Help me understand why Simbu marriage is worse than IshRa
First i am not for Simbu marriage and i am a big fan of IshRa/DivAn.
I am just trying to understand why Simbu's marriage is any worse than IshRa marriage.
How did YHM became worse than before?YHM always supported old thinking of last century.
Ishita married a much worse person(which is not true BTW), isn't that what she thought.
Ishita thought raman was a heartless ruthless business man who doesn't love his daughter, beat his son black and blue, misbehaved with her, sent her parents to jail.She married for Ruhi,Neither Raman nor Ishita loved each other.
If ishita and raman are in your real life, will you support ishita to marry a person like raman(With the knowledge of what Ishita and Iyers knew about Raman before marriage)? Can anybody in real life tolerate ex like shagun.
If IshRa can marry for Ruhi ke liye , why can't Simbu marry for Ananya ke liye.
Just like ishita was attracted to ruhi, Subbu is attracted to Ananya.What guarantee did raman have that Ishita will love his whole family and not just ruhi.
Yes the one difference is Subbu is ishita's ex, but isn't everybody from ishita,raman,bala and Iyers have forgiven and accepted subbu back.
I don't support toshiji and her thinking one bit, but wasn't Mrs.Iyer behaved the same way when Ishita was unmarried.Unlike Simmi, Ishita had a good career and was strong and independent.Why couldn't she adopt a kid and live an independent life, why does she need a man or marriage,but Mrs.Iyer was thinking that world ends for Ishita if she is not married.They got Ishita married to Raman whom she hated and to a family which Mrs.Iyer hated, just because a girl can't be single and independent.
The point is YHM never had Nayi soch, it was always purane soch, right from
Ishra marriage ,
Ghar ka Chirag,
supporting damaad (param) when he tried to molest ishita,
forgiving and inviting param to live in bhalla house,
Mihika becoming tyaag ki murti,
Mrs.Iyer and Mrs.Bhalla's soch,
Rinki marriage,
Not to mention subbu's mom ,
sarika-romi kaand,
Ramans behavior off late,
Ishita's many JM kaand and many more
