19.6.15 - Why cant IshRa DECIDE their UNIFIED approach to Adi??

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gravshrav23

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Posted: 10 years ago

Sorry guys..was out the whole evening, so posting review late...🤗

It was funny to see the maid apologizing to Mihika...ekdum haath paon pakad ke... "Main kabhi aisa nahin karungi...please mujhe kaam se mat nikalo" Mihika was wondering, ki agar chor pakda hi gaya tha, as ACP claimed yest, toh YEH MAID CHUDIYAN AB LEKE KAISE AA RAHI HAI...Bangles toh ACP ne kal hi de diye the😆 She examines the ones Abhishek had given her. Ditto. Same to same. She is flummoxed.

I somehow find Ishu's attachment to home and hearth too much😔...I mean, kitne pyaar se husband ne sabke liye spa mein reservations karwaye..and instead of enjoying she is busy calling Raman, asking him to look after Ananya and Adi... Yaar...abhi abhi toh Adi teenage mein theek se kadam bhi nai rakha hai..aur Ishu ka yeh haal hai...once he starts exerting his independence and all, its gonna be very difficult for her..Anyway baat karte time hi use Raman aur Adi pe shak ho jata hai...

Raman in that sexy crisp white shirt and Anu baby in his lap...aww...what cuties they both are!!

Appa gave the guard a earful and asked him to be more careful kyunki aajkal din mein bhi itni choriyan ho rahi hai...he starts Waah-waah-ing about ACP's dedication and Delhi Police's efficiency in "cracking the case"...Mihika comes out and tells Appa to have food...and gets talking to Romi...

"Woh ACP hai naa...fraud hai FRAUD😆.." and then she narrated how the ACP had both her and Appa convinced he had caught the thief...by giving her new bangles and a fountain pen for Appa...I was grinning at that moment...its so cute...sirf ladki ko impress karne ke liye bande ke itni mehnat ki...wah! That means aag dono taraf lagi hai...kaash yahan Vandu hoti...iss scene mein poore chaar chand lag jaate!☺️

Romi seemed impressed with the ACP's style and decided he wud meet him personally

Raman looked at Adi and Vinni, excitedly getting down to their project work, and mused "beta toh baap se bhi aage nikal gaya" Yes Mr.Bhalla, as long as its innocent project work meetings with his crush, its fine...not when it leads to bigger dangerous stuff😔

Ishu was getting her manicure done in the parlour...and beech mein, I dont believe this...in the middle of it she calls Neelu and instructs her to put dhaniya in rajma and prepare snacks for Adi and Ananya. I was EXASPERATED. Pissed, actually. It sounded like such a feeble excuse to keep a tab on the kids. If I got just ONE day off to clear my head, I wouldnt give a damn about dhaniya in rajma. Really🤔

While she was talking to Neelu, she heard Adi's and Vinni's voices..she asked Neelu waht Adi was doing...she said he was working on his project... "kiske saath?" she asked next...and before Neelu could answer, one of the parlour girls came and asked Ishu to shut her phone since it was her turn next for the massage. That part looked so INVASIVE. Ishita looked like uske dimag ke antenna khade ho gaye AS PREDICTED, Ishita cancelled her massage session and gave the car keys to the girl, asking her to give it to her mom-in-law (I thought people are asked to be very careful about their belongings in these places..aise hi car keys deke chali aayi?)...and came back straight home. Wow.

Yahan Mihika aur ACP mein nain-matakka chal raha tha...I quite liked this scene...

Mihika showed her wrist and asked Abhishek, "kitne chudiyan hain?"

"5"

"Aur iss haath mein?"

"5"

"Dono milake kitne huey?"

"10"

"Khoyi thi 5 aur mili 10?"😆

That bit was fun. ACP looked like he wud rather get swallowed up by the earth. Mihika further went on, "Kisne banaya tumhen ACP? Sorry tak nai bolna aata"

And then she talked about the sorry note which she got yest..he said why would he say sorry, and anyway he hadnt written her any such note...She then showed him the note...

"Yyeh toh bacche ki handwriting hai...aap bhi naa..Mihika'

he leaves, with his attitude in place...and much, much enamoured with Mihika

After he leaves Mihika examines the note and realises he is right (My question is - how can you differntiate between what an adult and a baccha handwriting is? Adi is 13 baba! he isnt 2!! My handwriting has been the same THROUGOUT...since I was 6 yrs old...always wrote like an 'adult' just became better with age...Kuch bhi, CVs😆)

She recollects how Adi had bumped into ACP yest and his books had fallen off...she concluded it must have been Adi's letter...Theek usi samay Ishu arrived and uske aate hi Mihika ne Ishu ko woh letter dikhaya...ki dekho Akka, yeh letter Adi ne likha hai...so cute naa??

Ishita, who was soaking in every word written, didnt find it cute though.😳

Inside the house, Adi and Vinni were playing pakda pakdi (had they been at least 18 yrs of age, the CVs wudve shown Vinni piled on Adi and an intense eyelock...the usual that happens whenever big boys and girls play pakda pakdi😆)..

Vinni ran towards the door...jahan se Ishita andar aayi and they bumped into each other.

She was shocked. The kids were shocked. She charged Adi, "Vinni yahan kya kar rahi hai?Kya uske papa ko pata hai ki yeh yahan hai?Kya tumne pehle inform kiya tha ki Vinni yahan aa rahi hai?"

I quite agree with the "kya uske papa ko pata hai" bit...coz if SHE too had come without informing her parents, then DEFO ghamasaan yuddh hoga investor aur Raman ke beech mein...jismein OBVIO Adi ki galti nikali jayegi...

But she looked like she caught them doing something grave. Its understandable...but still

Raman comes to the kids' rescue and explains to Ishu...that they needed to work together for the science project and hence...Vinni has come here...although, when Vinni came, I feel Raman SHUD have asked her if she had taken permission from HER parents..nai toh, again it will look like he is teaching the kids how to lie and manipulate...

After serving Vinni snacks, Ishu had her back to her and was chopping vegetables and yet, kept turning back and looking at Adi and Vinni...that was WEIRD. I mean, give the poor kids a break. She looked like one of those insecure Moms who were worried their son was giving so much important to another woman in their life...really...not only this, she even happens to read a news byte about some teens committing suicide, and she gets MORE worried...now toh she is MORE resolved to watch Adi's every move.

Raman caught her doing that... "Main fruits kaat rahi hun" she said

"Karela tumhen pasand hai, sabko pasand nai hai. Aur karela fruit nai hai" he grumbled

Yes. Ishita was so ENGROSSED in what the kids were doing that she was actually chopping bitter gourd, thinking it to be a fruit. Raman tried sending her back to the parlour...but OBVIO she didnt leave...she made a bahana of working on Dr. Batra's research work and stayed put in the house. Even after ADI and Vinni had gone to work in Adi's room.

Clear case of overprotectiveness and cautiousness from Ishita's side...😔 Vinni is NOT Maneka, from the Apsara world that she will seduce Adi and drag him into a world of wine and women and naach-gana. Ishu shud stop getting so worried. Raman is too lax, yes...he shudve made sure Vinni had taken due permission to come to their place. But at the end of the day I know one thing - this generation doesnt care about rules. And they dont want to waste time listening to "parents' instructions"...they would rather their parents trust them...have open communication with them..and INVOLVE them in their lives.

Ishita would be closer to Adi if she LISTENS to his POV..tells him things gently...and tries to stay INVOLVED in his life. Nai toh use pata bhi nai chalega ki Adi kar kya raha hai...

PRECAP - Raman and Ishu are having a heated fight, where Raman explodes - Adi MERA beta hai, tumhare beta nai hai...that was rude, yes. But I knew it was coming. Kabhi na kabhi.

Obvio, Ishu is hurt. And says - Fine. Aapka hi beta hai naa. Toh main jaa rahi hun...meri kya zaroorat hai? And apparently Raman said yes...jao...😔 I read on IF ki ISHU tried to watch Adi's activities by installing CCTV cameras or somtething. Now THAT is REALLY wrong. Teen or not, that would piss off anybody. Its downright violation of privacy and shows you dont trust your kids at all!

Im not sure why the leads end up having a fight, but if that's the case, then Ishita really needs to tone it down. And they all need to SIT DOWN AND TALK. Not side with one another. Raman should take care of a few things too, coz this girl Vinni is also involved now. Things could take an ugly turn...also, that "woh tumhara beta nai hai" was rude..he didnt mean it..yes...but it STUNG his wife bad. Married people do that a lot...say things they dont mean an iota...but I wish Raman thought a little bit before he spat out those words...

It does nothing except FUEL Ishita's insecurity about her barrenness (just using it in this context) more and more...Oh God! So difficult it is to parent kids...

I understand where Ishu's concern is coming from...I admit...there were days when you used to feel INFORMED after reading the newspaper...these days, whether its the daily paper we receive or the news we read online...it imbibes a sense of fear, revulsion, and apprehension for the kind of life situations and society we live in. And yet, SOME amount of trust NEEDS to be reposed in a teen/adult if the parent really wants the child to grow...and be free...

space is important in every relationship...and I get it that Vinni is a rebel and immature too...but till now she hasnt PROVED to be harmful for Adi...that Ishu has to take such PRE-EMPTIVE measures...And this has got nothing to do with Ishu being the Step-Mom or whatever...had she even been the biological mother, she wud have needed to allow some space to her child.

Yahan she is not willing to let Adi have his space. And there was Shagun who had given him TOO MUCH SPACE😔 Lag raha tha jaise baccha antariksh mein baahen failaya ghuum raha hai😆 Had Shagun been the mother, Im sure Raman wudve ensured some discipline.

So what am saying is...ALL THREE OF THEM NEED TO SIT DOWN AND TALK. Ishu shud express her concerns and talk about how the outside world operates...that shud give Adi an idea about WHY she is worried. And she shud listen to him...and allow him the space he needs...with a fair amount of discipline. Coz its just not possible to hover around him ALWAYS.

Im thinking of Ruhi...now she is v v attached to her Ishima...but once she reaches Adi's age, would she still take kindly to Ishita's rules and her way of life..her thought-process...?? I guess tab Raman would be the stricter one...But somehow, I cant agree with Ishita's MIL avtar...the look she was giving Vinni today..as if Vinni was her competition in the affection dept.😆 She surely wants Adi to be away from Vinni...but her behaviour might just push Adi more towards Vinni...that's the way it works. Always.

Why do CVs ALWAYS have to butcher either of the leads? Raat ko chain se neend nai aati kya, leads ka characterisation bigaade bina??

Also, tomorrow's fight makes me suspect...ki kahin yeh toh BASIS nai ban jayega naa Iishu ke 'bold step' kaa?? The husband-and-kid abandoning act she is supposedly going to pull IF the leap happens at all?!! Ki main toh bacchon ki real Mom hun hi nai, they wud grow up better with Shagun...and waise bhi I have cancer, I'll die...so I need to scoot off from their lives NOW??

The CVs have a nasty way of interconnecting things..am just speculating

P.S. When ACP gave the bangles and the fountain pen to Appa, he shud've also given the cash no? Which was stolen😆

P.S. About IshRa fight and the rude words Raman says...ugh...am so TIRED now...sort of given up..and accepted that's how their tiffs are gonna be volatile and mean and tear-inducing cruel ones, with Raman spouting off meanness he doesnt really mean

Edited by gravity23 - 10 years ago

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gravshrav23

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Posted: 10 years ago

I thought of keeping the less essential bits of the episode separate, so here goes -

Romi and Abhishek scene, I didnt find amusing or funny at all...prolly coz two guys dont generate as much laughter as do a guy and a girl😆 No...just kidding...

I was just BLAH. And also, the only thing I could think of when Romi took ACP out to give him "tips" on pataoing girls, I could envision his battered face, blackened eyes and a broken nose...when Abhishek gets to know Romi is the same guy who ruined his sister;s life. Wow. What a SETTING for Romi's future...

And all this nonsense Romi is up to right now isnt going to make ACP feel he is burning in remorse or anything...after ruining his sister's life...He's just gonna understand, ki yeh pehle bhi lafanga tha..aaj bhi lafanga hai...MAARO ISE...brilliant!👏

Maybe Adi will steal a page off his Mama's life and LEARN THE 10 THINGS NOT TO DO in life..😛

If someone came to ask me to be their wife for 5 minutes coz the guy's friend is about die of cancer and he wanted to see the guy married, I'd have asked him to go brush up his script and come with better lines next time. Honestly. Ladkiyan ITNI BEWAKOOF hain kya, ki itne GHATIYA pick-up line accept kar lengi?? Kuch bhi...I hope the writers are not drawing inspiration from their own lives...if yes, then God help those poor lasses...

Simmi and Mihika had a wonderful heart-to-heart today...where Mihika decided she'll stop Simmi and tell her how PROUD she is of her, to have moved on so easily.

Trust me, I was so HAPPY to not have thought once of Subbu all these days...and today, coz of Mihika's tribute to Simmi's unbroken spirit, I was reminded of the cheap fiasco from last week😔

When Mihika was lauding Simmi for being so strong and this and that, my husband piped up, "If you're so proud that she has moved on, why the heck are you STILL reminding her?" 😆 That cracked me up and I couldnt concentrate on the rest of that scene😃

Toshi ji is insanely silly and yet very cute when she does that cutie thing with her face and calls herself "jawaan"...nice..din bana diya mera😆

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victo

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Posted: 10 years ago

Awesome review

Raman and ishita was parenting adi in their own way both are correct at their views and both are not ready to accept the other view.

Romi is digging his own grave. His closeness towards ACP and his activities may land him in a huge problem when the sari ka truth is known.

ACP and mihika scene was cute.Even though it is a small thing the friendship between mihika and Romi was clearly shown. They can share even minute things.

Ishita leaving parlour coming home early and her further activities are little bit over broad. She is reacting like protecting his son from a witch

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gravshrav23

@gravshrav23

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: victo
Awesome review
Raman and ishita was parenting adi in their own way both are correct at their views and both are not ready to accept the other view.

Romi is digging his own grave. His closeness towards ACP and his activities may land him in a huge problem when the sari ka truth is known.

ACP and mihika scene was cute.Even though it is a small thing the friendship between mihika and Romi was clearly shown. They can share even minute things.

Ishita leaving parlour coming home early and her further activities are little bit over broad. She is reacting like protecting his son from a witch

Thanks dear...I wrote about the other bits in the first post below the thread... (before yours) read it if you havent had a go at it

Raman and Ishu BOTH need to compromise and decide on a MIDDLE GROUND. Either extreme wud just confuse Adi and lead him to do stupider things

Romi ko din mein bhi tare dikhenge ONCE ACP gets to know it is Romi who has ruined Sarika's life...am just waitin for tht drama..dhulai hogi uski😆

I LOVE Mihika-ACP jodi. Period.😛

About Ishu...yes...so right u r! Massage appointment chhodke seedhe ghar aa gayi...is she going to remain like that always? coz tomorrow Adi might have school picnics/trips to go to..or some competition somewhere...and maybe Vinni wud b there too..she needs to relax..

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DipaRB6

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Posted: 10 years ago

Good review buddy.

I still find this story fascinating. Like you said the blowup is bound to happen, I just wish Raman wouldn't say the crap he does. Though I've kind of accepted that it's his character flaw, the fact that Ishita doesn't hold him accountable keeps lowering my respect for her. And while I want my leads to be flawed I don't want them to be so flawed I stop rooting for them.

Abhika are getting better day by day. Dunno where they found the ACP actor but he is worthy of being on YHM. Unlike someone else we know (gosh has it only been a week ago we had to jhel that nonsense!).

The leap is rumored to happen end of July so they still have a ways to go, don't think this track will be linked necessarily to Ishu leaving if that still happens.

On shameless note, I thought we might get big C by end of week as it was shot on Tuesday but I don't see it happening :(. And no promo yet

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gravshrav23

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: DipaRB6
Good review buddy. Thanks D!!

I still find this story fascinating. Like you said the blowup is bound to happen, I just wish Raman wouldn't say the crap he does. Though I've kind of accepted that it's his character flaw, the fact that Ishita doesn't hold him accountable keeps lowering my respect for her. And while I want my leads to be flawed I don't want them to be so flawed I stop rooting for them. I find it quite interesting...and very real, this track is...but if the thing about Ishita installing CCTV cameras is true, then its really stupid and paranoid of her to do that Also, I was not expecting Raman to say THAT LINE which reduced Ishita to tears...that was really, really rude...he could've mean in 50 odd ways...why hit her where it hurts the most? As you said, am TIRED of being OUTRAGED at temper displays...I still dont like the tone and the words he uses😡

Abhika are getting better day by day. Dunno where they found the ACP actor but he is worthy of being on YHM. Unlike someone else we know (gosh has it only been a week ago we had to jhel that nonsense!). Hahahaha!! I know...the darn COMPARISON...That other brilliant actor gave us MIGRAINE-inducing performances..ACP is gud..I like him :)

The leap is rumored to happen end of July so they still have a ways to go, don't think this track will be linked necessarily to Ishu leaving if that still happens. I was just thinking ki CVs kahin se bhi kuch bhi connect kar lete hain...anyway, is the leap HAPPENING or not? I am just scared it will pounce on us wen we are least expecting it

On shameless note, I thought we might get big C by end of week as it was shot on Tuesday but I don't see it happening :(. And no promo yet Woh toh shayad ek do hafte ke liye hoga hi nai...aise fight ke beech kahan C...sukhi banjar zameen😔

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Maya

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Posted: 10 years ago

Sorry I haven't seen the episode will comment after watching

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-Atii-

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Posted: 10 years ago

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I just wanna talk about how Ishita used to be independent and how she has totally turned into this housewife(not a bad thing) but I can't seem to relate to her nowadays.. I get that she is a mother..a wife..a daughter but she is a woman too...she is herself too. I want her to have a me time...go to the clinic..where is it, btw? She needs to chill.

Loving ACP and Mihika please, please don't mess with this CVs please..😡

Been seeing Raman spend more and more time with Ananya and my heart hurts because I so wanna see him with Ishra baby the same way..I WOULD DIE.

I was rofling when Romi was giving ACP all those advices..he is being all smug but it will come and bite him in the ass 🤣🤣

The precap..watched it a million times...when I first watched it..I was like OMG WHAT THE HELL WHY PUTTAR AND BIWI then after the millionth time...I was like..wait, this is normal..THIS IS ISHRA...YEH TOH HONA HI HAI...so why am I banging my head? Ishra fighting and Raman spewing hurtful words is them..it's what makes Ishra Ishra...so I'm not fikring much about them..will sit back and enjoy the drama...this time Raman didn't actually tell her to get out..she brought it up...so not even mad at him..if I'm mad..it's only because he said she is not Adi's mom and she'd never do this to her own son if she had any...which i think is the last nail to her coffin...because whenever Shagun, Subbu, Subbu's mom taunted her about being a banj..she didn't mind..but the same coming from Raman? That must hurt her the most...because Raman is her security, her love, her comfort...and that coming from her security would make her feel even more insecure..he should be more careful with what he says to her...she is very vulnerable but she doesnt show it..this will only drive her back into her cocoon which she has and I don't think many know that she has a cocoon..she rarely talks about her problems..if you noticed..

omg, I was gonna write a short reply..it became long. lOL.

LOVED the little banter Ishra had today...

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WhyAmIHereAgain

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Posted: 10 years ago

lovely review always...

my two cents

Parenting a teenager is so difficult and when the parents are also new to parenting it becomes even more so...both Raman and Ishita is going wrong here and not understanding each other's POV...

Raman...

He clearly is taking a cool dad route..which is all fine.. but his attitude comes from "itne din baad mera beta wapis aaya hain.." which he said when ishtia challenged him to speak to Adi about the phone call...That is bound to happen..its like..i finally got my son..let him enjoy...i will not tell him hate me again fr disciplining him...

I was totally with Raman when he was cool about his going to the party... coz afterall its just kids party... but however when police came to drop him off.. he shud have just had a word with him... not to scold..but just a word.. but he was busy escaping from ishita...

then came the next point... Lying to you frnds mom about the party is a serious issue.. Raman went to talk at ishita's insistence...but before that he was all cool...hid it from Vinni's dad that he is at home... this is a small issue.. but hiding ur son's mistakes can result in serious issues.. which Raman shud be aware of.. so I was surprised that raman was acting all cool...

not a word of caution.. saying " beta, i understand ishima is overreacting may be... but you shudnt have lied...what image of ur family are you representing in front of others... that they encourage you to lie? next time..please share your problem.. i will ask your frnd's mom to let her go..."...

When Adi requested him to hide abt vinni and her visit to bhalla house...a parent shud say...i will try to convince ishima...and not hoodwink her...coz indirectly you r suggesting its okay to lie and hide stuff from ur mom if she doesnt like something...

Ishita

I think the whole concept of becoming a parent of a teenager boy is a lil overwhelming for Her..handling ruhi is easy...coz all u need is maternal instinct... but not when you r handling a teenager..that needs evolution of a mother too...

n it does seem like she is gettign a lil influenced by her mother's overinterfering attitude...

afterall we do learn from our parents...so she is not realising it, but she is becoming a lil over critical...and I found it so natural... tht ishita is afterall a human...who is bound to make mistakes too...

but is she totally at fault for being paranoid??..the fact tht the police did come to drop him off is bound to make her scared...even thou he is nt at fault... and the fact that raman is being too casual is further making her more paranoid...

its not about punishing Adi for his past, but you do need to be cautious fr someone who did show a psychological disorder not too long back...

I think I have mentioned ealrier in one of my posts..i knew a guy..single child of his parents who were trying fr a long time... highly pampered... got everything he wanted... once they refused to give him a motor bike, he tried to commit suicide...he was saved... he apologised and said he will never do it.. but then again one fine day for some trivial fight or something.. he jumped in front of a train n killed himself...

but then again..am i saying ishita is right at installing cctv..ofcourse she isnt... even if she is scared... what they both need is to tone down and understand each other.. I m sure they will eventually... n meanwhile...

.i do understand when u r angry u say things...heck i know... coz i m female version of RKB (wrt Temper) to my hubby's male version of Ishita...(🤣) but there r few things you just dont say...

PS: dont knw how much coherent my ramblings are...but here it is...😃

PSS: i posted the same @ 3 places inclusing urs... no chappals haa.. itna likha khush ho jaaa😆