Originally posted by: AnuMP
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EDITED AFTER READING THE ABOVE FRANKLY HORRIFYING POST ONE MORE TIME
Interesting attitude that.
So, if I understand you correctly, if only Arjun is allowed to act out his anger, then he would feel sorry for what he did and repent and all would be well.
Where does Samaira and her emotional and physical well being figure in all this? Or is that somehow unimportant? Is she supposed to accept Arjun's revenge and then accept him when he repents?
Also what happens if Arjun feels anger against Samrat again? Is he allowed to use Samaira as a punching bag again? You know, on account of his back story and all that.
All I can say is, if these are the generally prevalent attitudes, then Indian women don't have a leg to stand on, when they complain of misogyny.
SECOND EDIT - Please don't bash me for saying this. I am only stating my opinion
Heii.. :) Well, its not about being allowed to act out his anger. What i am trying to say is right now he can't think straight, his mind is clouded and that he already have imaginary assumptions made. He is going to listen to no one. He is going through an emotional phase. Everyone deserves a second chance. Maybe he saw half the truth in the past. But when he was kid, did anyone ever tell him that its not right, or maybe that he misunderstood their conversation or anything? For him to survive, he used this as the reason, as his motivation since he was a kid.
Not everyone repents for their wrong doings and not many people accept their fault. If they do, it shows that they still have some good left in them. Everyone is born innocent. People, environment and circumstances have the power to bring out both the best and worst in a person.
I know that Sam would be heartbroken after she get to know the whole revenge scene. But in a good way I feel that they are conveying a good message to the audience that specially we girls shouldn't trust people so easily. People can take us for granted and we never know. I feel that she is getting to learn an important lesson of life which many people does not get to unless they are already at a point of no return.
As for Sam there are people who would look into it that she isn't harmed in anyway. There are people who are standing in front of her as her shield before her enemies. And its upto an individual to forgive or not to. I cant say anything to it can I? Because she would know how hard, painful and hurt she was. If she wants to accept him, she can or if not she doesn't have to. I wonder what the CV's would decide.
I agree with you that he cant use her as he wishes. It's not fair for Sam to go through something maybe she doesn't even know had happened in the past. And I am against him treating her like a bubble of soap. And if he feels the anger again, we can talk about it then.😛 Because if it's for no reason and all, that means that he doesn't deserve her. That maybe something is really wrong with him. And yes, he cant use his past as the gold card every time after he hurts someone after the revenge plot unless he wants pity from everyone. I think that its upto the CV's to decide.
I know that my point of view and your point of view are different. I respect yours. I don't think that you deserve to get bashed for anything. You just said your opinion about it and everyone should respect one another's. 😊
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