4.4.15 - Ruhi comes home to meet Muttu...but breaks Ishu's heart again - Page 4

Originally posted by: neel_jay

@gravity23, thank you so much for the update! I love your update.. except... I don't agree with your comments on Ishita! Ishita and Raman are HORRIBLE parents and I'm sorry to say, I feel NO sympathy for Ishita with regards to Ruhi. She deserves all the hate she is getting from Ruhi. Hey Neel...thank you the compliment😛...as regards Ruhi, yes, I knew I may get bashed but I nevertheless went ahead with it...coz I clearly do NOT agree with Ruhi's extreme reaction...its okay...we are all differently reactive to the same issue...

Regarding your question around why Ruhi is cruel only to Ishita, it's simple - it's because Ruhi loved and trusted Ishita the most in this entire world! Ishima was Ruhi's universe.. her one anchor and hero, one she trusted would never let her down. And let down she did big time! Do you remember the cruel way in which Ishita rejected Ruhi in the courtroom? She could have talked to her daughter, asked her to be brave for a few more days so she and Raman could permanently bring her home. She could have assured that she loved her and would come back for her. But she did NONE of that. She refused to even look at Ruhi and told the judge to let Shagun have Ruhi. Hey...Ii think you only read my review...the second post below the main review is mine...where I have mentioned in bold, the same thing you have mentioned...Yes...I applied the same logic when two days ago Ishita fell down and Roo helped her up...or before that where she didnt speak to her in the restaurant...despite being so comfy with Raman and the others...but YOU tell me..is a child OLD and MATURE enuff to deal deftly with TWO kinds of emotions? Sample: Ruhi makes a face in front of Ishita and refuses to do anything with her... but behind her back she is busy giving elocution speeches saying, 'Meri Ishima world ki best Mamma hai...jab wo nahin hoti toh kuch bhi accha nai lagta'...I dont think 6 yr olds can maneouvre two kinds of feelings, just to show they are pissed off with somone...I mean, they can hardly MASK their true feelings..and hence, in MY opinion... what Ruhi did in Bhalla House...going 'Woh acchi nahin hai' was UN-warranted for... She keeps saying 'Aap aur Papa toh Adi bhaiyya se pyaar karte ho naa?" Where is Adi in the picture? Have they shown Ruhi witnessing Ishita's CARE AND LOVE for Adi? NO...He's away on a camp since the time Ruhi went to Shagun... Ishita was HERSELF crying when she let Roo down in the court... she was ashamed, woh Ruhi ko face hi kaise karti??? And why is the onus ONLY on Ishita?? Why not Raman too?? I mean, its HIS BIOLOGICAL CHILD!! And Roo ne usse bhi toh poocha tha, ki "Papa...aap mere bina nai reh sakte hain naa" he simply turned his face away...are you telling me Roo thinks of Raman as the next-door neighbour who she eats chocolates and ice-creams with, but has no emotional demands from? If not, then WHY those pleas to him in the court?? the only mistake Ishita did was not taking her aside and re-assuring her, I TOTALLY AGREE...that was a blunder... It all started with Raman, who thought Adi would have died, had he gone to live with Shagun...Ishita, DESPITE her condition has been doing whatever she can to reach out to Ruhi...the BIGGEST proof of Ishima's love for Ruhi is - she WENT t the set, albeit in a wheelchair, JUST to see her daughter...Are you telling me, the same Ruhi who could understand her Ishima without her saying anything, cant feel the love and pain in Ishita's eyes when she came to meet her on the set?? Since it is all so contradictory, I have concluded that the CVs simply want to FORCE-SEPARATE the two... they just DONT know how to handle which character... to show Raman was doing his bit to make the two come closer, they inserted that elocution bit...and WHY and HOW can Roo speak SO much about Ishita, if she REALLY thinks her Ishima is 'not acchi'???

I don't think you understand how that would have broken a 6 yr old girl who had already had a rough childhood in which she got very little love from her parents. I understand...but then THAT SAME 6 yr old was perceptive enuff to stand up for her Ishima, accept her, love her...what happened SUDDENLY?? She is so bad...?? itni buri hai toh uska bheja hua ghar ka tiffin mat khao..fenk do...Is Iishita an actor that she keeps waiting on Roo to start the puja, talk to her, hold her? Exaggerated reaction from Ruhi...Im disappointed by the graph of the IshRu bonding coz I wasnt expecting Roo to behave THIS WAY...while smiling at the others...

Raman and Ishita has committed a grave crime by giving Ruhi to Shagun. They know what a selfish lowlife Shagun is and yet, they let their 6 yr old daughter's custody go to that vamp. Look at what Ruhi is going thru now in the name of modeling - it's called CHILD ABUSE! And who are responsible for it? Raman and Ishita because they left their little Ruhi at the mercy of that evil, selfish, heartless woman! It is not easy to choose between children..but Raman SHOULD have either explained to Adi to suck it up and be with the vamp for a while...or Ishita shud ve made Ruhi understand the situation and assured her...they have NOT GIVEN RUHI away to Shagun, for good...NO...Ruhi has become a child model not coz of Ishita...its coz of Raman who found THIS point in life to stop payments of his ex-wife..its HIS folly...Iishita didnt even KNOW Ruhi was into modelling..why blame HER? How wud she know?? When she got to knw, she INSTANTLY went to Shagun and meet Roo too...does she even know WHY Ruhi got into modelling in the first place? coz Raman stopped giving a penny to Shagun...he didnt do that with Adi, all these yrs! Why now?

So I don't agree with you and will still maintain that what Ruhi is feeling is completely natural and Ishita deserves this AND more!!!! I respect your POV😊...but I also maintain that Ruhi's SUDDEN exaggerated reaction to Ishita and anything done by her, FOR HER, is contradictory with what she says and thinks about Ishita, in reality...just for drama sake the CVs have inserted this nonsense! And like I said, love doesnt see age, caste, nothing...Ishita has NEVR EVER messed up as regards Ruhi...has ALWAYS defended hr...so to not allow her an accidental folly even ONCE in their relationship makes it seem Ruhi is just filling a gap in her life and doesnt really love Ishita...Their bonding is special...Ishita shudnt have to beg and plead so much and Ruhi need not spout such unnecessary hatred...In the meanwhile, I wud also want to have a scene where Raman sits Ruhi down and makes her UNDERSTAND...A

Originally posted by: chinyere

I totally agree Ruhi has every damn right to be angry with Ishita..Ishita is the only person Ruhi would fight the world for, she will make sure her Ishima would always be happy but what Ishita did choose Adi because he had suicidal thoughts..Where have all the suicidal thoughts and boning with family gone with Adi? Adi couldn't careless about his sister and family,he is doing quite fine in football camp away from the so called bonding he needed with his family? Ishita gave up a 6 yr old for that selfish psycho brat who having a grand time,but his sister has to work.Is that fair or healthy for a 6yr old? How is cooking some food, buying a dress, bringing her home for a temporary 2-3 hours compensating for the abandonment,hurt,shattered hopes helping her? At the edn of it all Ruhi has to leave and go back to that hell whole and that disgusting Shagun...Ishita is not providing any permanent happiness for that Ruhi at the moment but yet Ruhi is the brat... I dont want to be rude..but when ur on a wheelchair and cant do much running around yourself, how EASY is it to be doing even that little bit Ishita is doing? Are you telling me the fast food Ashok purchased for Ruhi is better than healthy, home cooked food? So good...Ishita shud stop cooking then...Ishita didnt just walk on her legs to buy the dress...she went to a crowded mall, despite her condition and spent hours there...TRYING TO GET THE EXACT SHADE...isnt that love?? To manipulate conditions to simply get her home for the Kanjak Puja...which btw is an important ritual among Punjabis, isnt that giving her importance?? Yes...I was mighty pissed when Raman/Toshi didnt go to fetch her for the Navratris..and I mentioned the same in my post as well...but I can see that Ishita is TRYNG HER LEVEL BEST...Ruhi isnt into modelling coz of Ishita...she's in it coz of Raman who brilliantly thought of stopping payments to his ex-wife...and then HIMSELF called her, letting her know of the ad campaign, ordering her not to let Ruhi feature in it...Shagun is a vamp, she'll do as she pleases...now what Raman shud be doing is to talk to Pathak or whichever lawyer he knows and fast forward the custody procedure...he has shitloads of money and so he CAN afford to gt the best on board to win the case...and Ishita shusnt be blamed AT ALL for this modelling thing...because she got to know of it AFTER Ruhi had started shooting...Raman knew, then wy didnt he take legal recourse, fling a complaint in the court citing his ex-wife is trying to use his lil daughter to fund her expenses, despite HIM not consenting for it..?? How is Ishita responsible?? Believe me, had Ruhi grudginly accepted the kurti and made a face, WOH BHI MAIN ACCEPT KAR LETI...but the outright "Mujhe Ishima ki dress nahin pehenni, woh acchi nahin hai" is characteristic of bratty statements only Shagun's Adi could have said...everybody was around...agar Ruhi ko Ishima ki har baat yaad hai, toh Ishima ki INSULT nahin karna hai, yeh kyun dhyaan nahin aaya?? Kya use pata nahin tha USKE ghar mein uske dada dadi bhi Adi ko zyada preference dete the? Toh achanak se...Iishita kaise buri ho gayi? WOH BHI ITNI?? And also, to achieve 'permanent happiness' people DO have to take the rough road sometimes...this is a phase, it isnt like Ishita turned into a witch of a Step-Mom overnight!

If Ishita can not stand up for her self and tell Ruhi its her father and grandmother preffered their Adi over Ruhi,then Ruhi is non the wiser but to be angry with Ishita...Raman and The reswt of the Bhallas just showing love on Ruhi because they are feeling guilty that is all.. Raman and the Bhallas are selfish, so will not waste pages on them...but when ur living in a joint family, it isnt easy to DIRECTLY tell a vulnerable, impressionable 6 yr old ki "listen...ur Father and grandparents are the real jerks...meri koi galti nahin hai...inki wajah se tumhen ghar nahin laa saki" ...HOW CAN SHE? Woh bhi, Ishita jaisi ladki??? No matter HOW horrendous ur spouse may be, u do not AT THE OUTSET g and bitch about them t ur child...kyunki ur spouse is also a parent, and u cant tarnish their image...same goes for grandparents...how and why will she tarnish their image by being so direct? She can tell them watevr in private, bt not in front of Ruhi...TO RUHI...ki look, they're so horrible...Ruhi and any ther child is quite perceptive..this kind of discrimination, they end up understanding themselves...

How can ppl be upset with Ruhi's behavior when that child is lost and neglected at the moment...Is it is anyone it is Adi who is the brat,he can be a criminal, a psycho ,be rude but yet he gets a pass because Shagun poison him..But when Ruhi gives angry Attidue she wrong becaue her Ishima went a and buy one dress for her to wear for just 2-3 hrs then Ruhi has to go back to work whereby Ishita and family will be happy... she is not COMPLETELY neglected...Raman (however little and slow, has started doing his bit, which BTW is STILL not enuff..he now needs to get the legal process going)...as for Ishita, she is trying her level best to connect to Ruhi...Adi gets a pass ONLY from Raman and the Bhallas..Ishita, I remember, HAS tried to correct him in the past...and I distinctly remember...earlier when Adi used to say nasty things to Raman and be rude to him (initial episodes) I used to blast HIM too in my reviews...I dont like it when children get too nasty for no reason... Ruhi could have been the well-behaved child she was TAUGHT to be, by her Ishima...it wudnt have hurt her to make a face BUT accept the dress and just be a part of the puja...she didnt have to MAKE it public, her displeasure... she HAS curbed her urge before...ab kyun nai? yeh sikhaya Ishima ne? ki sabke saamne badon ka insult karo??

Is ishita trying hard to get back ruhi? is ishita telling Raman now that Adi is good she wants back her daughter immediately?Ruhi is in the dark that raman twisted Ishita arm in choosing Adi, but Raman don't have the guts to tell Ruhi because he knows he would get the same treatement as Ishita,so he pretends to love his daughter by doing insignificant acts to prove he loves Ruhi, but yet ruhi custody is still with shagun and ruhi still working... It is not Ishita's situation currently to run to the court and file for a fresh appeal...Raman is supposed to do that...he makes empty promises and does little..so why is Ishita being blamed that she isnt trying hard? Didnt she try calling Ruhi and talking to her, when she was in Mihir;s house? What did ROO DO?? Said, "aap please mujhe call mat karo"...and Ishita isnt Raman, ki mana karne par bhi baar baar HOUND kare Ruhi ko... Raman is the main culprit, I have maintained since the start of this track...HE has made the major blunders...and so, I am not okay with Ishita bearing the entire blame for the whole mess... Raman is the other parent, HE is supposed to get the necessary legal procedures in motion...its so obvious Raman is being shown in a decent light, coz we all went ballistic he wasnt doing anything for IishRu...my ONLY point is- Ruhi should know Ishita enuff by now to NOT go all out, HATING her!! Relationships are not always smooth...parent-kid relatonships are no exception...sometimes, I feel kids shud also give sme space to parents and not demand PERFECTION of them...which isnt possible ALWAYS..And as far as I remember, this is the first time Ishu has goofed up...agar iss basis pe Ruhi zindagi bhar Ishita ko galat samajhna chahti hai, toh phir wohi sahi...love is a two-way street, not one-way😊

So the question is should this working 6 yrs old who is missing her education and working late hrs be angry at the one who neglected her blatantly and choose Adi who made an astounding recovery? You talk as if Ishita KNEW her daughter was put at stake, for Shagun's lifestyle expenses and STILL chose Adi?? That's ttally not the case!! She was the last to know Ruhi has started working...and she DID go to speak to Shagun about it... isnt it Raman's prerogative to immediately approach the court? Why didnt he do that?? Jab Ishita ko pata hi nai tha, woh use bachane ke liye KYA kar paati?