someone do the naamkaran of this relation

Two entirely different people sanyu from patriarchal and randhir from an broken family came together in love which was hard to find😃,harder to keep and hardest to forget.sanyu is still searching and remembering the beautiful past which she and randhir shared & randhir is doing the disappearing & forgetting that sanyu holds her family close to her heart,& in retaliation he is hitting that raw nerve of hers & mauling it in a digusting way by hurting her father😭.Till father is understandable bt why anju god damnit??how else do u expect a mother to react when she comes to know her daughter has been cheated...u scared the daylights out of her man by ur reply...😲

love is given in life & expecting to sail through without a hiccup is unrealistic & sets up to fall harder when failure does happen.randhir has bottled his feelings and feels anger towards sanyu...k understandable,the anger cant disappear overnite,bt moping all throughout with anger, & randhir is not ready to let go off his anger baggage & neither of sanyu(so only he literally stalks her even now).So basically he knows sanyu is a vital part in his life,his life support system so why is he now syphoning the life out of sanyu by hurting her loved ones...seriously I cannot get to the bottom of this...and the irony is the pain will boomerang right back to him as he cannot see sanyu in pain so why inflicting pain to himself indirectly...is this his redemptiom to fall in sanyu or her family eyes...or has randhir just lost his bearings as for now...or is he confused,angry,retalition,redemption,eye for eye,or what ?what name should be given to this relation now😭...which is literally breaking or is randhir hell bent on breaking it at any cost or no matter what the repursussions

PS:just shared my POV not intended to hurt any sandhirian.