A prize? A doll? A toy?? A thing?? Or a blind idiot?

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Amina

@KreyaArshiLover

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Posted: 10 years ago

What is Nandani Murthy?? A doll, a toy or a prize?? That's how the boys are treating her like. Just wait and watch I will win you.

The conversation between Manik and Dhruv on Friday, was like what?? How could Nandani stand there when they both are treating her like firstly she doesn't exist that moment there and then Dhruv's dialogue "you could have let me fight for her"

W*F is she some sort of prize?? How could he say that?? And how could Nandani just stand there and just listen to that utter crap?? If I were her I would have slapped both Manik and Dhruv, Dhruv had gotten a tighter slap. Than that idiot goes to Alya to tell everything what the hell...?

Are you talking about your best friend or who?? All saw that Manik liked Nandani everyone even Alya that's why she pushed you to Nandani. But not you are an idiot and aren't going to use your own brain and put use to it. You're going to relay on others than blame them that they are not on your side. Just look at yourself before doing and saying anything

Than their is Pandit... Is she a doll which he can buy and keep or a thing?? That's how he is seeing Nandani. That he can buy her and keep her.

The biggest question is doesn't Nandani not have a say who she wants to be with why are they ignoring the part to ask what Nandani wants. Why do these idiots think they'd know what she wants??

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I just watched three episode which I missed and I couldn't help write this topic. I don't write topics nowadays But Dhruv and made me write this posts.

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Annie

@Star_girl

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Posted: 10 years ago

Lol, good post.

I am honestly amazed at the extent to which Nandini has been dumbed down. Like, who even is she? What's her ambition? What's her future plans? Where is her past? Her dead parents? Her own problems apart from Manik? Her identity beside Manik?

I don't know if it's the faulty characterization but their so called relationship has swallowed Nandini entirely. Her character will only be shaped along the lines of Manik's fresh angst. She is an extended version of Manik's alter ego with nothing to provide on her own. Is this healthy? This young girl, who has no interests other than her boyfriend, how is this healthy? This is toxic and strange.

I am sorry to say but Nandini doesn't have a say in anything because it's a Manik show with Nandini there to romance him and create some angst for him. She doesn't even exist on her own. I am not one of those who prefers a heroine-oriented show because god knows, we have too many of them but at the very least, give your heroine an identity. -_- This is especially surprising because Nandini was not like this previously. She had an identity. Now she's just a blank canvass for Manik's angst.

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cceee7

@cceee7

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Posted: 10 years ago

The root cause of everything is she in the previous episodes held manik's hand and at the same time looked into dhruv's eyes.knowing very well that this would create problems she steadfastly went with that.the boys went ballistic and the result is there to see.

I would blame dhruv more bcos it was written all over tht manik.the and nandini loved each other.still that guy for his selfishness went to woo nandini and she played along wrecking 3 people.

Manik is not a gud guy to begin with.he has his share of mistakes

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Samaira Ali Hassan

@SaMaiRa.

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Posted: 10 years ago

I actually surprisingly liked today's episode after a while. Even the MaNan scene was nice. But yes, they have definitely dumbed down Nandini significantly. I think many of us ranted about that over at the EDT. She has been reduced to crying about hope now and just Manik's other half. But whatever. Usual Indian serial things I guess. I don't have expectations. I just want to see the fusion concert and see how they end this track off so I can stop watching.

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varshitap

@varshitap

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Posted: 10 years ago

You are right!! Nandini is being seen as a pricey catch!! so disgusting!! 😡

Well , in Dhruv's case, it seems he treats women like that, He was longing for Nandini but was hugging Alya!! Do you want more!! then he said those hurtful words to Alya just to let out his frustration on Manik!! . Dhruv may have been portrayed as sweet, kind and shy guy...but it all seems a facade now!! He always wanted someone else to speak and think for him...now he is out of his slumber and is acting like a jerk...insensitive and ungrateful...I pity Alya for her choice!!🤢

Even if he comes around..I don't think Alya can forgive him...if she has some self respect.

However Manik has suffered his punishment of treating Nandini like a toy!!😆 remember the punch-kiss-punch story!!😛

As For Nandini, she is allowing Pandit and Manik to fight for her...though she doesn't want it to happen. I am surprised how an intelligent girl like Nandini can write off that Pandit's dubious intentions when his every move is suggesting it. Here I don't blame Manik for fighting for Nandini as he loves her and wants her to be safe and that is his instinct and not an ego tussle like how Pandit is seeing it.

Pandit is going to learn his lessons the hard way for treating Nandini as a thing!! But I would have been happy if Nandini would have exposed him rather than Manik going after him.

When will we have empowered women who can fight against such mentality of treating women like dumb-heads?!! I feel this has to be done by women for women.

Thanks for the thought provoking post.😊

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Mandy

@BeyondHorizon

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Posted: 10 years ago

Good post 👍🏼

Nandini is a human with feelings and a mind of her own! I wish the two boys would acknowledge that 😵 High time now! First Manik decides to dump her n thinks he is the one who is really suffering for letting his girl go. But not for once did he realise how broken she will be if he does that. Did he stop to think if Nandini would really goto Dhruv even if he left her? 🤢 The least he could have done back then was tell her about his dilemma and break up. Instead he broke her to an extent where she stopped believing in herself!

Now Dhruv thinks she is prize for whom he would have fought! Like really? 🤢 Nandini should have slapped him for saying that and so should Manik. Coz now he knows he made a mistake by hurting Nandini that time. But still he continued to pacify him saying he was a better guy even for Nandini 😡 Someone please knock some sense into this guy's head too 😵 Nandini had already made her choice and she is the only one who can decide who is the one for her. Its not some swayamvar where she will choose between multiple prospects. She gave her heart away even before she knew there could have been a choice and after that she didn't really care if there was one too.

Nandini was shown to be an independent minded girl who cared about everyone around her. It was never only about Manik for her but lately she is reduced to being a toy 👎🏼

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Amina

@KreyaArshiLover

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: cceee7
The root cause of everything is she in the previous episodes held manik's hand and at the same time looked into dhruv's eyes.knowing very well that this would create problems she steadfastly went with that.the boys went ballistic and the result is there to see.
I would blame dhruv more bcos it was written all over tht manik.the and nandini loved each other.still that guy for his selfishness went to woo nandini and she played along wrecking 3 people.
Manik is not a gud guy to begin with.he has his share of mistakes

If you can't see between love and friendship than you are blind. What you are saying is not true. Nandani always behaved like a friend with Dhruv and to everybody who saw them could see that but Dhruv truned blind eye and ignored the obvious look in Nandani's eyes. But even if it was like that what does he have a right to call her a prize??

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Amina

@KreyaArshiLover

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Star_girl
Lol, good post.
I am honestly amazed at the extent to which Nandini has been dumbed down. Like, who even is she? What's her ambition? What's her future plans? Where is her past? Her dead parents? Her own problems apart from Manik? Her identity beside Manik?
I don't know if it's the faulty characterization but their so called relationship has swallowed Nandini entirely. Her character will only be shaped along the lines of Manik's fresh angst. She is an extended version of Manik's alter ego with nothing to provide on her own. Is this healthy? This young girl, who has no interests other than her boyfriend, how is this healthy? This is toxic and strange.
I am sorry to say but Nandini doesn't have a say in anything because it's a Manik show with Nandini there to romance him and create some angst for him. She doesn't even exist on her own. I am not one of those who prefers a heroine-oriented show because god knows, we have too many of them but at the very least, give your heroine an identity. -_- This is especially surprising because Nandini was not like this previously. She had an identity. Now she's just a blank canvass for Manik's angst.

Thank you for liking the post.

I agree with you, the Nandani which I saw beginning of the show is complete gone. That girl was intelligent and knew exactly what she wanted. This Nandani is just Manik's puppet. To be honest I am not either one of those who prefers female oriented shows, I want a show were characters development and moves forward than butchering them up.

Which happens in lot of Indian shows. Since the fusion concert or the whole pandit thing has started I thought yes finally finally we will see something about Nandani, but what do we see?? A new person who comes and claims that Nandani is his. And how can that girl not see it!?

Usually it's the male character which gets butchered but here is the female character

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Amina

@KreyaArshiLover

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: varshitap
You are right!! Nandini is being seen as a pricey catch!! so disgusting!! 😡
Well , in Dhruv's case, it seems he treats women like that, He was longing for Nandini but was hugging Alya!! Do you want more!! then he said those hurtful words to Alya just to let out his frustration on Manik!! . Dhruv may have been portrayed as sweet, kind and shy guy...but it all seems a facade now!! He always wanted someone else to speak and think for him...now he is out of his slumber and is acting like a jerk...insensitive and ungrateful...I pity Alya for her choice!!🤢
Even if he comes around..I don't think Alya can forgive him...if she has some self respect.
However Manik has suffered his punishment of treating Nandini like a toy!!😆 remember the punch-kiss-punch story!!😛

As For Nandini, she is allowing Pandit and Manik to fight for her...though she doesn't want it to happen. I am surprised how an intelligent girl like Nandini can write off that Pandit's dubious intentions when his every move is suggesting it. Here I don't blame Manik for fighting for Nandini as he loves her and wants her to be safe and that is his instinct and not an ego tussle like how Pandit is seeing it.
Pandit is going to learn his lessons the hard way for treating Nandini as a thing!! But I would have been happy if Nandini would have exposed him rather than Manik going after him.
When will we have empowered women who can fight against such mentality of treating women like dumb-heads?!! I feel this has to be done by women for women.
Thanks for the thought provoking post.😊

Yes disgusting that what Dhruv is. He may have not dated many women in his life. But he is not more than a playboy who takes a girl then takes for awhile and then throws them away. this is who Dhruv is. He Doesnt need to date many women for being a playboy the way he is treating Nandani and Alya, Alya did atleast stood up for herself but Nandani? She just was rooted to her place when Manik and Dhruv was putting a prize tag on her IN FRONT OF HER!!! Can it get more insulting??

And @bold: the dumbest girl in the world can see what that Pandit is doing how the hell can't she see it?? It gets me frustrated every time I see her not reacting to pandits moves

Edited by KreyaArshiLover - 10 years ago

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Amina

@KreyaArshiLover

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Originally posted by: FieryHeart
Good post 👍🏼
Nandini is a human with feelings and a mind of her own! I wish the two boys would acknowledge that 😵 High time now! First Manik decides to dump her n thinks he is the one who is really suffering for letting his girl go. But not for once did he realise how broken she will be if he does that. Did he stop to think if Nandini would really goto Dhruv even if he left her? 🤢 The least he could have done back then was tell her about his dilemma and break up. Instead he broke her to an extent where she stopped believing in herself!

Now Dhruv thinks she is prize for whom he would have fought! Like really? 🤢 Nandini should have slapped him for saying that and so should Manik. Coz now he knows he made a mistake by hurting Nandini that time. But still he continued to pacify him saying he was a better guy even for Nandini 😡 Someone please knock some sense into this guy's head too 😵 Nandini had already made her choice and she is the only one who can decide who is the one for her. Its not some swayamvar where she will choose between multiple prospects. She gave her heart away even before she knew there could have been a choice and after that she didn't really care if there was one too.

Nandini was shown to be an independent minded girl who cared about everyone around her. It was never only about Manik for her but lately she is reduced to being a toy 👎🏼

Exactly what Manik never give it a thought was even if Nandani and Dhruv gets in to a relationship will Nandani ever able to keep Dhruv happy?? If not will Dhruv be happy then? These idiotic boys can't see that first of all that Nandu is not a toy and second of all she has made her own choice

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