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sunny.gurl

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Posted: 10 years ago

Well, a mother's anxiety and desperation at the time of her daughter's marriage alliance getting fixed is perfectly understood. But it is not the end of the world if the alliance is not fixed. It was shown earlier too when Akshara and Rituraj meet and like each other but over some very stupid reason, the alliance matter doesn't go further. And over this Rajshri expressed her sorrow as if rituraj was the only guy left for akshara and now when he has denied then no one will marry her. Later even they hide it from singhanias when naitik-akshara alliance is getting fixed(there's no need of hiding or revealing anything) Huh!!!

Same desperation can be seen being expressed by our chhoti maa, devyaani. She is either very sweet or very sulky at times. What's the need of going to Alok's home early morning. Akshara is right to clear things about devyaani and rashmi's past in the initial phase of relation but devyaani is so much desperate that she just wants the alliance to be fixed at any cost.

Ofcourse her concern for her daughter is making her do so. But she must calm down a bit.

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The title made me 🤣 ...very apt title for Devyani 😆 .

I agree Akshara did the right thing...You cannot start a new relation like this. What if Alok's family found out after the engagement and then broke the rishta. That would have been worse, atleast they have not done anything wrong by telling the truth.

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Naksh4evaa

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Posted: 10 years ago

Well, I agree with you until a point. Indian arranged marriages are a very sensitive subject to them. It seems to much for me too but I've grown into a country where arranged marriages doesn't happen. We never marry so young (as Akshara, for example) or let's our parents choose the groom.

But Devyaani is right to be worried for Muskan because there is a difference between an rejection of a boy and of a girl. If the boy family rejects the girl, the girl will be blamed and she will find another groom a lot harder. This is why Devyaani is so worried!

The only thing I disliked about those arranged marriages was Rashmi's. The Singhanias were wrong, and married Rashmi into a very modern family, into a family that was so different and what was the result? Poor Rashmi ended divorced and a poor baby girl is without her father. Nikhil liked to party, drink while Singhania family never allowed such things. I believe they jumped to fast and married Rashmi too soon.

And after she divorced, everybody told her to remarry. They should have left her to decide when is the right time to remarry. But everybody was soo desperate. That was something I didn't liked about Akshara at all. I wonder what would have happened if she was in Rashmi's place... would she had remarried so fast? And when she already have a child?

I actually don't really watch this show that much so sorry if I'm wrong with some detalies. I'm waiting for the leap, maybe it will bring something interesting. 😆

(That is my opinion, yours can be different.) 😃

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sunny.gurl

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Naksh4evaa
Well, I agree with you until a point. Indian arranged marriages are a very sensitive subject to them. It seems to much for me too but I've grown into a country where arranged marriages doesn't happen. We never marry so young (as Akshara, for example) or let's our parents choose the groom.
But Devyaani is right to be worried for Muskan because there is a difference between an rejection of a boy and of a girl. If the boy family rejects the girl, the girl will be blamed and she will find another groom a lot harder. This is why Devyaani is so worried!

The only thing I disliked about those arranged marriages was Rashmi's. The Singhanias were wrong, and married Rashmi into a very modern family, into a family that was so different and what was the result? Poor Rashmi ended divorced and a poor baby girl is without her father. Nikhil liked to party, drink while Singhania family never allowed such things. I believe they jumped to fast and married Rashmi too soon.
And after she divorced, everybody told her to remarry. They should have left her to decide when is the right time to remarry. But everybody was soo desperate. That was something I didn't liked about Akshara at all. I wonder what would have happened if she was in Rashmi's place... would she had remarried so fast? And when she already have a child?

I actually don't really watch this show that much so sorry if I'm wrong with some detalies. I'm waiting for the leap, maybe it will bring something interesting. 😆
(That is my opinion, yours can be different.) 😃

Well dear, rejection of a gurl for marriage can become the matter of concern for parents but it's not the end of their world. In this serial, people react as if their world is clashing around. In real life, I have never seen such a thing. There's difference between concern/worry and desperation. As for devyaani, she forgets all the good akshara has done unto her and starts cursing and blaming akshara. Don't like it at all.

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Christine

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: sunny.gurl

Well dear, rejection of a gurl for marriage can become the matter of concern for parents but it's not the end of their world. In this serial, people react as if their world is clashing around. In real life, I have never seen such a thing. There's difference between concern/worry and desperation. As for devyaani, she forgets all the good akshara has done unto her and starts cursing and blaming akshara. Don't like it at all.

@bold: Completely agree with you.I am fed up you know to see these kind of over reactions when
a girl is rejected and the dialogue like my daughter's life is spoilt,who will marry her? and whatever 🤢.Why jumping to the conclusion so immediately?
A mother has got every right to show her concern for her children, this cannot be questioned.
Its hard to face rejection but as a mother she should be strong and hope the best for her
daughter.Rejection does not mean that Muskan is not good.

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Posted: 10 years ago

I agree with sunnygurl but only until a point. Devyani sometimes gets hyper just like rajshri but getting concerned for muskaan was valid here. Why? because Many of their relatives already know that Alok and Muskaan are seeing each other for quite sometime now and as it was going on from last 5 months hence, if Alok's family now denies this relationship, it will majorly affect Muskaan. Though it will affect Alok as well. But as they say, society always mostly blames a girl if her relationship/would be relationship rejected. Still, these kind of things are very common and they play a vital major role in making relationships as we live in a society.

And I also agree with the below above posted & below quoted comment by Naksh4evaa. I respect your opinion and feel free to share it with us.😃

Rashmi's remarriage is not necessary at this point. Why force her to remarry? Its not only Akshara's fault but all others as well, they forced Rashmi to move on. Why? It's Rashmi's life and she should have liberty to live as she wants. She could have married again after some years, why so soon? It will take time for her wound to fill.

Originally posted by: Naksh4evaa
Well, I agree with you until a point. Indian arranged marriages are a very sensitive subject to them. It seems to much for me too but I've grown into a country where arranged marriages doesn't happen. We never marry so young (as Akshara, for example) or let's our parents choose the groom.
But Devyaani is right to be worried for Muskan because there is a difference between an rejection of a boy and of a girl. If the boy family rejects the girl, the girl will be blamed and she will find another groom a lot harder. This is why Devyaani is so worried!

The only thing I disliked about those arranged marriages was Rashmi's. The Singhanias were wrong, and married Rashmi into a very modern family, into a family that was so different and what was the result? Poor Rashmi ended divorced and a poor baby girl is without her father. Nikhil liked to party, drink while Singhania family never allowed such things. I believe they jumped to fast and married Rashmi too soon.
And after she divorced, everybody told her to remarry. They should have left her to decide when is the right time to remarry. But everybody was soo desperate. That was something I didn't liked about Akshara at all. I wonder what would have happened if she was in Rashmi's place... would she had remarried so fast? And when she already have a child?

I actually don't really watch this show that much so sorry if I'm wrong with some detalies. I'm waiting for the leap, maybe it will bring something interesting. 😆
(That is my opinion, yours can be different.) 😃

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Atharva Dev

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: ..Christine..

@bold: Completely agree with you.I am fed up you know to see these kind of over reactions when
a girl is rejected and the dialogue like my daughter's life is spoilt,who will marry her? and whatever 🤢.Why jumping to the conclusion so immediately?
A mother has got every right to show her concern for her children, this cannot be questioned.
Its hard to face rejection but as a mother she should be strong and hope the best for her
daughter.Rejection does not mean that Muskan is not good.

Hi Christine and Sunnygurl

I agree with both of you that its not the end of the world for a girl if she gets rejected by a boy and its family.

BUT but, it does makes more difficult to form new relationship for that girl because most of their relatives already knew that Muskaan and Alok are seeing each other from 5 months and so, its already spread in society so if now Alok's family rejects Muskaan, then Devyani's concern for her is valid completely. Especially in the area like Rajasthan, these things still do matter a lot. They are still bound by traditional culture a lot. Alok's family is a good example.

However, over concern by devyani is different thing.😊

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sunny.gurl

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: ..Christine..

@bold: Completely agree with you.I am fed up you know to see these kind of over reactions when
a girl is rejected and the dialogue like my daughter's life is spoilt,who will marry her? and whatever 🤢.Why jumping to the conclusion so immediately?
A mother has got every right to show her concern for her children, this cannot be questioned.
Its hard to face rejection but as a mother she should be strong and hope the best for her
daughter.Rejection does not mean that Muskan is not good.

I find Muskaan much more mature and sensible than Devyaani and Karishma...

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sunny.gurl

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: *Dev.*
I agree with sunnygurl but only until a point. Devyani sometimes gets hyper just like rajshri but getting concerned for muskaan was valid here. Why? because Many of their relatives already know that Alok and Muskaan are seeing each other for quite sometime now and as it was going on from last 5 months hence, if Alok's family now denies this relationship, it will majorly affect Muskaan. Though it will affect Alok as well. But as they say, society always mostly blames a girl if her relationship/would be relationship rejected. Still, these kind of things are very common and they play a vital major role in making relationships as we live in a society.

And I also agree with the below above posted & below quoted comment by Naksh4evaa. I respect your opinion and feel free to share it with us.😃
Rashmi's remarriage is not necessary at this point. Why force her to remarry? Its not only Akshara's fault but all others as well, they forced Rashmi to move on. Why? It's Rashmi's life and she should have liberty to live as she wants. She could have married again after some years, why so soon? It will take time for her wound to fill.

Agree with you. Everyone believes Akshara as if she is the Goddess of their Family (Jo bhi bahu kahegi ya karegi, theek hee karegi). What's this? Being heroine of the serial, she has this advantage to have her say in each matter and make everyone agree. If she had said that Rashmi should not divorce her hubby, I'm sure all would have got agreed. At this point for the first time I agree with Karishma that Rashmi should be independent enough to think about her life. Why do Singhanias think that she's a kid. She's a mature woman with a child. But how can someone become independent if you don't let them be.

On top of that, they were so confident about Rashmi's match for Alok. How can they even think of not even once married alok for already divorced rashmi with a child. They were pretty confident too that alok would not say No to Rashmi. It just bugged me big time to see akshara seeing rashmi and alok together(after knowing muskaan-alok's love for each other) and say to naitik "Ki mera mann bhi lalcha raha hai ki rashmi-alok ka ghar bas jaaye, par muskaan aur alok ek dusre se pyaar karte hai. What the hell. How can she even say so? 😡 . Now seeing Alok's family, I don't think they would have ever got agreed to make Rashmi their bahu when they have so much problem with beautiful and sensible muskaan.

It would be good to see a track where nikhil is repenting and feeling guilty over divorcing rashmi and now rashmi is strong enough to reject him.

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Atharva Dev

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Originally posted by: sunny.gurl

Agree with you. Everyone believes Akshara as if she is the Goddess of their Family (Jo bhi bahu kahegi ya karegi, theek hee karegi). What's this? Being heroine of the serial, she has this advantage to have her say in each matter and make everyone agree. If she had said that Rashmi should not divorce her hubby, I'm sure all would have got agreed. At this point for the first time I agree with Karishma that Rashmi should be independent enough to think about her life. Why do Singhanias think that she's a kid. She's a mature woman with a child. But how can someone become independent if you don't let them be.
On top of that, they were so confident about Rashmi's match for Alok. How can they even think of not even once married alok for already divorced rashmi with a child. They were pretty confident too that alok would not say No to Rashmi. It just bugged me big time to see akshara seeing rashmi and alok together(after knowing muskaan-alok's love for each other) and say to naitik "Ki mera mann bhi lalcha raha hai ki rashmi-alok ka ghar bas jaaye, par muskaan aur alok ek dusre se pyaar karte hai. What the hell. How can she even say so? 😡 . Now seeing Alok's family, I don't think they would have ever got agreed to make Rashmi their bahu when they have so much problem with beautiful and sensible muskaan.

It would be good to see a track where nikhil is repenting and feeling guilty over divorcing rashmi and now rashmi is strong enough to reject him.

Thanks.

I have to agree with you on this.👏 Singhanias and others believe Akshara as if she is the goddess who will always do correct things. Fine that she has become mature and experienced person after 10 years but this is the point which I don;t like where her innocence just goes away due to all this.

They do whatever she tells them to do. Why they do not have their own opinion about the matters? Yes, we know that Akshara is heroine of the serial but why do creatives show her as taking advantage of this in every matter of the show. Its just getting typical now.

Yup, let Rashmi be free on her own feet and tackle things as per own ways. Otherwise, she will never become confident enough to do things. Karishma was correct.

In glorifying Akshara's character, creatives are destroying other characters of the show. No offense to any one but this is what I feel so after observing the steady trend.

haha so true, they were so confident about Alok and rashmi but now that they know the traditional values of Alok's family, they must have got a reality check to their views. And oh, I did not noticed this dialogue by Akshara. Was this said when Rashmi and Alok's alliance was in discussion in show?

yeah, they could show us about Nikhil realizing. But its not even necessary as they can show remarriage or they can even show Rashmi marrying someone else and Nikhil repenting but Rashmi rejects him.😊 This will be the change in her.

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