If I am Ganga

If I am Ganga, I will consult Jagya and take his opinion. As mannu is not listening to me, I will try to understand him. Of course I will not approve but I will have a heart to heart talk instead of accusing Mannu. I will try to spend more time with him and listen to what he says. I will tell him to treat me as a friend than as a mother. As Pooja seems to be obstinate and not giving up, I will have a direct talk with Sarita about Pooja's overtures, I know it is a losing battle.

This is not Ganga's problem alone but problem of many mothers. I myself faced this situation. My sister asked me to mediate between her son and his girlfriend. I failed in that mission and gave up. Now they are happily married and my sister accepted them atlast.

I don't think leaves Ganga is accusing Mannu but Ganga has right to scold him if he is crossing the line Lying for Pooja That means tomorrow he can have affair with her as well and keep it secret from family Thats so not done

@sid ... i think Jagya will believe her because he does believe her no matter she put such unfair and i would say cruel blames on him God knows what happened to her why she went bonkers there but still Jagya believes her He does not misunderstand the way she started doing of him Hoping she does not behave like this again

@mahi i have more feeling he will believe her after seeing him even though he is hurt and he remains sad and upset Ganga really hurt him bad but still he believes in her and have faith in her He won't misunderstand her I only said if he did not trusted her here then i won't blame him at all He will have his reasons but i am hopeful he will believe her she only needs to talk to him in proper way and consult him Convey to him what she has seen

Originally posted by: Beautiful-Soul

@mahi i have more feeling he will believe her after seeing him even though he is hurt and he remains sad and upset Ganga really hurt him bad but still he believes in her and have faith in her He won't misunderstand her I only said if he did not trusted her here then i won't blame him at all He will have his reasons but i am hopeful he will believe her she only needs to talk to him in proper way and consult him Convey to him what she has seen

ok then even i wont blame him either if he does not believe her Ganga really screwed up big time

Here the problem is more about Pooja and Ganga rather than Mannu and Pooja.

Ganga's problems seem to be much deeper and bigger than what they are.

This time mannu did not lie. He said he went to Pooja's house. According to him the problem is telling lies. He is too innocent to realise what the real problem is.
It is not possible not to meet each other or act strangers suddenly.
Pooja is clearly misusing his friendship and softness to go near him.
Her behaviour with Nidhi also point to her being somewhat arrogant and selfish.

Since Mannu himself is totally unaware of what is happening in Pooja's mind while his own feelings towards Pooja don't seem to be all that deep except for friendship which probably started right from the time they were just 3/4 year old kids it will be difficult for Ganga to approach Mannu over this matter.

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

This time mannu did not lie. He said he went to Pooja's house. According to him the problem is telling lies. He is too innocent to realise what the real problem is.
It is not possible not to meet each other or act strangers suddenly.
Pooja is clearly misusing his friendship and softness to go near him.
Her behaviour with Nidhi also point to her being somewhat arrogant and selfish.

agree wid sidra.mahi & u.