Yeh Hai Shagun-nigans

FYI Shagun-nigans = Shagun + Shenanigans

Frankly I couldn't connect to anything today ...but this shot in the Precap gave me a good laugh...which is not a bad thing...as these days some stuff reminds me of the quintessential cartoon Disney characters. Subtlety is SOOO overrated I tell ya!😉

No Offense meant to the actor, but YHM these days is all about Shagun-nigans...maybe it's time we pay respect to the powerhouse she has become that controls the storyline now while Ashok looks like a another one of those YHM suporting cast who drop by once in a while when the CVs remember that they are in the Payroll.

I watched the episode quickly (as in FF ed through it) ..nothing to write home about. I write about scene/scenes that leaves an impact...and today Precap was the one.

On serious note...Pertinent post by appuss .
Say NO to gender inequality... plz see and spread the thought

I m very disturbed watching the episode for several reasons.. the way things are handled by cvs is making me question few things here.. I wud be very happy if someone can address them or prove me wrong...

Toshi ji: She categorically termed Sarika as not fit to marry her son Romi..however today she is ready to "mitti daal" to the old conversation n expect sarika to forget and forgive as well... n she is supposed to be a postive character.. if her son's inability to father a child is making her do like this ...is she any different than Bala's Mom...

we have many a times wondered what wud raman do if ishita n he met before ruhi n adi happnd.. do u think even if raman wud have overlooked, toshi ji wud have allowed... coz simply by looking at her gkc obsession... (not even any child.. a son at that...) she wudnt have thrown a fit just like Mrs Chandran. So how is she a positive character..n we r all supposed to hate Bala's Mom... the reason that toshi ji has happily accepted ishita as her bahu... is coz raman already has two kids.. simply put...

Sarika: It was projected to us viewers n as well as sarika, tht romi has changed... n even thou people warned, she decided to believe her instinct n love.. yes she was wrong.. but she cant be penalised for a wrong judgement... we all thought romi shudhar gaya hain... n love does make u not see reason... n today i was very proud of sarika.. if we blame sarika for being pregnant... then i dont think we r doing much justice to all those women who make love to their partners thinking they love them,,,n then they ditch...

Romi: I was suprised looking at him... he doesnt have one ounce of remorse... he looked like, u r my quick fix... n if raman wud have seen the stunt romi was pulling while saying sorry to sarika.,.. i dont think the rkb i know wud have forced the marriage...

Raman n Ishita: I get it...this is husband wife fighting..till yesterday, even thou raman said some very wrong n harsh words towards ishita...i still digested it... coz i know how it is... myself being a short tempered person, i know, when u r angry...u say bullshit things..things which u also know r not true...n raman was agitated yesterday, seeing his mother's plight... but what abotu today... even thou ishita continued to talk..u didnt feel the need to talk... even thou she asked u abt shagun meeting, u kept mum... the only self talk u had was.."i know adi needs to come here at any cost..."... why not a " i know ishita, we r not in same page..but i m trying hard..." soemthing like tht?? Today Raman's behaviour hurt me very deeply.. i love raman n his character... but just becoz i love him, i cant support him in everything... his shouting even thou harsh still was digestable..but why the silent treatment,,,when ur wife is trying to overlook the fight n continue talking to u...

n it agitates me, when i see husband n wife not discussing regarding very important decisions, financial n otherwise...it affects both ur lives..so why not discuss... is it becoz adi is UR son..n not ishita n ur son... i truly believe in actions speak louder than words... just by saying adi needs a mother like u is not sufficient... u need to act on that...

Raman: If toshi ji n her high bp can make u act 'selfish' n decide romi to get married to sarika... what wud have hpnd... if u have met ishita before adi n ruhi was born,..what wud have been ur decision... if you also truly belive tht romi's situation is a problem which needs to be fixed... then how are different than subbu..who thinks own baby is necessary for any marriage...

I truly always wanted to belive tht our rkb is different...but i m having difficulty in digesting today...

PS: i love both raman n ishita with their faults... but the issue n the way things are handled are getting too much...

Sorry for the long rant...

I would be very happy if we have a healthy discussion on the same.. without any personal attack n ishita vs raman post... as i love both equally...