Why won't Shaad accept the fact that this is his fault?

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notacrimetolove

@notacrimetolove

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

If Shaad had told Sanam the truth from day one then she wouldn't be in this state right now. If he told her rather than letting all his lies build up and let her be put into horrible situations again and again then she wouldn't be in the state she is right now. He's delusional and because of her association with him it is affecting Sanam too. He's choosing to bury his head in the sand instead of face the problem and encouraging Sanam to do the same.

The only reason she's getting distraught now by her past is because of the lies and the fact that Shaad didn't bother to tell her straight away. If he had then she wouldn't be surprised by the questions and would have kept an open head about finding her family and her past but no because of Shaad's lies she's distraught and in this condition. She isn't troubled by her past, she's troubled by her past and these questions BECAUSE of your lies there's a difference. Your lies confused her and if you had told her the truth straight away then she would have been scared but slowly accepted it but no because of your lies now she suddenly melts down if someone even asks her some questions.

Honestly Shady has turned her into china doll that breaks as soon as a little bit of pressure is put on her. Sanam used to be so strong and calm but Jannat is weak and dependant and OTT. Imo Sanam Ahmed Khan would be ashamed of Jannat right now.

Edited by Maria_Shaukat_9 - 10 years ago

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chicksoup

@chicksoup

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Posted: 10 years ago

Because Shaad is blind and believes he can complete Jannat's world. He thinks every love story on the face of earth pales in comparison to his...and every time Jannat tries to remember her past, she faints..Half conveniently, he takes that as an excuse to keep her in the dark... Also, he is not that bright to realise what exactly is wrong with Jannat...

Basically, he really really believes he is the only answer to Jannat's problems.🥱

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chicksoup

@chicksoup

Sparkler

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Posted: 10 years ago

At the beginning of Pak track, I had said somewhere that Seher Ahmed Khan would be horrified to see her sister like this.😆

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flora212

@flora212

Stunner

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Posted: 10 years ago

The answer is in your post maria 😆 he is delusional and has imbalanced mind 😛

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micshy

@micshy

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Posted: 10 years ago

Because he is mentally unstable and delusional ,and to add a bit hes insensitive too...

He told a lie, n was about to get the things straight, but then he realized that the girl can be the "tool" to lead him to his obssession SK so he continued with it, after all that marriage drama, he put her in a vulnerable situation n position, while lying to her he fell in "sachi muhabbat" within a span of 2 weeks, n then due to his incompetency as an army officer , he lost all his family to his obbssession SK,

Sadly the newly aquired wife could not bear the stress n he himself just forgot that it all is a lie, he thinks hes the only one left fr him in this world. Her choice, her opinion, her heart mind n soul be damned , he has the right to keep herself with him ,

If he speaks the truth, he will lose her ...

Now in all this, does this man appear anywhere like a guy with a sound mind 😕😕 i can never understand him or his actions

Edited by micshy - 10 years ago

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Mandy

@MrDarcyfan

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Posted: 10 years ago

Maria her "Past" was never the problem! It is her present that is the problem! She had an accident where she hit her head and she forgot her memories. Someone said she is his wife and she believed him. Originally he just said it to save her. Then coz he knew she had information he needed, he was afraid if she knew she had memory loss and tried too hard to remember her past, then she may forget what she witnessed in the riots. (As told to him by Doctor who informed him she had amnesia). He decides to let the lie stand "for now" to preserve the info. Then wedding drama happens and he has to acknowledge her as his wife in front of people. Here too he did it to make sure she and her "witness account" stays, and also he gets out of unwanted marriage! All calculated.

From that point we know what happened. He started to forget reality and got lost in his own "make believe" world and started to pretend he really WAS her husband. He forgot that Jannat was a fake name he gave a perfect stranger and started to even lecture his Father on how much of a "better" husband he is, when he was not even a husband! LOL. Then the two week Beinteha love and closed off missing file and then things just turned hell creepy! His family gets murdered while he looks for his fake wife, leaving his duty for which he is paid. She then becomes a wreck and even more emotionally weak. Now she needs injections to stay healthy because of excessive anxiety. He increases her mental health problems by negating everything she says when she talks of her past or memories. He tells her HE is her only reality!

In short, Shaad thinks he is in "Charge" of Jannat / Sanam's life! He "owns" her. He thinks he knows what is best for her! HE alone makes all the decisions and she is just a "Puppet" and yes like you said a China Doll. A weak pale shadow of her former self. Yes Sanam Ahemed Khan would be shocked to see Jannat right now. The person she has become. Even her sister would be shocked to see her right now. Her grandmother, her cousin. Non would know this anxious and dependent women who needs medication to stay normal and function! I feel so sorry for her! But NO. Shaad does not want to acknowledge that it is HIS lies and his actions that have led her to the place she is in now! Him and her association with him is what has landed her in this position of mental instability and weakness now. Because she has gone through too much trauma and she cant take anymore! But NO. He will not acknowledge that this has happened through his fault! He thinks he is what she "Needs!" When the truth is she is what he "Wants" and this is not, and never was about her! It always was and always will be about him! He loves himself more than anyone else! The only other thing he loves more is his SK obsession! SHE is his true love! Not Sanam / Jannat!

Edited by MrDarcyfan - 10 years ago

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ashlesha2

@ashlesha2

Dazzler

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Posted: 10 years ago

pyaar insaan ko pagal kar deta hai🤣

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SheAish

@SheAish

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

Because the makers want to have the cake and eat it too when it comes to Shaad and Sahil.

Edit: Sorry guys, this part of my post got deleted by mistake while posting.

See this lie is what is keeping Sanam and Shaad together and him believing Sanam's condition has noting to do with this lie helps to keep this premise intact so even Ahil can be bought into believing how remembering the past is so traumatic for her and thus not to force the issue for as long as they want to keep Sanam and Shaad together...

Too bad not everyone in the forum is foolish enough to fall for 'its too traumatic for Sanam to remember her past and be told the truth'' idiocy.

Sorry but keeping her away from her family does not fit into this at all...so better think up some other hoopla cvs..😳😕

They seem to believe that as long as Sahil is shown in one frame with Ahil doing the hearbroken act in the background feeling like a third wheel in the greatest 'love' story between Shaad and Jannat, both the Sahil and fake couple's fans would be happy.

See we get Sahil as endgame at the last week of the serial when TRPs have hit rock bottom and they get Shaad and Jannat till then...

What they forget is that Sahil fans are not here just for a few touchy feely scenes between Sahil, but THEIR STORY...while the others couldn't care less WHAT the story with their couple is, as long as they get the couple together...

I so hope this is not the story that KV came back for...and the guy does not get duped into carrying this story forward again int the same vain.🤢

Edited by SheAish - 10 years ago

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simran_singh_24

@simran_singh_24

Rocker

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Posted: 10 years ago

His fault? What do u mean?

It's all because of her traumatic past. Never mind, he knows nothing of it.

She was the Nawaben.Doesn't matter. She had a family, a loving husband.Doesn't matter.

It' also has to do with his level of IQ & EQ which are below zero and these make him incapable of processing any information well enough to decide anything.

And, he is afraid of being alone.I don't know about darkness.

i wonder, whether I can make a song out of this🤣

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JShukla

@JShukla

Inactive

Posted: 10 years ago

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OMG! you mean the guy who had zero guilt when his family died due to HIS incompetency as an army guy, would show guilt for Sanam's current medical condition?

He will call the Bhopali Janata martyrs if they die in SK's bomb blast. He will call Sanam's real flashbacks hallucinations as they do not help him in anyway.

His shoulders are too frail to accept the burden of guilt.

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