Growing pains of ..erm ...parenting a teenager

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-Gan-

@-Gan-

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Posted: 10 years ago

Loved this scene...very real 😆

Raman's relief on getting a phone call from work in the middle of a difficult argument about parenting and using that as an excuse to flee the scene... As also Ishit's frustration ..reminded me of our situation at home 😆

It was a nice episode today... Brisk involving the ensemble cast in a meaningful way .

I truly get vandu's exasperation.. When will the baby come out? 😆

ACP and Mihika .. Enjoying their build up .. Thanks to the Cvs for returning us the old Mihika ..

Just wanted to make the post as the Precap reminded me... Sometimes in life everything feels right from each person's own vantage point but then something doesn't fully fit into the picture.. IShita about to discover parenting a teenager is a challenge by itself..

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-K.13-

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Posted: 10 years ago

Gan - I'm so happy you made a post for this track! I've been wanting to chat about it since it started this week. 😳

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Adi is a tween boy, and after seeing my brother live through the ages of 12-18...I can say, it's tough. Adi is not bad or evil. He's just missed out on 6 years of proper guidance & discipline. Now he is being restricted, but how would any tween boy react to going from full freedom to limited freedom? Not well. Plus this is the age where girls go from being yucky to cute...so it's fun to see young lub! 😆

Ishita was raised in a small household with only girls, who I assumed were well behaved most of the time. Then she spent a year as Ishima to the well-behaved Ruhi, but never has she regularly dealt with a tween boy. So she is using an overprotective & overbearing approach, which unfortunately will alienate Adi. Now, I have no experience being a parent, but I have been an super overbearing big sister at times...so I get where Ishita is coming from. 😆

Raman was a teen boy and had brothers, so he gets the need for space & freedom. He has had instances where he disciplined Adi, but they were far & few over the 7 years the father-son duo were separated. So even for him, this idea of being a full disciplinarian is new.

In the end - Ishita & Raman will only succeed in reaching out to Adi if they work together. They have different approaches to parenting, both of which are real and correct, but I think balance needs to be met. How they will strike this balance will be fun to watch, especially with Raman's business in the mix! 😳

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I HATE that this track is being overshadowed by leap news. Why couldn't the dumb Subbu track have been further ruined by leap news? This track is so real and so YHM.

It's bizarre because I can remember instances where my parents respectively fill the roles of Ishita & Raman, and my little brother as Adi. The dynamics are so similar...so it's like deja vu!

Watching the episodes this week reminds me why I fell in love with YHM. All the characters are in character and right in their own perspective. There is more than just 2 dimensions to the Adi track, which makes it come to life.

CVs - good job for hitting gold with this so far. It is my humble request that you try to tap these neurons more often as we progress in the show!

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Thanks for the space to ramble! 😳

Also #Puttar is the best #Fangirl for life

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Maya

@mayasun

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Posted: 10 years ago

Beautiful collages Gan

I really enjoyed the episode today.

Everyone was correct in their view point.

Adi was correct because Ishita reacted overboard with his friends so he was embarrassed

Ishita was correct because she did not want Adi to go in a wrong path as his record is not crystal clear

Raman is correct because he did not want to interfere between mother/son

After saying that I think Raman needs to leave his cool dad attitude and take on the responsibility of being a bad parent and Ishita needs to be little be relaxed and needs cool attitude to raise a teenager and Adi should learn there are consequence to lies.

After a long time I saw my 2 favorite jodi Bala and Vandu. Bala was cute being jealous and Vandita was spot on finding that Mihika has a soft spot for Abhishek

Slowly my 3 favorite jodi are Abhika. It was cute to see Abhishek pulling Mihika legs and then finding ways to meet her and old Mihika is back😆😆 with Abhishek.

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hana_y

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Posted: 10 years ago

tjx gan i enjoy n love yest ep

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Veeann

@Veeann

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Posted: 10 years ago

Gan havent seent he epi but the girls say it was realistic and enjoyable so will def see it tonight.

The collage is awesome as always.

Was just saying that I miss our puttar wars. Puttar looks delish, bad eye, long hair n all 😳 😳 😳

#PuttarIsMine
#BackOffKrishyAnnAshAnu SuHemaAru AnjParuVids DocTia

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Aru.Divan

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Posted: 10 years ago

G, those collages are gorgeo and as always puttar looks Yummy. I never backed out of puttar drooling or puttar wars. Since I hold the custody along with Becks, Puttar is already mine.

Coming to the episode, It was a very realistic one. I was like DEJA VU and I have heard them all. That little IshRa moment even though they argued for Adi, I will cherish them. With all the fear around, I can't loose my heart when it comes to IshRa.

But they were looking so cute when they spoke about Adi

Well Ishitha could have dealt with him alone. Teens get embarrassed and they brought that out. I am not sure if this is CVs way of developing Ishima Adi relation, if so please please deal it with care. It's a sensitive one. No expectations when it comes to CVs, So yea as long as I get these kind of tracks I am going to 😃, and if its a no then

Coming to Vandu, I goto feel for her. poor lady has been going through this last few days for weeks already. Get the baby already out and they can celebrate the first bday !

They are getting back Mihika we loved and ACP, I am not going to comment so soon. He is looking for his sister and it is Romi behind so might as well 🥱🥱.

#Puttarismine
#othersbackoff

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fugitives123

@fugitives123

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Gan...lovely pics as always...wanted to comment sooner...but here I am now...

Vee...hum late nahi latest hain...and I cannot back off...puttar pe mujhe haq hai 😆

I'm seeing a new side to Ishita and Raman as they tackle teenager woes. I really hope they work on this as a team and deal with Adi while he works on his "science" project.😛 Ishita should calm down a little and Raman should become a little more serious for this. Afterall, they do not want Adi turning into another Romi.

While Adi's problems are on their mind...there's only one thing on ours...Kab aayega woh shubh din?😉

And yeah one more thing...In the words of my lovely friend Hema (OnePiece)...the nation wants to know...vandu ka delivery kab hoga...

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-Gan-

@-Gan-

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Posted: 10 years ago

Lol .. It's so good to see #PuttarisMine posts😆

It feels home 😳

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OnePiece

@OnePiece

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Posted: 10 years ago

Nice collages Gan. Haven't seen the episode. These guys said it was realistic.

As you said, everyone was right in their own way. Though I felt Ishita over reacted a bit in front of his friends. It would be an embarrassing situation for Adi. She should have explained to him slowly and carefully when they were alone.

Puttar and biwi are extremes in this matter.😆 I would have liked if they explored Adi and Ishita's relation a bit more instead of rushing into Adi's love story and teenage problems. Well, whatever.

Bala and Vandu are my favourite. The most sane couple. Very very realistic. When will they baby come out?(Million dollar question). What happened to Bala's job? What happened to the case on him? They could show all these things instead of the stupid leap.

Mihika and ACP - nothing to comment. Hope it turns out better for her this time and hope she doesn't lose her brain again. I love her spunk.

#Puttar is mine too

#I never relinquished my rights

#If there's going to be a war, so be it

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K.S.

@K.S.

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Lovely collage Gan..Back to back they gave us nice episodes this week..Adi ishu's problem is very naturally portrayed..
loving raman oneliners😛
..the way he escaped imp meeeting hai..kya..kamayegi nahi tho..kya kayega..idly sambhar.. 😆
Mihika got her perfect match...vandu really looks preggy..jealousy bala was so cute too watch..and most imp is subbu free epis.. 😃

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