family has become so dysfunctional since leap

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I was so excited about the leap but am disappointed with the dysfunctional aspect of the family. I Find it hard to believe a family that was so traditional to the point of being positively medieval in how they blindly accepted the authority of elders in the family is now showing Naksh mouthing off to his father and hanging out with a delinquent girl whose development obviously stopped at 14. Sanjana is the most fake and irritating character. I cannot stand how they call each other 'dude', which Noone to really addresses their friend,East or West! Not sure if this lingo is supposed to make the characters 'cool', but it is doing the opposite.
Don't think any country in the world would allow a brat with zero manners to talk to any teacher in such a disrespectful manner that sounds more threatening.
Such a student would be expelled so fast.

I cannot believe the perfect woman, Akashara, has raised a kid that is a total brat who talks to his father in a way you wouldn't even talk to a step father that raised you. She is more to blame as she is still in the same spot pre leap, emotionally and has neglected her duties in raising her kids by providing transparency and happy atmosphere. Kids need to be told the truth of what happened when they reach teens, but instead she is happy making Naitik take the fall and be painted the bad guy...and for what?? So that she can continue with her guilt trip just because an elder aunt,babima who went off at the deep end,said so. Listen,it's the cycle of birth and death and dada lived a long and happy life,so it's not a tragic death... Yes it's sad but the man was sick and has alzhimers.
Its so frustrating to see intelligent people behaving so foolishly.

Parents need to present a united front in discipling their children because parenting is not a popularity contest. Kids need boundaries and rules and role models to best help them become well rounded responsible adults. Siblings should not be pitted against each other by getting one to spy on the other for money. That is so wrong on so many levels. Yes, you discipline with kindness but need to be firm.
This family needs counselling to try and come out of their dysfunction.

The rest of the extended family is sone supportive, Akashara needs to focus on those family members instead of draining her life energy on a deluded bhabhima. That woman,along with her guru, have checked out of reality decade ago. So move on and work With what you have.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Even the family in India seems messed up. Ms BhoBho is still in revenge mode and not a single family member has her brains repaired. Logically they should have done a batwara of the mansion with Raj banna's family on one side and bhobho with Nandini & her crazyy MIL(hopefully Mohit would ahve run away from these 3 crazy women and taken his kids with him). The temple scene today was nuts. So now Devyani has to take permission from BhoBho Jr to talk to Rajshri? If Akshara's mom is off limits then why is Akshara's son not? I am so waiting for Daddaji's ghost to come and fix his wife and daughter lol
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Sanjana was brought in from a circus or asylum, whichever is more dangerous. Send her off to India so she gets lost in the Himalayas
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Absolutely agree. Injustice saw today's episode and all I can say is,I rest my case.
What nonsense, that bhabhima and her daughter are such ungrateful, self-important individuals.
They should have been with dada night and day instead of leaving others to sit there if they wanted to make the important medical Descions.
I ALso blame Rajbana for failing to administer any justice whatsoever. He is a coward for forcing Akshara to tell dad's dying condition to bhabhima and thus making her take the fall. Some people are that passively selfish as they want others to do their unpleasant tasks.

Also bhabhima should remember her major flaws, especially when she dared to think Akshara should give up Naksh when her daughter couldn't have kids. Also her daughter is just as
Ungrateful considering whose help landed her with a husband.

Theses so called pious people are so destructive in their thinking and actions. They have poisoned the entire family relations and other family members are sucking up to them and letting them get away with the wrong behavior. Listen, just because you are a senior, that doesn't mean your actions are beyond judgement and consequences or that your actions are correct. They should face the consequences the same as others, in fact penalty should be more as they should have smartened up with their age.

We need a revolution where these seniors get their dues and are not so easily let off the hook.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I Ama lso annoyed at Rajbana for failing to administer any justice whatsoever. He is a coward for forcing Akshara to tell dad's dying condition to bhabhima and thus making her take the fall. Some people are that passively selfish as they want others to do their unpleasant tasks.


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Posted: 10 years ago
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I think if Gayatri was alive she would have put her boxing gloves on and invited bhobho ma into the ring
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: suresh555

I think if Gayatri was alive she would have put her boxing gloves on and invited bhobho ma into the ring

Yes it's very rare when I feel G3 should have been there! This is one scenario!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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The reality of the situation is Devayani will never hold the same position or authority in that household as Gayatri. Naitik is closer to Rajshri Ma thru Akshara. Devayani can't even get Karishma to listen to her how can she have any say in family matters. Can you imagine if Gayatri was there Karishma the most annoying character getting away with half the things she has done so far.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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RajBanna is the pathetic father I have ever seen 😡
Iss se better to Devyani and Karishma nikle
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Posted: 10 years ago
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This discussion is very eye opening. I forgot most of the things that have happened over the years in YRKKH but even before remembering them I couldn't believe what had become of the Singhania's. Bhabima, Nandini, Raj banna, so damn selfish. If bhabima really loved her husband she would have fulfilled his last wish, but no, that woman is evil. And the way she was running towards naksh when he returned home, oh please, she did not deserve that scene, she has a major role in keeping the kids away from the family and yet they dote on her, while Naksh fights his dad who has no fault.

Now that Naksh is back I hope he finds out the truth and blasts BhabiMa and all her chamchas. I hate even seeing her face on screen. Grow up woman, you've got one foot in the grave so get over your self! Urghhh, so frustrated. When is the day gonna come when NakSh come back to THEIR home. When is the day gonna come where Bhabima will beg and ask for forgiveness but she won't receive any because what she did was wrong on so many levels - wishful thinking I know, since this show points out mistakes of elders like Mohit's mum, but not mistakes made by this sadiyal BhoBho. By the way whoever gave her that name, it's perfect, she's always barking!

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