about the concept of father-daughter

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Posted: 10 years ago
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i dont understand the concept of proving women better than men.
anjali is cleary depicting the attitude of inferiority being a girl.
if your father dont aprove you as girl then go & prove anything to show
you are better than boy.isnt funny?anjali father belong to category of those ppl who want
those things only which are benefcial.if son is benefial & useful then nice.
if girl prove more beneficil then more nice.this is called opportunistic
attitude which want child for their benefit.those ppl who want boy only are those ppl
who think that boy will benefit them.do such ppl really love thier child.
no!becoz for such ppl child are future insurance.son can take care of them
in old days & benefit in many ways so they yearn for son.they are calculated ppl
who see birth as trade.such ppl never love their child.they only seek their usefulness.
its unfortunate to see that instead of discouraging such selfish attitude,
tv & govtment are promoting concept that how girl is more useful than boy.
that means at last all thing is about usefulness.prove yourself useful & get recognition.
what about special child?if your child is good for nothing then dump it.
thatswhy india is among those countries where cases of special child mistreatment
or throwing them away r increasing day by day.if parents really love their child they will love
despite it being girl,boy or alien.but if parents want child for their advantage,
they cant love.they will only use them for their benefits.
y there is need to say that girl is better than boy?both r pysically,mentally,
biologically & naturally different.both have their own place in society.
both have right to live their lfe with freedom & dignity.
if girl want to summit everest,its her wish.its nothing to do with that
climbing a mountain is boys work as work is neutral.making
it gender specific is stupidity.

i see its anjali stupity & inferiority complex to prove herself to her father
better than son.if her father start loving her becoz she summit
mt everest then this love is fake.if her father love her becoz she
prove herself advantageous,useful,beneficial then this cant be love.
i actualy dont like concept of everest.
i would have liked more if everest summit was anjali dream & passion.
but she want to prove to her father that she is extraordinary girl
who can as useful as son & his father can feel same love &pride
for her as he wld feel for his son.
if a father cant love his daughter ,then his love for son also cant be
genuine as he love his son for his usefulness.true parents
always love their child irrespective of gender,condition & problems even disability.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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go and watch ekta aunty serial don't waste time here.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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listen brainless person anjali father is brigadier he earn more. Than 1 lakh per month plus extra benifit including traveling, medical plus he get pension .so its clear he no money problem first watch all episode anjali climb only for becoz her father dream was to climb.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: naren1390

listen brainless person anjali father is brigadier he earn more. Than 1 lakh per month plus extra benifit including traveling, medical plus he get pension .so its clear he no money problem first watch all episode anjali climb only for becoz her father dream was to climb.


xcuse me!why did u personally attack me?what i did to u?do i know u?do i personally abuse u?
did u read my post carefully?i like this show.what i did not like i said.
do i need permission of u to post here about my view?i expressed my disliking about anjali father attitude & anjali quest to satisfy it.i expressed my views about fictional characters & show bt you are
attacking a real person harshly for expressing view.
what harm my post did to you that you leave your decency & dignity to attack a viewer?who r you to tell me that what should i do?if you did not like my post then you wld simply disagree.
i dont know about you bt your rude comments definetely show your mentality.
i did not know that this forum has boss like you who judge others for comments & order them rudely.
do this forum is your personal property?
i m really sorry that my post made you to loose your dignity.

Edited by ilovemyself98 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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sorry , but first watch all episode then start judging or make comment
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: naren1390

sorry , but first watch all episode then start judging or make comment

pliz first read my post carefully.i m nt talking about climbing everest.
i was talking about parents disapproval of child just becoz they want their child to be usefull that means child should fulfill their ambition either name,fame ,wealth,vanshwad or be successful.
show is depicting that anjali is climbing everest to get approval in eyes of father.but what if she cant?
what if child is nt capable of fulfilling parents expectation?
even if now after succesfully summit of everest ,if anjali get approval & achieve love from her father wld it be real.she prove herself as euivalent to son what kernel had expected from his son?
but is her father love wld be real which he felt after watching her succesfull.
i m just objecting this attitude that think link love to achievements.
should parents love child for achievements?no!
true parents love their child first despite of their success or failure ,achievement or nothing,either girl or boy.
but materialistic parents want their child to fulfill their wishes like a machine.those kind of parents discriminate between boys & girls as they know boys can be more usefull.caring & accepting ur child for sake of its advantage is nt love.

i was talking about it.it has nothing to do show.i was objecting the fact that promoting usefulness to get parent love is not good.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Actually, she isn't climbing Everest for her dad anymore. Before she left for the mission she told her dad that she initially started this journey for him, but now it has become her dream to climb Everest. She is summiting Everest because she has become an inspiration for young girls. She wants to prove to them that hard work and determination can take you where ever you want regardless of your gender.

Moreover I don't think her dad's change of heart is due to her proving herself useful. If you watched the episodes of him looking through her pictures in her room, you could tell that he is regretful for the way that he treated Anjali. She loved him and continues to love him despite the fact that he has been a unaffectionate, uninvolved father throughout her entire life. It's not at all about Anjali proving herself useful, but about him accepting his uselessness and wanting to rectify his mistakes.

Honestly, Everest has got to be one of the most beautiful, realistic, and relatable shows I have seen on Indian television.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: naren1390

listen brainless person anjali father is brigadier he earn more. Than 1 lakh per month plus extra benifit including traveling, medical plus he get pension .so its clear he no money problem first watch all episode anjali climb only for becoz her father dream was to climb.



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Posted: 10 years ago
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ok i accept my mistake .

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