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notacrimetolove

@notacrimetolove

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Posted: 10 years ago

Fact is Shaad doesn't know Sanam at all and really Jannat is very OOC Sanam and this Jannat doesn't exist. It's all fake. Lol how can you love someone you don't know? Like isn't that superficial and loving them only from the surface because you don't know them?

This girl isn't "Jannat" and isn't his wife no matter how much he wants her to be and this identity he has given her and now is falling in love with isn't real or even her. He has no right to call her his anything. He's right he is no one to her and because of this he has no right to connect himself to her in any way.

"Jannat" doesn't exist. In fact right now Sanam isn't even acting like herself so if he has fallen for her then he hasn't fallen for the real her but someone who doesn't even exist. This girl doesn't even know who she is and isn't herself so how can any love anyone claims to feel for her be real and true because in order to love someone for what's inside you have to get to know them, know their personality and traits and flaws and love and accept them wholly whereas right now fact is she doesn't even know herself and is acting out of character so how can Shaad truly love her? The REAL her.

Edited by Maria_Shaukat_9 - 10 years ago

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Mandy

@MrDarcyfan

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Posted: 10 years ago

Maria, you are thinking on logical and sensible terms! Things that matter NOTHING to the QH CV's. They have the "Patent" on 2 week Beinteha Mohobaat.

Things you DONT need to fall in love in 2 weeks:

Dont need to know real name of person.

Dont need to know who they are or where they come from.

Dont need to tell them any truth.

Dont need to know anything about them.

Things you NEED to fall in love in 2 weeks.

Pretty face.

Cute looks.

OTT behavior.

Trip and catch.

Balloon therapy

Clingy behavior

Shaad is extremely selfish. He first only cared for his mission and was afraid that Jannat will remember her past and "Forget" Shashi Kapoor. Now HE himself has seen SK, so he doesn't even NEED this girl's help to find the terrorist. Now he will only keep her with him lying to her for his OWN personal benefit, not to "Save the world". LOL

I am honestly appalled by his selfishness and how he goes around telling everyone that this girl who's NAME he doesn't know is his "Wife!". WORST is how he tells his "Dad" that this girl is his wife and his responsibility over and over again. He is lying to his Father's face DAILY with NO remorse of any sort! I think his Dad is starting to wonder if his son is loosing his balance? The way he is SO obsessed with this girl. He can see this is not normal. I feel sorry for him. I know how I would feel if I found out MY son was lying to me about being married to someone! I dont know if I will ever forgive him to be honest!

Edited by MrDarcyfan - 10 years ago

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notacrimetolove

@notacrimetolove

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan
Maria, you are thinking on logical and sensible terms! Things that matter NOTHING to the QH CV's. They have the "Patent" on 2 week Beinteha Mohobaat. I will give you the list of things needed for it.

Things you DONT need to fall in love in 2 weeks:

Dont need to know real name of person.
Dont need to know who they are or where they come from.
Dont need to tell them any truth.
Dont need to know anything about them.

Things you NEED to fall in love in 2 weeks.

Pretty face.
Cute looks.
OTT behavior.
Trip and catch.
Balloon therapy
Clingy behavior

Shaad is extremely selfish. He first only cared for his mission and was afraid that Jannat will remember her past and "Forget" Shashi Kapoor. Now HE himself has been SK, so he doesn't even NEED this girl's help to find the terrorist. Now he will only keep her with him lying to her for his OWN personal benefit, not to "Save the world". LOL

I am honestly appalled by his selfishness and how he goes around telling everyone that this girl who's NAME he doesn't know is his "Wife!". WORST is how he tells his "Dad" that this girl is his wife and his responsibility over and over again. He is lying to his Father's face DAILY with NO remorse of any sort! I think his Dad is starting to wonder if his son is loosing his balance? The way he is SO obsessed with this girl. He can see this is not normal. I feel sorry for him. I know how I would feel if I found out MY son was lying to me about being married to someone! I dont know if I will ever forgive him to be honest!

I don't know why I expect any logic from this show. Though if he is falling for this ooc "Jannat" then maybe he'll like Seher because this girl is more like Seher than Sanam. Though tbh I am feeling a bit disgusted comparing this Jannat to Seher because even Seher was more exciting and tolerable and not clingy.

Tbh I feel like even if Aahil comes to Shaad and tells him who he is Shaad will still keep lying to Sanam despite hearing her say Aahil's name before. He'll pretend it's because SK but it'll be because of his own selfish reason and poor Sanam will believe him because she can't remember anything and has spent the most time with him and has been fed so many lies. Honestly it's disgusting how he's taking advantage of a woman who's got memory loss and isn't in her right state of mind. He's feeding her life changing lies and then has the audacity to claim he loves and say she's his responsibility. Who is he to claim any right on her especially after the horrible lies he has fed her for his own gain. This has gone so far beyond common hospitality infact I feel like in playing this charade he's becoming obsessed with her though he doesn't know her. He needs to be put in his place. Why is this man not realising that he is no one to this girl and she isn't his and he's wrongly letting her believe that he's her husband for no reason. There's no reason for him not to tell her.

Imo if Aahil slaps Shaad after realising what he's been doing I wouldn't blame him. If I had a husband and he lost his memory and some woman was keeping him in her house as her husband and feeding his lie after lie on their false love story whilst I was sitting at home not knowing where he was or whether he was alive or dead and I'd be furious. Like how dare you act like my husband is yours, how dare you not try to return him home to his loved ones and take advantage of his situation. How dare you cross your limits and try to take my place? How dare you have the audacity to claim you love him? Despite not knowing him at all, I might add. Any husband/wife imo would be angry for someone having taken advantage of their partner and claiming any rights on them when they don't have any. No person would tolerate someone else acting like their partners wife/husband when it's their right only.

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Mandy

@MrDarcyfan

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Posted: 10 years ago

@Maria:

Once again what YOU say makes sense and has logic. NO normal husband / wife would tolerate someone trying to take THEIR place in their partners life through LIES! If some women kept my husband with her feeding him lies about their so called "Mohobaat" and using him for whatever reasons of her own, I would slap her without 2 second's hesitation.

No one takes my man from me! Especially someone who is lying and misleading them in their vulnerable state! Full stop!

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KhatamKahani

@KhatamKahani

Stunner

Posted: 10 years ago

I've been saying for days that Aahil should give Shaad a good punch.

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sahil333

@sahil333

Inactive

Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: KhatamKahani
I've been saying for days that Aahil should give Shaad a good punch.

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I want a fight sequence between these two. It would be a thriller and we know who will be victorious.

When Misbah can kick his ass...then there's nothing left to say .😆

Aahil had fought the terrorists in his house and he was awesome.

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zynia890

@zynia890

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: sahil333

👏👍🏼

I want a fight sequence between these two. It would be a thriller andwe know who will be victorious.

When Misbah can kick his ass...then there's nothingleft to say .😆

Aahil had fought the terrorists in his house and he was awesome.

I seriously don't want any fight sequence between the two...have you heard that we should with the people of having level same as us...he got punched by a girl ...though he us Army officer on a mission to save world..but all he us doing is Aankh matakka(eye locks) and chlo ishk ladayen...and he can be beaten up by a mere boy..or we can train a two year old baby to spit over him again n again and he would run forward with baby behind his back.. and just running running going round and round( i can imaginethis)and then baby will win...thus wiykd happen if he doesn't make the good out of situation and doesn't declare that baby to be his child.. as he had done with sanam.. I hope when aahil comes to Pakistan he doesn't make aahil believe that aahil is his bro and jannat his bhabhii.. 😆