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Posted: 10 years ago
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I dont agree.

Jagya and anandi. Their interaction being termed as forced or unwanted.

On the otherhand if they avoid each other, then it will look forced.

They are and were married to different persons and that is one part of their lives.

The other part is remembering and reaching out to each other in times of stress.

As both of them have no vested interests, one need not read meanings in it.

As anandi is the stronger of the two, she never tells her problems to Jagya or even dadisa.

As Jagya is not mentally as strong as anandi, He wants to tell his problems to anandi as his wife is battling her own demons. Dadisa is there but he finds an excuse to meet anandi to pour out.

I find it normal and anandi's indifference is there for all to see. She is not invested in those problems but wont mind if Jagya or dadisa or mannu approaches her in givng some bhashan or advice or some sympathy.

When anandi was in Udaipur, Jagya faced problems on his own and he did not phone anandi. But ganga used to phone her and dadisa too.

Now as anandi is too close, Jagya drops in and anandi hears what he says.

Let us take some chill pills.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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True. Anandi never troubled any of the Singhs when she was in problems. She kept them away from her problems.
Infact even when whole of Shekhar family including Shiv was giving her cold shoulder she cried buckets in front of her Kanhaji that too when Shiv also turned away from her but never to Singhs

When ever she was troubled the only name that ever came to her mind was Shiv and no other name.

She called up Singhs only when she had some happy news to share.

Even when Nandini was kindnapped and she had no Shiv and no other people to share her pain she never called Dadisa.Only when Dsa made a routine call for a chat with her did she tell about Nandini's kidnap.

Then when Jagya called her up to extend his help she accepted it gladly but never asked for his help.Even then she only asked him to help Sarita if he wanted to be of help to her.

It was Ganga who called her for help from time to time despite knowing the trouble Anandi is in.

It was Dsa who wanted Anandi to campaign for Jagya and she did it not just for Jagya but for the people of Jaitser

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Even though she knew that there is friction in Jagya Ganga marriage she never said anything. only when they were arguing in the hall or at the dining table she stepped in to diffuse the situation.Never did more than that.

It was Singhs be it Dsa Ganga or Jagya who turned to her for help or for support or just to share their pain. Anandi never invited them to do so. They came to her and she did what she could do.

As for the so called filller scenes of Anandi in Jagya Ganga tracks - Yes Anandi's forced presence did not change the story but it definitely gave a different hue to the story of Jagya and his family😛😆

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Posted: 10 years ago
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How come Central character & one and only male lead scene term as filler
Anandi has no track entire serial base on her... Isn't this story about Anandi & Jagya
Anandi her kids story is base of Balika vadhu version two.. Esp Anandi reunites with Nandini is basic plot of this version ... Its long term goal ...till it comes rest of characters having their track. How come Anandi Nandini track seen now now ...isn't Anandi's super hero delayed too till 1000th episode... Whts so hurry ...
isn't in version one Sugana had her track for long time ... same with Kamli here
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Posted: 10 years ago
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True. The most awaited event in the life of Anandi was reserved to mark the 1000 th episode.
The next most awaited moment in Anandi's life will probably happen in 2000th episode.

As for the so called filler scenes of Anandi in Jagya Ganga tracks or Jagya Anandi scenes don't change the course of the story but they seem to add twist in Jagya's story while Anandi's story continues at it's own pace and nothing other than Shivam Nandini/Nimboli or Anandi's actions are used to drive this story. Simply because that is the main story in BV Ver 2.0 others are kept because they happen to be part of Dsa's story and family.
Anandi's connection with Jagya is not because of shared past but because of her attachment with Dsa.

Anandi has made this clear to Shiv way back before they were married before she even considered Shiv as her everything. She concerns herself about Jagya's well being because he is part of Singh family which is very dear to her as much as her parents are if not more. Even now it is only because of Dsa and nothing to do with her past life as Jagya's beendini or childhood friendship.


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Posted: 10 years ago
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I think its perfectly ok for two people to share their minds, when they are both aware of the ongoing situation and trust each other.
Here Anandi knew the situation very well and so when she bumped into J, she asked him how is everything with him and he shared his mind honestly.

No one is having an upper hand over the other and niether does it make anyone under. It was a simple example of how we all like to talk our mind to someone when we are facing tough situations.

That convo was not out of place.



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Posted: 10 years ago
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Anandi's presence in this track is never forced.

For Anandi her life is Shiv but BV's tag line is kachhe umar ke pakke rishte. Though both Anandi and Jagya has moved on from this evil effect of Bal Vivah. But the pure friendship which they have shared in their childhood will always keep their bond of friendship intact.

That bond is selfless. Anandi is strong and she dont need other's help but Jagya is not that strong so when he needs her she will always be there and Jagya has some confidence on Anandi that her opinios will be unbiased and he knows she only thinks good about them.


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Well it may be a friendship based on long association and mutual understanding.
But how right is it to go seek comfort from an outsider ?

Shouldn't husband and wife lean on each other at times like this?Isn't that what a good marriage is all about?

When both are going through the same pain arent they supposed to become each other's support system?

Why this desire to look for support outside the marriage?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I don't think it is a desire to look for comfort outside marriage. The two share a long and strange, but trustworthy relationship with each other.


For Anandi, it was out of courtesy to ask J how he is feeling. To which, he gave honest replies leading to a convo.

Why is there a need to read too much between the lines?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Missesha

I think its perfectly ok for two people to share their minds, when they are both aware of the ongoing situation and trust each other.

Here Anandi knew the situation very well and so when she bumped into J, she asked him how is everything with him and he shared his mind honestly.

No one is having an upper hand over the other and niether does it make anyone under. It was a simple example of how we all like to talk our mind to someone when we are facing tough situations.

That convo was not out of place.



@bold exactly.

All these questions regarding the mere mention of these two in a single scene becomes a issue...just because till date neither the writers nor the viewers/fans are able to clear the EX husband-wife status from their mind...that too when both are committed to someone else and have mostly forgotten that they are EXs long ago unless reminded by others.
they share a bond & have managed to keep that bond for the longest of time against their broken relationship with each other.
There was a time when Anandi actually ignored him...but that was only for the period when he wanted to be back to her or after his confession of having feelings for her.
other than this brief period & the period where they were husband-wife, They share a good bond & rapport with each other as friends.
But alas, the makers-viewers don't want to see them together as friends leaving their tags of EXs...infact they don't want to listen their names in each other's scenes...forget about scenes of them which is often termed as "forced", "interference" or "poking nose" or "still having feelings"🤢
& most amusingly why Jagya is expected to speak on this matter ONLY with his wife & not with anyone else?. Moreover at this moment how many "friends" Jagya/Anandi has, to share their problems related to their family lives other than each other ,...the DS <<who is family>>, Sarita & invisible lal Singh?😕
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Posted: 10 years ago
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BV is a serial to show Bal Vivah is the only truth in Balika Vadhu s life. She is forever committed to this relationship though not as an wife but as ex wife/friend/girl friend/ or whatever. Benam Rishte is to stay forever.
I think some viewers forget it and start argument. Viewers are not intellectual like BV makers. No one keeps any contact with their ex in laws and ex husband in reality. Those who keeps they are viewed as characterless but Anandi is mahan Atma.
And same will be for Nimbuli. She will fall in love with Kundan and then betrayed but her love for Akheraj s family will be there. Another Seven years.

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