The concept of mahaanta

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Mamta made a very valid point when she said:
I think anu is not of our planet. 😕 coz on our earth people are a bit selfish. Aur ho bhi kyun na, agar aaj ke samay mein log anu ki tarah selfless and mahaan ban gaye toh unka jeena mushkil ho jayega. 😕 and itne mahaan toh keval bhagwaan shri ram hi the. 😆


I agree with Mamta 100%. This is what I have to say about the above:

In today's world, if a daugher-in-law insists on staying with a Mother-in-law who obviously

hates her-she could well become a statistic- and reach the newspapers as

another bride who was poisoned, burned or something like that. Sadly our

TV shows insist on the stereotype of bahus who do not want to leave joint families-

even if their in-laws show criminal tendencies!😲😭 Yes Mamta , Bhagwan Ram

sacrificed everything for the people but-

Baghwan Ram bhi to chale gaye the na- 14 years ke liye!

His biological parents were sad to see him go but he did what he decided was right.

And by the way Sita Mata left with him. She did not oppose his decision or

leave his side to be with her in-laws. Aur unse mahaan wife ( actually mahaan)

to koi hai nahin.

Don't know where our serial makers get their concepts of

'Mahaanta' from.
Please let me know if you agree (or not)



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Posted: 10 years ago
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Hi Leela great post!!

Totally agree with U at this point!!! In today's world, if a daugher-in-law insists on staying with a Mother-in-law who obviously hates her-she could well become a statistic- and reach the newspapers as another bride who was poisoned, burned or something like that.
Sadly our TV shows insist on the stereotype of bahus who do not want to leave joint families-even if their in-laws show criminal tendencies!

I personally love joint families, but it doesn't mean to accept all of the bad deeds of in-laws!!..just because of binding the family???.. But how could I Do this , if my in-laws are not ready to change their mind???
Some people never change... We should try our best to change them... But is it the right thing to give up our own life style to please in-laws who don't care about me???

Thanks a lot for this kind of topics!!
🤗
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Posted: 10 years ago
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agree with u leela ...i have never seen a person like her she is abnormal 🤢 I can't understand her 😕 she cares supports thinks abt everyone except rajat ...she gives priority to everyone except rajat 😭 this lady is killing me cant digest her mahaanta she must stop doing tis n think abt her husband for once cvs r giving us over dose of mahaanta from tat devraj engagement fiasco 😭 poor rajju feeling sad for him how she removed her hand from his grasp .. 💔 how rajat would have felt tat moment yaar y she is not giving imp to his feelings no one can be mahaan like tis ...this not mahaanta she wants everyone to praise her for tat sake she is doing tis 😭 I feel so bad for Rajju
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Great post Leela...! 👍🏼 Congratulations...for becoming a Goldie...! May you achieve more than this...! Love you...!❤️🥳
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: _habiba_

Hi Leela great post!!


Totally agree with U at this point!!! In today's world, if a daugher-in-law insists on staying with a Mother-in-law who obviously hates her-she could well become a statistic- and reach the newspapers as another bride who was poisoned, burned or something like that.
Sadly our TV shows insist on the stereotype of bahus who do not want to leave joint families-even if their in-laws show criminal tendencies!

I personally love joint family, but it doesn't mean to accept all of the bad deed of in-laws!!..just because of binding the family???.. But how could I Do it, if my in-laws are not ready to change their mind???
Some people never change... We should try our best to change them... But is it the right thing to give up our own life style to please in-laws who don't care about me???

Thanks a lot for this kind of topic!!
🤗


Thank you Habiba!🤗 Great to know that you agree !

And I totally agree with your views on joint families!👏
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: eshah143

agree with u leela ...i have never seen a person like her she is abnormal 🤢 I can't understand her 😕 she cares supports thinks abt everyone except rajat ...she gives priority to everyone except rajat 😭 this lady is killing me cant digest her mahaanta she must stop doing tis n think abt her husband for once cvs r giving us over dose of mahaanta from tat devraj engagement fiasco 😭 poor rajju feeling sad for him how she removed her hand from his grasp .. 💔 how rajat would have felt tat moment yaar y she is not giving imp to his feelings no one can be mahaan like tis ...this not mahaanta she wants everyone to praise her for tat sake she is doing tis 😭 I feel so bad for Rajju


Thanks eshah - good to know you agree😊

And truly, the hand-removing scene was in very bad taste! Agree with you totally!


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Waida1234

Great post Leela...! 👍🏼 Congratulations...for becoming a Goldie...! May you achieve more than this...! Love you...!❤️🥳


Thank you so much Waida!🤗
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: LoneSoldier



Thanks eshah - good to know you agree😊

And truly, the hand-removing scene was in very bad taste! Agree with you totally!



Hey leelu ...congrats yaar !!! u became goldie 🤗 love u 😃
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Hey Leela,
Great post and CONGRATTTZZZ 👏. You have become the Golden Soldier😊😊.
Yes I also agree Sita Mata had supported her husband so FOR ONCE why can't Anu support Rajat in his decision. Whenever Rajat looks to her for support she always always lets him down. 😡
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: eshah143


Hey leelu ...congrats yaar !!! u became goldie 🤗 love u 😃

Thanks eshah dear!🤗

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