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Posted: 10 years ago
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For anandi, Jagya and Ganga are like Sarita and others like her.

I think she makes no difference between them.

When she gave shelter to Sarita, she did not think it is interference.

When she supported Ganga against Sanchi and others, anandi did it naturally and she did not think she is interfering in BH affairs.

When she supported gulli, gulla, she did not think it is interfering in their affairs.

Anandi is also thinking of Jagya, ganga and mannu in the same way. So she never thinks that her advice will be viewed as interference. She does not think that it will enhance her image in the eyes of others. One has to understand anandi and her words in this context.

And she wont insist. She withdrew in ratan's case. Her offer is take it or leave it.

She told Gehna it is ok to consider remarriage. That does not mean she interefered. It can be called interaction than interference. Her intention is to see everyone happy.

Though I wanted to tell her so many times, 'anandi, mind your business and leave others to thier fate'

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Even if it was a not Jagya and Mannu but some family friends or Shekhar family relatives in that situation she would have reached out to help them.
She helped that little baby and his mother Ganga when they were no one to her
She helped Pooja and Sarita who were they to her?

Gehna's wedding she never had any hand in arranging the wedding . Only after wedding was fixed with Gehna's approval did they inform her . Anandi just congratulated her and said everything will work out fine when Gehna was sounding apprehensive.

Gulli and her Gulla thought they were doing the right thing so she supported them and how they convince DB is their business . The decision was Gulla's not Anandi's . DB didn't have guts to go against her grandson so she took out her frustration on Anandi and tried to ruin her life.

Sanchi did she interfere?She just cautioned her

Even Jagya Ganga problems in their marriage she never interfered but just stepped in when they were arguing in front of everyone.

She never interfered just gave advice or offered help people either accepted or rejected it according to their wishes.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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For anandi, all the world is a family and everybody a friend.

And her own family is not her entire world.

Thats the problem with anandi.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

For anandi, all the world is a family and everybody a friend.

And her own family is not her entire world.

Thats the problem with anandi.



But she did love her family a lot too Be it her parents Singhs or Shekhars. She did put their wishes above hers.
She was married to Shiv but she took her own sweet time accept him in her life but once she accepted him she did leave everything behind and she did make her world revolve around him and his family just like she did in her first marriage.Shiv valued her for that reason.She gave up a lot to be part of his life than he had given up to be part of her life.So that's the reason why he never had problems with her relationship with Singhs.
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She just reached out to people who are in distress regardless who they are part of family friends or strangers

She saw that little boy who was a stranger to her found out that he has been snatched away from his mother and she didn't hesitate risk her life same way she found Ratan in helpless condition terminally ill pining for his son and she didn't think it was right to refuse help to a man in helpless situation.
Even now she just saw a troubled boy Mannu and nothing else.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Well for all small small things we cant say anandi is interfering in Jagya life.
If mannu approach her and ask anything then she will definitely help him , in that case we cant say she is interfering in jagya life.

Well little bit interaction will be there in badi haveli matter.

And as per new article right now it seems no track for anandi.

i think full concentration on kamli marriage and new bride for kundan .

Even if there will be any scene between mannu and anandi it willbe for a few minutes.

now even jagya will come to know about mannu and pooja relation .
so that shows anandi will take rest . I think now no major track for anandi .
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I believe speaking in the matter when no one asks your opinion neither your opinion is needed is called interference and this great logic to defend her Jagya and Ganga arguing in front of everyone and she so called gave her sane advice? In that particular scene which is brought here They had difference Dadisaa cooled down the matter so what was the need of great Anandi to speak and she not only spoke over confident woman thinks Jagya gives more weight to her words than his wife 👎🏼she should move out so he can listen to his wife only Get calmer hearing her words 🤡 What makes madam Anandi thinks he opts her so called advice more than his wife ? First this woman speaks herself no one asks her opinion She speaks and lecturing Jagya has been her passion She has been doing that even before his marriage with Ganga as if she is his mother He cannot handle his life needs her so called advices while as a viewer i know Jagya does what he wants to do He dislikes Anandi's lectures He has said that many times Even to Sanchi he said i have my principles for right and wrong and i don't like anyone's unnecessary interference in that

but Anandi she not only lectures Jagya then she also has over confidence he gives more weight to her words so she will do great favor on his wife by moving out so he can start listening to her? Even Dadisaa knew Anandi was totally wrong there in her thinking Jagya got calmer hearing her words no he did not thats why she was pacifying her in the first place Don't worry you did the right thing but he remains stressed out due to work load thats why remain irritated
Anandi lectures around Jagya and speaks in his matter even when no one asks her opinion neither it is needed but She bulldozes in then she is so over confident he listens to her more than anyone while Jagya he does not even bother to give her any explanation about his personal life He gives to Dadisaa Yes he does but not to Anandi because he does not consider she is anyone he should give her explanations about his personal matter

Anandi questions Jagya who gave Gauri right to speak in the matters which are not concerned to her then someone should ask Anandi who gave her right to question jagya ? Does Jagya questions you on her on her personal front why she cannot be like that ?Give suggestion when needed but each time interfering when neither her opinion is needed but she think Jagya only listens to her more so jump in his matter 🤢

When she has no knowledge about the happenings in his personal life then what right she had to lecture him he does not understand his wife and doing injustice with her ? How she accuse him he can do injustice with his wife ? How rude of her blaming him he does not understand his wife cannot see her love for him 👎🏼 That was her so called sane advice when she so rude there and her entire lecture was wrong because the fact she knows nothing about his personal matters How she will know He does not need to show case that in front of her or tell her so why lecturing him ? why falsely accusing him ?

Dadisaa she is the elder but she knows Jagya and Ganga are mature individuals Its their life let them handle it She only speaks when most needed but Anandi when she remains quiet ?

and in last episode she could only say this Mannu is a mature kid he will understand He will understand you and Ganga

That would be sensible from her She wanted to console Jagya naa who was worried for his son This would be excellent words from her

but no madam ji had to add with it too i will make Mannu understand if he did not understand Ganga

Again showing off as if she is only the problem solver for JaGan 🤢why ?why she thinks if Ganga could not make Mannu understand then even Jagya and Dadisaa won't be able to She directly took her name after Ganga ?




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