this factor, coz I know no girl of any religion knowingly or unknowingly will fall for that guy coz 4 me this is a kind of backstabbing to the sister. I see this forum fill swarya fans , so I want them to answer so that it will help me 2 change my views. plz answer keeping real life in mind.