What is wrong being an only child?

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Seriously. Why do Ankur and Ankita look so apologetic all the time? They have Bulbul at least, there are millions of mothers who are childless. Do they even care about them or are they stuck in fairy tale land forever? So what if Bulbul is going to be a single child? It's not the end of the world, right? There are so many things we all want in life that we don't get. That's how life is - it doesn't come perfect. We have to make do with whatever is given to us.
I think CVs have to wake up to the fact that happy family does not merely mean husband+wife+son+daughter or husband+wife+son+son and so on. World is changing so fast there are millions of modern single child families, same sex couples, surrogate babies, IVF babies, couples who choose not to have children at all. Are they all imperfect families according to DABH? What is Bulbul's problem? She wants to have a sibling just because someone else has. This keeping up with Joneses syndrome is going to cost them very dear as she grows up. She needs other kids to play with, some quality time from her parents and some good friendships nourished. Well if they still want another sibling for her, they should adopt someone. Try other orphanages in the town or in the next town if possible? Why snatch someone else's baby and a twin at that?

And Sandhya and Suraj, how could they give up one of their twins before they are even born? What kind of nonsense is this? And are they giving away to a childless couple? Not at all. Are they going to explore the boring to death idea of mele mein bichde hue bhai concept later. Oh God, spare us from this nonsense.


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Good post.

What Bulbul actually needs is friends.
She is obsessed with the thought of baby because she is alone.
Now ahat can be done?



1. They can take her to neighbors or regularly bring her to Rathi house. To play with Pari and rest. It would make her normal. Specially when she has to share her things with them. Even take care of them. She will realize that it is much better to stay as a only child than taking so much responsibility with giving up her things. I guess they need to even force her to give all her toys to them.

2. They can adopt a child from orphanage .

3. Well I think her obsession is turning in to insanity now. She might get crazy if they don't take medical attention now. I am just shocked to see that S-S is giving up their new born child under the care of a child who herself needs an adult to take care. What kind of sanity is that? Why are they risking another child's life for that pagol-------Bulbul?


4. This is the second last option. I don't want to be mean . But kahani kuch aisa hai keya karoon------control nehi ho raha hai?
They can tell Bulbul to get married. Tell her she herself can produce baby if she gets married. Later show her or tell how a mother gives up to get a baby. How painful and hard it is. She is acting like a mature woman---------so handle the harsh truth.

5. The last option---------------just slap on her face. There is a limit of stubbornness. Stupid girl.


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: jhalak7

Good post.

What Bulbul actually needs is friends.
She is obsessed with the thought of baby because she is alone.
Now ahat can be done?



1. They can take her to neighbors or regularly bring her to Rathi house. To play with Pari and rest. It would make her normal. Specially when she has to share her things with them. Even take care of them. She will realize that it is much better to stay as a only child than taking so much responsibility with giving up her things. I guess they need to even force her to give all her toys to them.

2. They can adopt a child from orphanage .

3. Well I think her obsession is turning in to insanity now. She might get crazy if they don't take medical attention now. I am just shocked to see that S-S is giving up their new born child under the care of a child who herself needs an adult to take care. What kind of sanity is that? Why are they risking another child's life for that pagol-------Bulbul?


4. This is the second last option. I don't want to be mean . But kahani kuch aisa hai keya karoon------control nehi ho raha hai?
They can tell Bulbul to get married. Tell her she herself can produce baby if she gets married. Later show her or tell how a mother gives up to get a baby. How painful and hard it is. She is acting like a mature woman---------so handle the harsh truth.

5. The last option---------------just slap on her face. There is a limit of stubbornness. Stupid girl.



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