why i dont sympathasize with Shaad Aftab Khan

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Posted: 10 years ago
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First of all , the inspiration behind this post comes from Mandy's fun poll, though it was fr the sake of fun but yesterday looking at Jannat's condition, this is what i wanted to do, give a tight slap on Shaad's face...
My heart went to Jannat ( althoygh a big part of me was angry on her as well , why cant she still think clearly 😡😡, why us she not even qyestioning once)

Kher anyways, coming to that later ... .

The way she was being questioned about, the way she was being humiliated. She was being declared "a spy, a terrorist" the way she was being questioned and being taken away, her cries just echoed in my mind afterwards too, she was cluesless about every thing, she doesnot know a bit, she was calling one man wh she thinks can trust, and who is the "only cause" of thiz mess,

Even if these are goons sent by Misbah, still even if real immigration officers or more horribly police or intelligence official agency personell would have come. She would hv been humilited eveb more, how do people treat a terrorist ...

And coming to Major Shaad, frst of all his acting was good yesterday, he was begging to Jannat to trust him ,and listen to him, and i felt not a bit if sympathy or pity,rather such a raging anger was all i could feel, does this guy have an inch of an idea , "his oh so minor lie" has put her in such a miserable n horrible situation ...

I dont sympathisize him , not at all, if he would hv told her the truth or done something constructive regarding finding her roots , all of this n much more could hv been avoided ...


About Jannat, i seriously dont get whats making her trust Shaad so much, why aint she thinking For God's sake. ... This is so unreal man, although im feeling really bad fr her right now but still theres a big part of frustration as well...

And regarding all the hullaboo over "Shaad rescuing Sanam" he is "the one" responsible for all this mess ... 😕

No matter how much he cries or begs, he wont get my symapathy,


Note: not intended to instigate fan wars, as an audience, i felt n wrote about a situation and a character ... Not bashing the actor , not moral policing, this is what i felt watching yesterda's episode ... Those who share my sentiments are more than welcome to share their thoughts 🤗those who dont share , well what can i say. Ignorance is the best option

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Mischy, I do hope those who were questioning Aahil's misplaced 'immense' trust in his Ammi question Jannat's misplaced immense trust in Shaad..

But I believe we wont see that happening. Now how is Aahil's trust in his Ammi he had known since childhood, who went to Jail for him ( according to him), incorrect.
Odd really that it was a crime for Ahil to trust his Ammi and stand by her, but not so for Rehan and he was mostly excused of his actual crime in being a passive audience to a crime happening.
Odd it is that Jannat must be violated and dishonored by a dishonorable man but she must continue to have faith in him and it will be shallow of her to forget that he saved her life.(isn't this what the Shajan shippers say). really the first time she was saved like any Army guy worth his uniform must save her. in all the later scenarios, it was he who brought the murder attempt on her.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Mischy, you know how I feel about this whole subject! This girl's condition right now is ALL due to the Sharrif Shayar! I felt not ONE ounce of sympathy for him and your right, wanted to give him a tight slap across the face! He really did look backed into a corner and I felt happy to see him in that condition!

ALL these weeks he thought he could selfishly keep lying to this girl, his Dad, his family and anyone down the road that asks that this strange girl is his "Wife!". It got to the point where HE decides to permanently keep her in the dark and "Keep" her with him! Being from the Army what did this selfish jerk think? That he can keep some strange women in his house for good without EVER being found out? Seriously? He is not just a creep but deluded as well! He has brought the Army, his Father and his family into disrepute with his third class actions!


Now to shamelessly tell this girl "I will explain!". Explain WHAT? That everything he told her for the past few weeks was ALL lies? That she is not his wife, he doesn't even know her real name and she has been sleeping with a stranger for the past weeks? What else is he going to explain? I feel NO sympathy for him at all, and if he saves her now that is his DUTY not some "Heroism", coz it is all HIS fault that this has happened to her. That she is in danger from these goons, and if they were real officials, then she is in danger of being treated as a criminal!


IF he had done his duty and found out who she was, this would NOT be happening. While he was "Play acting" being a good husband and giving hypocritical lectures to his Father, if he had been a "Good human being" and done the right thing, the DECENT thing a "True gentlemen" would do, then this would not be happening. This man is a cheap fraud and he deserves to be punished by the maximum force of law. I hope his DAD gets him arrested when he finds out the truth! HE is the only person in that house I respect! Shaad does not deserve anything but disgust!
Edited by MrDarcyfan - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I can't sympathise with liars, even tho' they are deluded and need treatment more than the amnesic women they hold captives.

More than Jinnat getting memory back, i want SK to burst him badly.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: minnie2308

Mischy, I do hope those who were questioning Aahil's misplaced 'immense' trust in his Ammi question Jannat's misplaced immense trust in Shaad..

But I believe we wont see that happening. Now how is Aahil's trust in his Ammi he had known since childhood, who went to Jail for him ( according to him), incorrect.
Odd really that it was a crime for Ahil to trust his Ammi and stand by her, but not so for Rehan and he was mostly excused of his actual crime in being a passive audience to a crime happening.
Odd it is that Jannat must be violated and dishonored by a dishonorable man but she must continue to have faith in him and it will be shallow of her to forget that he saved her life.(isn't this what the Shajan shippers say). really the first time she was saved like any Army guy worth his uniform must save her. in all the later scenarios, it was he who brought the murder attempt on her.


Minnie its the different standards applied , when its regarding Aahil even his qualities are twisted to look like flaws, n when it comes to Shaad, his "big visible flaws" are just shaken apart and brushed aside , ,,,,,, not only by the shippers but the writers as well...

Btw ehat is he saving her from??? Can anybody tell me please,,,,, those people in Uch sharif are gone, neithet are they xoming back to kill them,

I hv always stood by what @Jshukla has said that he did not need to say shes his wife, he could hv said his sister too, it dint make any difference ...

By lying to her, he did not "Save" her , he has put her into a much much more horrible and digusting condition... She trusts a stranger. She is bestowing upon him her yrust. Her love and all thoze rights that a husband deserves n whats she getting in the end,,,,,, suspicion of being a spy and when her memory will cime back, i m just thinking the Sanam we knew, how broken she will be, living with a stranger like her husband... It gives me shudders...
The makers are taking the story into deep pits, right now im totally cluesless what do they actually want to show,

If they want us to feel bad aboyt Shaad then they have failed complteley, hes coming out as the bigger villian 😕
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Right...^^😲 he could have called her his sister... besides isn't it odd for a man who had a serious altercation with his dad regarding his marriage. His argument being that he did not want a wife at all..

and then bang...in the next scene he claimed her as his wife. .😆😉 chakkar kya hai.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan

Mischy, you know how I feel about this whole subject! This girl's condition right now is ALL due to the Sharrif Shayar! I felt not ONE ounce of sympathy for him and your right, wanted to give him a tight slap across the face! He really did look backed into a corner and I felt happy to see him in that condition!

ALL these weeks he thought he could selfishly keep lying to this girl, his Dad, his family and anyone down the road that asks that this strange girl is his "Wife!". It got to the point where HE decides to permanently keep her in the dark and "Keep" her with him! Being from the Army what did this selfish jerk think? That he can keep some strange women in his house for good without EVER being found out? Seriously? He is not just a creep but deluded as well! He has brought the Army, his Father and his family into disrepute with his third class actions!


Now to shamelessly tell this girl "I will explain!". Explain WHAT? That everything he told her for the past few weeks was ALL lies? That she is not his wife, he doesn't even know her real name and she has been sleeping with a stranger for the past weeks? What else is he going to explain? I feel NO sympathy for him at all, and if he saves her now that is his DUTY not some "Heroism", coz it is all HIS fault that this has happened to her. That she is in danger from these goons, and if they were real officials, then she is in danger of being treated as a criminal!


IF he had done his duty and found out who she was, this would NOT be happening. While he was "Play acting" being a good husband and giving hypocritical lectures to his Father, if he had been a "Good human being" and done the right thing, the DECENT thing a "True gentlemen" would do, then this would not be happening. This man is a cheap fraud and he deserves to be punished by the maximum force of law. I hope his DAD gets him arrested when he finds out the truth! HE is the only person in that house I respect! Shaad does not deserve anything but disgust!

Same here Mandy, Shaad is the one responsible fr the mess n horrible situation shes in. N it will get even worse. The more lies he will stack, the more miserable is Jannat going to become...

U know it was such a nauseating watch fr me Mandy, im cursing myself why did i watch that scene... The way he was "screaming n beghing Jannat to trust him" ... TRUST HIM??? He will explain everything... Do he have an explanation,,, do he have a justifucation???? It was such a sickening watch ... "Janna's cries n this word " bharosa" was echoing in my mind i wad like feeling so so disgusted n sick at the same time,,,
Shaad should never use the word "mujhpe bharosa karen" ever again, he himself knows he doesnot deserve her trust ...

Hes not the gentle man as he is gushed to be , but thats not my problem, just as u hv said, a person should be a good human being, more than a gentleman,...

"Gentlemanly mein jo karlia hai usne, us se to koi ordinary ganwar Aadmi zyada behtr hoga" what kind of a gentleman is he,

And when i read, "Shaad should save Jannat, this thing just boils my blood, Shaad should stay as far away as possible frm Jannat, that would be his biggest " ehsaan" 😡
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: simran_singh_24

I can't sympathise with liars, even tho' they are deluded and need treatment more than the amnesic women they hold captives.


More than Jinnat getting memory back, i want SK to burst him badly.


So true simmy ( i hope u dont mind me calling u that 😛)
Gosh u know, he should be made a fun of infront of his own army,
What kind of an officer he is, Getting fooled by a 20 yr girl , and getting obssessed over a total stranger whom he finds just randomly clse to the border n she has to tell that she has lost her memory ... He falls in "sachi muhabbat" over a period of 2 weeks. Tells a thousand lies to keep her "close" to her

Honestly , they r insulting Pak army like thiz 😡😡
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: minnie2308

Right...^^😲 he could have called her his sister... besides isn't it odd for a man who had a serious altercation with his dad regarding his marriage. His argument being that he did not want a wife at all..

and then bang...in the next scene he claimed her as his wife. .😆😉 chakkar kya hai.


Chakkar is "double standards",
Lecturing others is a very easy thing to do ,,,,, thats what people always like to do
" apne girebaan mein nahi jhaanktey"😕
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: micshy


So true simmy ( i hope u dont mind me calling u that 😛)
Gosh u know, he should be made a fun of infront of his own army,
What kind of an officer he is, Getting fooled by a 20 yr girl , and getting obssessed over a total stranger whom he finds just randomly clse to the border n she has to tell that she has lost her memory ... He falls in "sachi muhabbat" over a period of 2 weeks. Tells a thousand lies to keep her "close" to her

Honestly , they r insulting Pak army like thiz 😡😡

Michsy, pl feel free to call me Simmy/Sim 😃
Have nothing to add about Bad Shad, that's not said already😆

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