Paanchi is a wrong choice for Titu

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Posted: 10 years ago
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If Titu married a woman like Bhagwati, she would respect him, love him and take care of him like his mother. With that her son would also get a great father. One day Bhagwati's son would run the business of GN.

If Titu married Vaisali , Vaisali would brain wash his mother. She would throw Mukund's family out of house and became the ruler of GN's empire. May be she would do some brain wash to Titu too and turn him like another Mukund or his mother. About her love for Mukund, she married Mukund to get the property of GN. If Titu was her husband, I don't think she would have any interest for a beggar like Mukund. May be later she and her son would run the business too. They say empire Jahangir was no good, it was actually his wife Nurjahan who ruled India. So why Titu, it can be his son and his wife too.

If Titu was married to Ruhi, he or she didn't have to think about a thing. Both are prem ka pujari. They would survive on love. Ruhi isn't a demanding girl. She earns her own living. She is not practical, so no matter how worse the situation would be she would stay with Titu for the sake of love. May be later if Titu turned beggar, she would provide for him. Titu would live happy with her.

For Panchi"why did she marry Titu? Because Titu is good looking, he talks nice, he is the hero of Mathura and son of a rich man. Then what is bothering her now? Manorama or Rachna? Why Rachna is calling Titu nikattu-----when her husband was suppose to be a murderer if Titu didn't saved him by his intelligence. Her husband would be a thief and spend rest of the life in jail if Titu didn't take all the blame on his shoulder and give up the shop. Rachna and her nikattu pati actually made Titu jobless. Who likes to work in a shop like that? Specially when the guy is Titu. If the shop was about woman's product, I think it would be easier for Titu to adjust there than a general store. But Panchi couldn't trust Titu. Or gave freedom to him to be charming, she wanted Titu to get fat and one day turn like another GN by working in a general shop. But if he had that shop , may be one day he would get adjusted. But Nikattu Rachna and her nikattu husband ruined that dream of her. So who should be called nikattu here? Titu or Rachna and her husband?

I felt very ashamed of the way she displayed Titu in front of her friends. Insulted and humiliated him and his mother. If you can't respect someone , leave. Don't insult. She was a better student than Titu. Her parents had high hope for her. High hope doesn't mean getting married to a rich guy or a guy who has a job. What did she do with her educational qualification? She is doing just like Rekha, Surekha, Bhagwati or Vaishali. Then what is the need of her education and high score? She could get a job like Rachna's husband , be someone. Or may be take care of GN's business than pulling rickshaw .Is this a rule that husbands always earn and wife will take care of the house?

Because of her insecurity she has destroyed Mukund+Vaisali+Rekha's dream too. If Titu didn't participate in that USA interview, Mukund would and may be with the help of Panchi he would pass and go to USA with his family and later take his bro too. Then Titu would take the charge of the business and family. But no. Panchi is so selfish that she couldn't let Mukund win. She wanted her husband to win and separate Titu from his mother. Although Titu supported her, but I don't think he would go to USA even if he got that job, specially by leaving his dearest mother.

Yes, there are some major issues in Titu. Like he doesn't like to take shower, he doesn't walk etc. She needs to solve those first than pushing the guy to earn. Who can run without learning to walk first? When they left home. I thought Panchi would lay on the road like Titu and let Titu find a home for them. Even if he could digest that, but when Panchi would start to change her dresses in front of 5000 men on the road"I don't think Titu could survive that. Yes he has mobile, but to charge that he needs electricity. Without a home"how will he charge? If I was in her situation , I would do that. Be more lazy than the lazy person. Titu would manage a shelter somewhere. When he would feel hungry, he would manage food. May be first 2-3days he would live on Prasad from Mandir, but that guy has self respect. So sure he would find a job. Within those 24days he would at least turn in to "Insaan". But now she is not motivating him, just insulting the guy, which I don't think will help him in any way.

Her this sudden idea of getting arrested and force Titu to earn 15K for her bail money is another ridiculous idea. Is earning money makes someone hero ? Then a thief is a hero too. How will he earn 15K within a day? Is this possible in an honest way? Why she is giving so much importance in only his earning-------why not thinking about his change of character? Specially his laziness? She has separated him from his mother and turned in to another mother. By preparing yummy food for him, ironing cloths for him, sending him to crche, even earning money to feed him? I mean why she is taking the hard way? Simply don't earn. Don't prepare food, don't iron his cloths, don't supply him water to use---------isn't that the easiest way to change the guy's bad habits? The whole idea of Paanchi is becoming pointless. I'm neither understanding what she wants or what is her problem?

Is she upset because what world calls her husband? If she loves him who cares about the world?

Is she upset because she wants to live on his earning? Then why did she marry a rich guy's son?

Is she upset because Titu doesn't work? Then why she is working for him?

More than Titu I'm getting confused about Paanchi. What she wants? Once she says she loves him and can't tolerate what other say about him. Then why she doesn't argue with them? Why she doesn't remind Rachna that it was Titu who saved her husband twice? Or to Rachna's saas------it was Titu's father who provided money for her kabil son's honeymoon. How respectful is that to go to a honeymoon on other's money?

And if she thinks Titu has problem with his character------then why she is concentrating on his money? Why not try to change his character and bad habits? His father has a business. When he will change his habits he will work there. Then why so much drama is needed?

15,000 ? How will it come?

Best way I can guess is----------Titu can loot another guy and get 15000 bail money. Next free Paanchi . Then he will stay in prison for his crime and GN will pay for his bail money. Yah! It's funny. But what best solution can be there? 😆

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I don't think Panchi's purpose is not only to make titu earn money. If he married a woman like Bhagwati, even she would try to do the same because she was also trying to fill confidence in keshav that he is a hard working man and not to feel inferior. If he married a woman like Vaishali there will be no guarantee that she will keep this relation for a life time. A man although he has a pure heart and very special qualities society will not respect him until he starts working. Because society is habituated to listen to winner's message. This is what Panchi wish is trying trying to make him understand. Even Panchi is learning about titu's character with every incident
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Titu has some shortcomings and if someone truly loves anyone, he/she takes full responsibility to make sure that the other person overcomes that shortcomings. Titu doesn't earn, which simply means he doesn't own anything in his life - neither the clothes, the materials...Yes he has the ability of making people happy but that is not the way life is lived.

A man is respected in a society when he or she is credible enough to take responsibilties. And the best way of judging that credibility is the kind of work or she does. That's why people will more respect and trust to a fact said by a scientist then let say a rickshawala.. All Panchi want for Titu is that he becomes capable enough to suffice his needs and to some extent Panchi's need, because that is a mark of a credible man.

If Titu lacks that credibility it is not wrong on Panchi's part to correct him. Earlier Panchi tried to make him realize why working is important.Since, it didn't work, she tried to hurt his self respect by doing all that antics.. But surprisingly Titu doesn't have any sort of self respect (which is very obvious in a person who is nikhattu); although he does care about the respect of his family members but that is not sufficient enough
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Very good. Panchi wants him to work.
But where is she letting him to work?
They came out from house , then she should start depending on Titu. Let him realize that he needs to do something.
But no. She rented a house, told Titu that she has money, cooked, cleaned----------I mean why did she do that?
Simple way-----------Let him do his works. Start earning for living. If she keeps him pampered like his mother-------how will he learn?

I think the places they are searching for Titu to work such as general store, rickshaw etc are wrong.
He knows lots of things about religion------priest's job can be his profession.
He is a good motivator-------he should work in places like rehabilitation centers. He is like those kids -------when you will tell them, "today I'm going to teach" and they will run away.

He has a great heart so he should work were his heart can connect. Like Asylums, rehabs, old care homes etc. He is a people person. Rickshaw , general store---------that doesn't suit him.

Even in today's episode we found him where? Madir. That's his passion. Helping the other.
Remember how he made that holi beautiful with flowers? The mayor sent him letter and GN felt so proud. GN doesn't want him to earn and be richer than him. He just want him to be someone great, so that he can get proud of his son. I think even Paanchi wants that.

Or else earning only money can never bring respect, not even in society. Respect comes from helping other , not from earning money. Seriously---------what is happening to our present society? Who cares what a man has in bank? As long as that man does something for the people? The most horrible thing of today is that people are forgetting about people like Mahatma Gandhi, Ishwarchandra Vidyasagar----------who devoted their life for other's good. Becoming a human means be like them or at least try to be like them. What will society do with 100crore club? Who gives nothing for society?

And also Manorama, Vaishali etc are not only the part of society. Chandu, his mother and all those people who stood by Titu when GN wanted to send him to Agra are also part of society. No one told Titu to help those people. There was no Panchi, no GN-------that was Titu's decision. I don't know ---------if Panchi loved him for those deeds? How did she forgot that? I mean kahan gayi woh Panchi? She should inspire and motivate to do good for other. Food, shelter, cloth---------are those the only problem in life? Or what Manorama says , how to compete with Rachna is life?

Society respects only those, who do something for society---------that person can be rich or poor. But his work for society and its welfare is needed. Which potential is hidden inside Titu---------just one Saarthi is needed to wake him up. I hope Paanchi would know that. Than wasting his potential or insulting him just to earn money to eat and buy her cloths. That's Rachna's problem. Not Titu's. He is a great guy. He should work in social services were he will let other smile, live and enjoy.

Let that guy be a great man, just what his father wants. Thus he will be the hero of Panchi. He can be a star if she can guide him well...but all she is doing is throwing him to the wrong path.

I hope if Bhagwati was Titu's wife, she could atleast do this to Titu. She was a teacher and a good mother. Titu is a better person with less problems than Keshav.
Edited by jhalak7 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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can't tell if you're joking or not 😕
titu, as wonderful a guy he is, is living in fairy land of sorts. if you live a life of make-believe, your life isn't worth anything until you do something that does challenge your reality.
panchi is trying her best to get titu to do something. anything. is she making some mistakes along the way? absolutely. but it's not like she's got a degree in "get-nikhattu-pati-moving-and-shaking". she's bound to make mistakes. it's a challenge for her but it's a goal worth working for :)

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