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leavesandwaves

@leavesandwaves

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Posted: 10 years ago

Its ok to be liar, thief and prankster causing injuries if you are little girl who has been undergoing ill treatment from everyone.

If you have these skills, how is it possible you are not able to escape? Or you do not want to escape?

Edited by leavesandwaves - 10 years ago

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aparnauma

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves
Its ok to be liar, thief and prankster causing injuries if you are little girl who has been undergoing ill treatment from everyone.

If you have these skills, how is it possible you are not able to escape? Or you do not want to escape?

That's why her MIL tied her up and locked her in kotri😛😆

Her MIL got irritated with her for her SAMAJ SEVIKA act😆

She just wanted to help that girl and make her life easier and she did that.

Nobody is there to tell what is right what is not right.

If she had caring parents they would have told her that's not the way to do things if she wanted to help someone

Escape from the situation is probably not her style😛

Coping with the life in the best possible way according to her seems to be what she is doing.

She is not helping the other girl run away either.

She is teaching a few survival tricks😛

Her mother and father never escaped from the situations they were placed in either.They either tried to change those situations which were not to their liking or learnt to adjust to the circumstances and try not to get affected.The girl is doing the same thing what her mother has been doing all these years.Only thing is she doesn't give bhashans like her mother did.

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SPuja

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Posted: 10 years ago

It just shows how creatives have a twisted mind. What Nandini did will make her friend's life more difficult. Was she doing samaj-sewa? She made her friend's mother-in-law fall and get injured. Was she thinking that her friend will not be punished more severely for this prank. She is around 12 and if we believe that she has been tortured since she was a mere baby, then she must know that playing such pranks will get more punishment. She made life of her friend more difficult - and creatives want us to feel pain of Nandini because she is punished for playing prank?

Nandini did not try to escape from her sasural because that is the only family she knows. If she was kidnapped when she was a little older (like the age when Amol got kidnapped) she would sure tried to escape. But in present situation - where will she go if she runs away from her sasural?

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leavesandwaves

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Posted: 10 years ago

When Nandini is tortured, she will not think where she will go. The natural instinct is to go away and not to think of consequences. The situation can be anything worse. The child prostitution angle is there but Nandini does not know about it.
Many kids run away just to escape punishments and torture.

I think Nandini has developed Stockholm Syndrome. Falling n love with the torturers. She is also seeing various people being tortured and so she must be thinking it is normal. Poor thing, what kind of life she is subjected to.

In BV, only girls undergo continuous torture without being saved for years. While Amol and Jagya and even a grownup Shiv were saved from beggar gang and other gangs quickly.

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Stalwart.

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Posted: 10 years ago

Of course Nimboli has been undergoing ill treatment but didn't her past experiences remind her the harsh consequences of playing pranks? How she thought her prank would help her friend?

Nimboli's friend must have received a severe beating or some other punishment from her mother in law after this incident.

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leavesandwaves

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Stalwart.

Of course Nimboli has been undergoing ill treatment but didn't her past experiences remind her the harsh consequences of playing pranks? How she thought her prank would help her friend?

Nimboli's friend must have received a severe beating or some other punishment from her mother in law after this incident.

It is like playing with fire. The fire will obviously singe and cause terrible pain.

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SPuja

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Posted: 10 years ago

We know Nandini is the new lead. I would feel better if she could show how to do the work in a better way. Then we could think that she was trying to help her friend. But the way she pelted stone on Kundan and his friends and then the prank on this lady - it feels like she herself has started enjoying other people's pain - to give punishment to those she feels are bad. Not a healthy sign if they want viewers to have sympathy with Nandini and her plight. This violence is as bad as grown up leads suffering in silence.

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leavesandwaves

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Posted: 10 years ago

That type of fall will even cause death. Or break spinal chord in some cases. It is not funny.

Thats the reason why I never liked Home Alone series. It puts wrong ideas in kids. That its ok.

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aparnauma

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Posted: 10 years ago

The issue here is Nandini is growing up in a household where nobody bothers to teach her what is right and what is wrong.

She has only seen women and girls being treated this way from the time she became aware of surroundings.So she doesn't think of escaping.

Instead comes up with ways to fight the situations.Mostly they are wrong and are in effective simply because her mental faculties are not developed enough to do things in the right way.There is nobody to help her to do things in the right way.

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She set out to make things easier for that girl but instead made things difficult for that girl with that prank - interestingly she didn't tell the girl to run away either but she was helping in her own INEPT and HIGHLY INADEQUATE way helping the girl to fight her sasuma.In the process doing a lot of damage.

Harki Devi got angry because what Nandini did was wrong and locked her up in kotri.But there is no way will Nandini will realise that why her act of helping others is wrong if she is treated this way.

Had Nandini been with her parents would they handle things this way? No. They would tell why what she did was wrong and then punish her for doing it.

Edited by aparnauma - 10 years ago

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aparnauma

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Nandini is the future lead/ Current lead but she is also a kid being brought up in an entirely wrong way.

It would be nice to see her help her friend in the right way. Who is there to teach her the right ways?

Does anyone have time to explain things to her?Does anyone even care enough to show her the right way? Do they even know what the right way to do things is?

The only people who think about her and care for her is that caretaker woman and Mangala who themselves are oppressed and don't know how to fight situtations like this.

This is what will happen to kids who are strong enough to face the situations they are placed in and have a good heart to help others in trouble but have no way of knowing how to do things in the right manner because simply because there is no elder guiding them.

Anandi had so many people Her parents who have a strong sense of what is right what is wrong Teacherji Sumi and Bhairon - Anandi had a lot of people guiding her through out her life but what about this girl?

She may be like Anandi in many ways but to do things Anandi way she needs some one to guide her and open up her mind.

Dsa was also a strong woman and she was locked up in a dark room called traditions and beliefs of the society.She lived for those rules - somebody came up and triggered her to question those beliefs - that's how Dsa's mind opened up.

Mind has to be opened up.That's the reason why I think Anandi is needed in Nandini's life.

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