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Posted: 10 years ago
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I am confused. Who is right? Ganga placed the orders for new equipment to replace old defective one. And Jagya was miffed that he was not consulted. Ganga cancelled that order and Jagya got angry once again for her doing so.

Ganga feels unhappy and confused as to what she should do to please Jagya.

In a way, Jagya is right that he should be consulted for such a big order costing lakhs and he also said something about second opinions.

In a way, Ganga is not that wrong because she took a risk and a right decision as Jagya himself was not angry with the decision but he was talking about second opinion and discussion.


I feel both are right in their own way.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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ganga should have not make decision alone in making deal of medical equipment , it should be joint decision because medical equipment is not only use by ganga it will be use by other doctor also .may be other doctor will not feel comfortable with that equipments which ganga make deal and opinion is also needed because whether budget is allowing or not ,jagya is right that second opinion should also be consider but he should also tell ganga next time that if hospital need things urgently then how can ganga contact jagya , what should ganga do when jagya is very busy in other field
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I think a lot of issues are in play here.
Jagya has a lot of other responsibilities so he is not able to give enough time to the hospital

In all probablity Ganga is being groomed to take up the hospital administration - She just started her career as a qualified surgeon and she is junior and inexperienced.At that stage one doesn't really know how far one can go and how much responsibility one can take and when to consult seniors.
All this things come with experience.In this Ganga should have consulted but seeing that Jagya is busy she took the decision in the interest of the hospital

Jagya - Was right in the sense telling her that she should have consulted him before taking the decision.But he should have dropped it there.He too was a junior at one time and things like when to consult senior and when to do it on your own come only with experience.
He could have just said that next timet she should let him know before she takes decision on issues like this.

Ganga shouldn't have made this a battle of sexes - which it is not it is just between inexperienced junior and senior who can't dedicate enough time

Jagya instead of telling her to get a second opinion in a direct way he chose to tell her indirectly through his conversation with Anandi and there by bringing her into it.

Ganga cancelling the order was a knee jerk reaction.

The problem is a common enough problem between a senior and inexperienced junior.
It needs patience on Jagya's part and taking his advice in the right sense on Ganga's part.

No I don't want Anandi to be brought in as an issue between them because she is not the problem there and she shouldn't be involved in solving it for them either.

The couple also needs to realise that problem related to work stays at work place and shouldn't enter home.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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i m feeling now they will compare anandi and ganga.
Anandi consulted jagya but ganga did not so i think now slowly cvs will start anandi and ganga comparison.

Till now ganga and jagya shown soul mate and now suddenly difference started after so many years of marriage.


Jai ho😃😛
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

I am confused. Who is right? Ganga placed the orders for new equipment to replace old defective one. And Jagya was miffed that he was not consulted. Ganga cancelled that order and Jagya got angry once again for her doing so.

Ganga feels unhappy and confused as to what she should do to please Jagya.

In a way, Jagya is right that he should be consulted for such a big order costing lakhs and he also said something about second opinions.

In a way, Ganga is not that wrong because she took a risk and a right decision as Jagya himself was not angry with the decision but he was talking about second opinion and discussion.


I feel both are right in their own way.

leaves i agree wid u.i think none is wrong but both r wrong also in sum places.ganga shud'd asked b4 deal & also abt cancelling it & shudn't'd made it feminsim thing wen she knew J is not like this tho she took the decision 4 hospi.similarly J shud'd told her in better way rather than taunting & then blaming her in the room abt her not wanting 2 interfere in matters wen he knew that ganga din't mean this & she clearly told also.and J shud'd also accept that he doesn't've time so they shud atleast take time 2 contact.
so both r not entirely wrong or rite.and moreover plz don't make A or DS 2 meddle in btn.bcoz thwe way A asked in kitchen & DS came while both were talking is indicating CVs want 2 show them as sum great prob solver.bcoz i think these probs r common btn couples wen they r in same field & in same place so better solve things JaGan on their own.and both accept each oder's mistakes whether its done unintentionally.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: jayshree1942

i m feeling now they will compare anandi and ganga.

Anandi consulted jagya but ganga did not so i think now slowly cvs will start anandi and ganga comparison.

Till now ganga and jagya shown soul mate and now suddenly difference started after so many years of marriage.


Jai ho😃😛



That is not comparison. Jagya wanted to drive home some point and thus the situation is created.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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There was no need to use Anandi to drive home the point.
He could have done it some other way.

I don't want Anandi to be dragged into this mess .

Tomorrow Anandi may come to him for second opinion just out of politeness even if she didn't need one and that will create problems for the couple themselves.

I hope Anandi just sees this for what it is and stays away from it all.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I dont think he used anandi deliberately. He used the situation.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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All the same it is going to be a mess.
If husband and wife see a situation differently they should stick to that situation and not drag other people into this.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: aparnauma

All the same it is going to be a mess.

If husband and wife see a situation differently they should stick to that situation and not drag other people into this.



In a joint family, it is not possible. If you are swimming in waters of joint family or common swimming pool, you will confront various situations, various people.

If one do not want to be dragged, one should create a situation or a place where there will be very little interaction..

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