During the launch of the show it was widely reported by media articles and interview from the cast that the show is about how the character of Ram raises himself up with the help of the children from hitting rock bottom in the aftermath of his wife's death..
To show this concept, they need to establish some basic facts.. There are so many people amongst us who lost thier spouse, but not everyne hits the rockbottom.. What makes Ram lose himself in the depression? They needed to establish the strong love & bonding between the couple and also how Anu is the anchor in thier realtioship.. Even then just the pain of losing the love of your life is not enough to make a person fall into the pits.. More stronger reasons are needed, thats why they are establishing the guilt factor, how Ram is going through not just grief, but also the guilt of not able to save her and indirectly helping her to end her life. This powerful combination of grief and guilt would prove to be the strong trigger point in pushing him to depression.
They also needed to establish the characteristics of the daughter as she is supoosed to be anchoring her father in his times of need. For-that, they need to show her as a matured individual. It is true that most teenagers are fun loving, but they can also show the mature side when needed.
The last 16 epaiodes were dedicated to establishing these factors, and 95% of the scenes were realistic and relevant. For most part, the screen play had been tight, technical aspects very good, and some power packed performances. There were certainly some glitches here & there which probably cannot be avoided in a daily show.. A 2 hour movie is made for a better part of a year, with months spent on dubbing, editing, background music, and other technical aspects, whereas in a TV show, they need to do all the work, including shooing, editing, adding BG, etc for a half an hour episode in a day or day & half. Is it possible to achieve the same technical thoroughness?
From the time the first news about the show started circulating in the media, it was reported that the show is inspired from the movie Daddy. If that is the case, it is obvious that the leads of the show are the father - daughter duo.. Not all shows need to have a romantic couple as the leads. Having the Father - Daugther as the leads in one of the trendsetting facet of the show.. I don't know about the mindset of the audience, whether they can accept a show without a romantic pair at the helm.. But I certainly applaud this brave initiative by the makers to set a show based on the relationship between the father & daughter.. It is still possible that the daughter may have a romantic interst later in the show (after she grows up a bit more).
What I like most about the show is the subtlety in acting.. The grief and pain are shown so subtly and naturally, which is the reality in life. The grown up individuals cry, but mostly it is silent cry.. And they don't cry anywhere and everywhere, they can't afford to be... Along with the pain, they also need to carry on with the motion of living.. That is portrayed briliantly here.. Ram & Anu were suffering, but their suffering came out mostly when they were alone, that too in a very subtle way.. Rsm shed tears before and after he failed to switch off the system.. But his tears were of silent nature, not the loud typical soapy nature. The pain in his eyes, the trembling in his voice conveyed more sorrow than thousands loud cries could do..
What happens next seems to be a suspense, we know Ram will fall into depression.. But is he going to be punished by law (unfairly)for taking Anu's life? I mentioned in another post about the possibility of Ram taking the blame as a punishment for not being able to save Anu.. Or perhaps the kids will hate him for letting the mother go and choose to live with the grandfather? Or maybe the FIL will gain the custody of the kids on the grounds that Ram is not financially stable? So many possibilities and so many questions..
I can understand Ram's need of privacy in grieving.. And can also understand how he can't help but fall into depression .. But I hope , if there's going to be a separtion between him & kids, it is not initaited by him, but either forced (by law or the FIL) or because the kids choose to leave him.
Whatever happens, there is going to be more heartbreaks in the upcoming episodes, until the time comes when Ram will start raising from the pit and live upto his potential..