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Posted: 10 years ago
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Viewers are in no way responsible for Anandi's condition. Anandi - a mere character cannot see viewer's reaction. As regard family - when did she cared for family's reaction? "Anandi does exactly what she wants and what she thinks is right" how many times we have read these lines - even fans of Anandi accept this. Family was against her during Sanchi court case also, even her husband was against her and did not see her point - did she care for family or their opinion or what will be their reaction? Did she even tell the truth in court? No, all she did was all she did was to give clean chit to whom she wanted to give.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: SPuja

Viewers are in no way responsible for Anandi's condition. Anandi - a mere character cannot see viewer's reaction. As regard family - when did she cared for family's reaction? "Anandi does exactly what she wants and what she thinks is right" how many times we have read these lines - even fans of Anandi accept this. Family was against her during Sanchi court case also, even her husband was against her and did not see her point - did she care for family or their opinion or what will be their reaction? Did she even tell the truth in court? No, all she did was all she did was to give clean chit to whom she wanted to give.

So well said... Anandi always does what she wants and what she thinks is right.

So I am assuming this time also she wanted to go to BH. And then now suddenly finding herself in akward situation with respect to JaGan is her majboori and helpnessness?




Edited by Missesha - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Why is this the first time that she's finding herself in akward situation because Jagya is her ex-husband ? While he lived with Gauri, she wasn't embarrassed to call him constantly to inform him that she sent him a money, to inform him about all those things that are happening in BH. While she was engaged with Shiv she didn't find inappropriate to be in BH with Jagya,to spend nights in his room during Jagiya's amnesia. Nobody forced her to do it, she had all Bairon's support . In fact, Bairon was a bit angry because of her decision . Why never before she didn't think that perhaps it is not appropriate to interfere so much in Jagya's life because he's her ex? She forced him to remarry ,she gives him a-long lectures on how to behave,she never missed an opportunity to run in BH. All that time Jagya was his ex .
Why she didn't tell that to Shekars? Why did not say that to Dadisa? There was a time when she knew how to say very firmly NO to Dadisa . There was a time when she did things contrary to the Skekars wishes. There was a time when she said to her parents she wont go with them after Jagya's marriage with Gauri.. Why now this talk precisely with Jagya?. Maybe to make him feel again somehow guilty coz she is unhappy, powerless to confront others but she only thinks of his happiness and peaceful married life? She is kinda homeless, she will live in Staff Quarters (despite having two houses, one made by her late husband and her father who's still alive) But no, she'll again sacrifice herself for his happiness because she doesn't want to cause any problem between him and Ganga. So what if Jagya really said yes, you should live in Staff Quarters, he would be insensitive,selfish.Poor Anandi, she thinks about Jagya's happiness, but he doesn't think about her tragedy. Its just , the people who really think about others happiness , do not talk to them about it but working on it without giving the reasons why they do it.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Missesha

So was going to BH, the only option left with Anandi?

Is she still naive, that she could not foresee that BH is also her ex-husband's house?

If she could decide that she does not want to go to Singapore, why couldn't she decide that she does not want to go to BH either?

Others can only toss us, if we let ourselves be tossed. If we are firm enough, the world will bend. But Anandi only likes 'majbooris'. Someone seeks a promise from her and she abides endlessly against her wishes. Who can help her fate then?

KB is also Anandi's house, and so is the farm-house. No one could have dissed her, if she chose to be firm. But she probably wanted to go back to BH, so she did not object firmly. And now it is being show-cased as her majboori.

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This reminds me of how Ganga accepted Jagya's maang-filling incident. Ganga wanted Jagya, so she accepted his act under the name of majboori. Just imagine, if balachander had filled her maang without her approval, wouldn't she have dragged him to the court and got him punished?

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The leads of hindi serial just always live under promises and majboori. Women empowerment is just name sake.




@bold - It reminded me too of Ganga's behaviour. That is what I call smartness. You go to the wrong people and act like you don't want to trouble them and what you get in turn is more assurance from them. For example , in this case, if Ganga objects to this(which would still be a very valid point), she will be highlighted as the mean, cruel one. During Ganga's episode, Sumitra was the bakra.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: SPuja

I think it is useless to discuss character's age - there cannot be a convincing clue unless they show a specific birthday - like Ganga celebrating her 25th birthday etc. As far as I remember - she was not 18 when Mannu was born - pressure on her increased when she turned 18, but for a long time she could not become mother - then when family went for another marriage of Ratan - she discovered that she is pregnant. Age of Ganga and Amol will always be a mystery. Mannu should be around 5 years old .

Ganga was not below 18 when got pregnant with Mannu She quite clearly said the pressure increased on her when she turned 18 and she was discovered to be pregnant some years later and Mannu is told to be 2 and half years last year i am saying what is told in serial and Mannu could not walk quite straightly He was bit dawadol looks like kid who merely started learning walking . 5 years so much time has not passed IMO He would be 3-4 years old The child actor is said to be in reality going to turn 4 soon

Age except Anandi's no one 's is told in clear words Some make guesses about Jagya's age he is 2 years older to Anandi I have never heard his age in serial as a kid but he was shown to be a teenager post 5 years leap when JaAn met In various articles of colors they are introduced to be 18 year olds then and Shashank too says he entered as a teenager then how Jagya is 2 years older to Anandi someone please clear me that 😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Beautiful-Soul

Ganga was not below 18 when got pregnant with Mannu She quite clearly said the pressure increased on her when she turned 18 and she was discovered to be pregnant some years later and Mannu is told to be 2 and half years last year i am saying what is told in serial and Mannu could not walk quite straightly He was bit dawadol looks like kid who merely started learning walking . 5 years so much time has not passed IMO He would be 3-4 years old The child actor is said to be in reality going to turn 4 soon

Age except Anandi's no one 's is told in clear words Some make guesses about Jagya's age he is 2 years older to Anandi I have never heard his age in serial as a kid but he was shown to be a teenager post 5 years leap when JaAn met In various articles of colors they are introduced to be 18 year olds then and Shashank too says he entered as a teenager then how Jagya is 2 years older to Anandi someone please clear me that 😆

Shashank said it wrong...in a very old episode of BV, Abhishek Bachan had met Jagya, Anandi and Sugna and i remember in that episode Jagya confirmed that he is 2 yrs older than Anandi.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Shashank said it wrong...in a very old episode of BV, Abhishek Bachan had met Jagya, Anandi and Sugna and i remember in that episode Jagya confirmed that he is 2 yrs older than Anandi.

Shashank did not say wrong How he can ?because he played the role Cvs must have explained to him naa his role that in which phase Jagya is. He won't be making his own guesses Jagya was teenager when he started coz he lived the role 😆He knew what kind of role he is playing and most of forum people cannot be wrong who count Jagya as teen post leap when JaAn were introduced as grown ups

Actually I don't remember that scene because i started regularly watching after Prats enter and to me SV correctly said he started Jagya as as a teenager in this show Of course Shashank does not know about Jagya much before he entered He will only talk how he entered what was his character then

May be Jagya would be joking then if he was serious then creatives changed Jagya's age post 5 years leap😆 because he was shown a freshly passed grade 12 student who was preparing to enter medical college there is no gap in his education He cannot be more 18 to 19 then That's what cvs promoted through various synopsis as well and I also remember BV receiving criticism by viewers for showing teenagers romance SR, honeymoon Mostly viewers objection was they were kids then how they are promoting such things for them so if creatives told Jagya to be 2 years older to Anandi really then they changed it post leap

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Posted: 10 years ago
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There was an episode with Abhishek Bacchan where the age diffrences between J A and Suguna are mentioned.
All three of them Anandi Jagya and Suguna are one year apart.
Gauri is one year younger than Anandi and they implied that Ganga and Sanchi are in the similar age group both are supposed to be much younger than Anandi. probably 3-4 years.
I guess Varun and Nandu are around the same
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Instead of age, we can make age groups.

Jagya and Anandi and even Gauri belong to the same age group.

Ganga and Sanchi belong to the other age group.

Why this breast beating about age in this modern age when Sachin's wife is years elder to Sachin and Ash is elder to Abhishek? And there are lakhs of such examples all over the world.

Will a woman become less attractive due to age factor?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I don't know why this age discussion is happening.
Well more than Ganga's sweetness it is Dsa whose habit of tying up Anandi with emotional blackmail that seems to be endless.
They have shown Anandi rebelling against restriction imposed by traditions and have shown her standing up for others in front of Dadisa after making Anandi fearless and bold they can't show her bowing down before Dsa out of fear or just out of habit of obeying elders - so they ceated this major flw in Anandi - that is being EBed by the ones she loves and cares for. So when ever they want to bring down and butcher Anandi they use this.
They packaged this whole move to BH as a show of concern by Daddu and Dsa and made it difficult for her to refuse.Anandi did rebel against family many times when she wanted to start a school or when she wanted to do her social work in Udaipur she rebelled against restrictions then
But when somebody posing restrictions in the best interests of her she did obey them just like now she did,
Only after coming here she realised that BH doesn't feel like home anymore and she wanted to move out.May be the feeling of not feeling at home was something unexpected for her because she used to come every now and then for functions like a family member but the enormity of it struck when she realised that she had to live there.
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Don't know but the spoiler for the next episode says a depressed Anandi invites DSa for holi celebrations? Wonder what it means ? Has she shifted out of BH??

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