Well I liked little Jagya and Anandi and their friendship of childhood.That was the only good thing about their relationship.
But right from the begining even in those childhood days it was very clear that they were not right for each other as husband and wife. Most of the giving came from Anandi and taking came from Jagya. It has always been Anandi who gave in in case of disagreement. Most of the time compromises came from Anandi
I liked teenaged Jagya and Anandi marriage even LESS THAN the child marriage.True if he didn't go to Mumbai marriage would not have broken but still it would have been a marriage between two people who are not equals.
Anandi's wings were clipped by Dadisa to make that relationship viable.
Jagya's wings grew in Mumbai and the entry of Gauri finally freed Anandi from a marriage that clipped her wings and helped her grow to her full potential
So even if Shiv had not entered Anandi's life I would not have wanted Jagya back in Anandi's life because that would have meant her wings being clipped again.
Shiv as a husband gave her wings to fly and made her feel complete.It is her love for him that made herself chain her to him. She did it on her own. Shiv's Anandi and Anandi the mother of Shiv's kids is exactly the grown up version of Khazan and Bhago's little princess. That's why Shiv is the right man for Anandi whether he is present physically in her life or not.
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As for Kundan Nandini/Nimboli pair - Yes suddenly Kundan decided to use his charms to get what he wants from his wife instead of using his rights to get he wants from her. We have to accept that he can be quite charming if he wants to be. Wish that charm came from a good heart though.
What I want to see is Nandini and Kundan's marriage breaking up because it is child marriage and he didn't have it in him to be a real husband to her and she didn't know what being wife is all about.I want to see them seperated.
Would I like to see them get together when they grow up?
Yes I don't mind if they get together like Jagya Gauri did when they met as adults - they fell for each other for right reasons and their marriage had a lot of potential. They were seperated in childhood for the right reasons.
Their marriage would have been acceptable had it not been built on lies deceit and on someone else's broken dreams and tears and also if they had NOT tried to use their child marriage as method to make the family accept their marriage.
I would accept Kundan and Nandini relationship as adults only if they met as two strangers and fall for each other and if and when they get to know that their childhood marriage handle the present relationship and their past in a much more sensible manner where they can send a message that a relationship will work only when two people are right for each other and meet at the right time and come together for right reasons
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Mannu and Pooja I don't see anything wrong in that because it is just an age related issue. As long as they don't let this relationship take over their lives and don't get distracted from their studies school activities and other childhood pursuits it is perfectly fine.
Is Kundan wrong to have these kind of feelings? No.
Is he wrong to use Nimboli for his needs? Yes. Simply because she is too young and not yet ready for that kind of relationship.
Edited by aparnauma - 10 years ago
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