kindly lets keep shilpa out of this

it is my sincere plea to all fellow bhootnis, that we must respect the actors private lives and families/spouses...unless we have some good news to share about them on this forum, or say some nice things about them, we must refrain from using them in our discussions😳

this forum as i understand is to discuss the charcters, the performances...and as fans to even express our dissatisfaction with their performance or any aspect of the show...whether charcterisation, sets, stories, direction...etc....😃

many a times poor shilpa has faced the brunt of some unhappy Apu fans😳 i have observed in the past few days😕

this is my feelings only and there is no compulsion on anyone to agree...😳

Apu is a great actor and comes across as a wonderful human being. these attributes reflect clearly in his performances and the way he has chosen to ignore various allegations flying around😳h

Both he and surveen seem to be still holding their heads hi...and stil seem to share a warm equation on screen...no where i have noted any discomfort 9i am talking about apu and surveen the actors we still get plenty of close ups even if with hilarious results due to poor camerawork ( dev kaajal on the other are distant and remote)except there are no flyin....hugs, breathtaking passionate looks...which is prob more due to an inept maker, shoody direction and we have seen plenty of that

and butchered storyline, mutilated characters than the actors...and their personal equation....

shilpa-

shilpa is an actress by profession and must be well versed with the hazards of her profession. when she married apu, after along courtship she more than anyone else would be aware of the kind of lives they will be leading under the constant mdeia glare.😳

And for the media to get after APu is natural. People who are not media favourites or who dont pally to them get writtten about this way.

It is quite possible that this information about shilpas (alleged) involvement in Apus quittin might have been leaked by someone with vested interest.or just a figment of someones imagination - after media is 95% speculation and 4.99% imagination.😆

dont forget both the actors in the lead pair are quittin same time, it would make any maker jittery, if not...understandably,.....unwilling to reveal what discussions went on behind the scenes.😕..s we dont know the facts one can only speculate and thast falling into wrong hands...as the wise may say....

we even heard chetan hansraj say in an iterview that the show was badly managed....even then...😕

so far we have vague replies from kacon about some perosnalissues being behind Apus quitin...maybe may not be...😕

But as his loyal fans, no matter what we must respect his decision first and foremost. and secondly respect his family.😳 with no exceptions.😃

same with surveen, who seems to be more badly efected as she is single.😳 poor girl. in one of her interviews she was strictly against talking about her perosnal life and rightly so...so in this scenariro when we have tow intensely private people who choose to believe in minding their own biz,😳

natural for media to speculate and weave all kinds of tales...😆

coming back to shilpa - she has not once been seen giving press articles about her (so called concerns about her apu)...i feel she handled the wole matter with a lot of maturity and intelligence.😳even Apu by treating it with complete disdain it deserves...he has only gone on record to express his dissatisfaction about the way his role has progressed...and thats been since the begining his only grouse...😕

Like - Priya who said in her post , it is natural for shilpa to have adviced APu as a business suggestion - which wife wouldnt if they are in the same profession. apu would do the same for her.😳

so this is for Shilpa..from my side😳.I say am sorry shilpa, if we have hurt you or APu in anyway in our disapointment that APu is quits in Kaajjal...

we hope to see you and apu in a show soon.😳..i for one am interested to see her on screen chemistry with her hubby...(real life couples sometimes come out bloopers on screen...but whatever we have seen on nach baliye, they might prove us wrong.)..

better still - i wouldlike to see - shilpa, apu and surveen come together in a soap...romantic one - with a powerful story to back them and in the lead...it is a desire...would prob...shut the gossip mills up once and for all...

what say folks...😳

sammy😛

captains jyo and anu, if you feel anybit is disrespectful and detrimental to this forum, please feel free to lock this post. i just wanted to share my feelings.😳

Oh I don't think there is anything disrespectful about your post Sammy. At least it is a much needed post. Yes all have different views, nut then where the personal lives of the actors is concerned, there can't be any personal views. I too think very strongly that the privacy of celebrities is their right and we muct respect this personal space of theirs.

Thanks Sammy for saying it so beautifully. 👏

SAMMY DEAR.............u wrote very nice
shilpa.apu.sur should come 2gether .........it would be great plz email this idea of urs too to the prodution house .........all will be happy 😳 😳

Originally posted by: autumnleaf

Oh I don't think there is anything disrespectful about your post Sammy. At least it is a much needed post. Yes all have different views, nut then where the personal lives of the actors is concerned, there can't be any personal views. I too think very strongly that the privacy of celebrities is their right and we muct respect this personal space of theirs.

Thanks Sammy for saying it so beautifully. 👏

thanx autumn...i wanted to say this since long, quite fed actually seeing shilpa being dragged into all this.😕..my only interest in her at the moment is if Apu is going to be a papa soon.😃..honestly...i would be very pleased then and pray to gannu bhaiyya to bless them both with lot of happiness😳 if thats the case...apart from that....well..i have said the rest

i know anu has warned the members from gettin too personal...and she is right...for IF can get sued if we act irresponsibly....I hope we are aware that this IF has international reach and observers.😕...so lets act with restraint...and that goes for me...too...if i do slip .😃....i know capt jyo will box my ears in a jiffy😆

sammy

Originally posted by: nasartaurus

SAMMY DEAR.............u wrote very nice
shilpa.apu.sur should come 2gether .........it would be great plz email this idea of urs too to the prodution house .........all will be happy 😳 😳

thanks dear...yes it would fun to watch shilps romancing apu on screen😃

my dream role is for shilpa to play a slightly older sister to surveen and them sharing a very close bond😛

sammy😛

thats written really well..
we should respect everyone and not interfer in someone's personal life..
😳

Very nice post Sammy. 😊

Zareen.

Great post Sammy... 👏 👏 👏

~Mona 😛

Originally posted by: dudleysam

it is my sincere plea to all fellow bhootnis, that we must respect the actors private lives and families/spouses...unless we have some good news to share about them on this forum, or say some nice things about them, we must refrain from using them in our discussions😳

this forum as i understand is to discuss the charcters, the performances...and as fans to even express our dissatisfaction with their performance or any aspect of the show...whether charcterisation, sets, stories, direction...etc....😃

many a times poor shilpa has faced the brunt of some unhappy Apu fans😳 i have observed in the past few days😕

this is my feelings only and there is no compulsion on anyone to agree...😳

Apu is a great actor and comes across as a wonderful human being. these attributes reflect clearly in his performances and the way he has chosen to ignore various allegations flying around😳h

Both he and surveen seem to be still holding their heads hi...and stil seem to share a warm equation on screen...no where i have noted any discomfort 9i am talking about apu and surveen the actors we still get plenty of close ups even if with hilarious results due to poor camerawork ( dev kaajal on the other are distant and remote)except there are no flyin....hugs, breathtaking passionate looks...which is prob more due to an inept maker, shoody direction and we have seen plenty of that

and butchered storyline, mutilated characters than the actors...and their personal equation....

shilpa-

shilpa is an actress by profession and must be well versed with the hazards of her profession. when she married apu, after along courtship she more than anyone else would be aware of the kind of lives they will be leading under the constant mdeia glare.😳

And for the media to get after APu is natural. People who are not media favourites or who dont pally to them get writtten about this way.

It is quite possible that this information about shilpas (alleged) involvement in Apus quittin might have been leaked by someone with vested interest.or just a figment of someones imagination - after media is 95% speculation and 4.99% imagination.😆

dont forget both the actors in the lead pair are quittin same time, it would make any maker jittery, if not...understandably,.....unwilling to reveal what discussions went on behind the scenes.😕..s we dont know the facts one can only speculate and thast falling into wrong hands...as the wise may say....

we even heard chetan hansraj say in an iterview that the show was badly managed....even then...😕

so far we have vague replies from kacon about some perosnalissues being behind Apus quitin...maybe may not be...😕

But as his loyal fans, no matter what we must respect his decision first and foremost. and secondly respect his family.😳 with no exceptions.😃

same with surveen, who seems to be more badly efected as she is single.😳 poor girl. in one of her interviews she was strictly against talking about her perosnal life and rightly so...so in this scenariro when we have tow intensely private people who choose to believe in minding their own biz,😳

natural for media to speculate and weave all kinds of tales...😆

coming back to shilpa - she has not once been seen giving press articles about her (so called concerns about her apu)...i feel she handled the wole matter with a lot of maturity and intelligence.😳even Apu by treating it with complete disdain it deserves...he has only gone on record to express his dissatisfaction about the way his role has progressed...and thats been since the begining his only grouse...😕

Like - Priya who said in her post , it is natural for shilpa to have adviced APu as a business suggestion - which wife wouldnt if they are in the same profession. apu would do the same for her.😳

so this is for Shilpa..from my side😳.I say am sorry shilpa, if we have hurt you or APu in anyway in our disapointment that APu is quits in Kaajjal...

we hope to see you and apu in a show soon.😳..i for one am interested to see her on screen chemistry with her hubby...(real life couples sometimes come out bloopers on screen...but whatever we have seen on nach baliye, they might prove us wrong.)..

better still - i wouldlike to see - shilpa, apu and surveen come together in a soap...romantic one - with a powerful story to back them and in the lead...it is a desire...would prob...shut the gossip mills up once and for all...

what say folks...😳

sammy😛

captains jyo and anu, if you feel anybit is disrespectful and detrimental to this forum, please feel free to lock this post. i just wanted to share my feelings.😳

Hey Sammy😛

A really well-needed post. I totally agree with what you said regarding the fans letting alone the celebrities and not messing up and gossipping about their personal lives. I surely feel that at this point.. as loyal fans we need to support them in their decision..be it professional or personal. Shilpa herself is a celebrity and she really understands the media and its ways and she is quite a cool wife...as far as i understood from whatever i have seen of her..be it on Nach Baliye or during JJKN days. She is a thoroughly professional lady and just like Apu..both of them are quite non-interfering.😳

Shilpa is a bit more extrovert and she is more frank and expressive. Some fans..feel that she is not a really attractive lady...but I felt that she is quite a sweet person..because she takes good care of her husband and is totally considerate towards him. During Nach Baliye days...Apu accidentally broke Shilpa's teeth..while doing a dance move and poor Shilpa inspite of all the pain performed on stage and Apu was so so caring about Shilpa and they were so loving about each other. Perhaps a lot of fans..feel that Shilpa is not as pretty as Apu's other co-stars...but surely she loves Apu a lot and in my eyes..she is beautiful and completely matches Apu in character as well as looks.😳

So friends, let's stop saying bad things about Shilpa and stop linking up Apu to Surveen. Let's just stop linking Apu to Surveen and focus more on the serial and its story and all. I hope that all my friends here will be more focussed regarding the serial..as we all are Kaajjalians here and let's analyse and post our views about the serial and its character and leave the actors out of all kind of gossips and controversies.😛

Love,

Priya😳

👏 This was really needed..I don't know why but since AA has made his debut on the small screen, SS for no fault of hers gets dragged into whatever AA has been involved in and gets bashed left, right, centre, top , bottom. She was spared in NB .. I guess 😕 .I agree her living ways don't appeal to most of AA fans, but you see every person is different. Whats the point in bashing her beyond a certain limit? It's simply wastage of time and energy of not only those who are bashing her but also of those who make a sincere effort in making them realise that they are treading on the wrong path.. Instead we can utilise it in more fruitful discussions like ..ummmm.. 😳