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Posted: 10 years ago
#31
Then even her marriage is nothing but recycling
If you go by your beliefs about marriage all single people lead miserable existence

I wonder if people championing for third marriage of Anandi would they themselves go for it if put in Anandi's place?

I know I will not go for it.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: aparnauma

Then even her marriage is nothing but recycling

If you go by your beliefs about marriage all single people lead miserable existence

I wonder if people championing for third marriage of Anandi would they themselves go for it if put in Anandi's place?

I know I will not go for it.



No one says that singles lead miserable lives. Its a choice. Whether one wants to lead a miserable single life or a miserable married life. Or
Whether one wants to live a happy single life or a happy married life.



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Posted: 10 years ago
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Anandi samaj Seva track was flop previously. I dont think so much audience will like this samaj seva stuff. No trp when there was beggar track and sharab bandi and other track.
Basically now only old Balikavadhu fans watch this serial , no new viewers for balikavadhu.

Specially young generation is not interested in this show. They consider this show boring .

I read interview of writer of this show Gajra Kottary. She stated in that - people tells her that they dont like balikavadhu now.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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waw..Back to BV forum after 2 year...lol.
I just pop is say hello!!!

I like this topic...but not because i want Anandi to marry.
but I wanted to know how BV fans will feel about that.

As for me, I dont mind her remarrying but only when she found someone she feels she wants to continue with.
How does Anandi's moving on with marital life equals moving from Shiv's memories?
My Prof, Dr Williams. Was so in love with her late husband...(part of me think she is still in love with him). They were high school sweethearts, had 3 kids,and after 15 years of married he died.
She remarried after 4 years of his death, and her new marriage is 2 years now.
the point is that she always talk about him almost every day in class. her name is still has his last name - new husband's last name.
You may think its not fair to her new husband?...wait until you see the wonderful chemistry she shares with the new husband.( I went to her house for Christmas party). I think he really understands and respects the memory to his wife's late husband.
My main point is not to give reasons why Anandi should marry, but to see reason why remarry is not a problem...if she ever wish too.
I lost my dad 13 years ago and my mom was just 38. she never remarried...even after many failed attempt by friends and family,( i really wish she agrees...even now). Its not as easy as people think. I have watched her cry herself to sleep, but pretend to be happy and then fall sick...with us married, no one is there to comfort her.
NOT A GOOD PICTURE.


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: avyarima

waw..Back to BV forum after 2 year...lol.
I just pop is say hello!!!

I like this topic...but not because i want Anandi to marry.
but I wanted to know how BV fans will feel about that.

As for me, I dont mind her remarrying but only when she found someone she feels she wants to continue with.
How does Anandi's moving on with marital life equals moving from Shiv's memories?
My Prof, Dr Williams. Was so in love with her late husband...(part of me think she is still in love with him). They were high school sweethearts, had 3 kids,and after 15 years of married he died.
She remarried after 4 years of his death, and her new marriage is 2 years now.
the point is that she always talk about him almost every day in class. her name is still has his last name - new husband's last name.
You may think its not fair to her new husband?...wait until you see the wonderful chemistry she shares with the new husband.( I went to her house for Christmas party). I think he really understands and respects the memory to his wife's late husband.
My main point is not to give reasons why Anandi should marry, but to see reason why remarry is not a problem...if she ever wish too.
I lost my dad 13 years ago and my mom was just 38. she never remarried...even after many failed attempt by friends and family,( i really wish she agrees...even now). Its not as easy as people think. I have watched her cry herself to sleep, but pretend to be happy and then fall sick...with us married, no one is there to comfort her.
NOT A GOOD PICTURE.


i don't want to be regressive but its difficult to find a good groom who will accept three kids of Anandi without asking for more or even accept these kids willingly...had kids been adult then one might even think about marriage but at such young age when the child needs whole of mother's attention, it will be easy for a man to happily accept Anandi giving more time to her kids than been with him. The situation will look too ideal, quiet unrealistic and not to mention remarriage is the most used track of BV...viewers will not accept Anandi marrying everytime something wrong goes with her marriage. They would rather prefer her to live with her kids and Shiv's memories...besides normally an indian woman cannot be comfortable in remembering her former husband (no matter how goode was) as cherishly as before her remarriage...people think its useless as the remarriage should have removed the lonliness she used to feel...i'm not saying remarriage is regressive but if it is been shown in t.v serial then it has to be acceptable and also little close to reality.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Comapring her situation in previous marriage with this one is not acceptable
in her first marriage she hardly experienced any bliss of married life...when she realized duties and happiness of marriage, it all became one sided...jagya was losing attachment, used to hardly live with her and she did not even get a chance of motherhood. she got insulted and felt low as woman.
in her second marriage, she realized the equality between partners, her worth as a woman, experience the joy of giving and receiving equally in marriage, enjoyed the attention of being someone's special and she got to experience motherhood. so i think at that stage a remarriage was important for a woman like Anandi who had killed her dreams due to loss of hope. She wanted happiness of marriage like any other normal girl but could not have the faith to accept such desire. Does she have such desire now? now remarriage isn't a necessity of her life so if she feels only then she should marry.

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