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Posted: 10 years ago
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Hugs for writing this,dear sister you wrote all points. I m so feeling relaxed after reading your post. I was feeling so low after all spoilers & negative articles. Was thinking of quitting it. But now after your post I will give a try :)
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Posted: 10 years ago
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So. True. ...



Very well written post <3 manan
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Posted: 10 years ago
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your right..nandu was not wrong and even manik was not wrong to behave like this..i can totally understand both of them..she jz got confused..she didn't had time to talk with manik about it..with every thing going otherwise ..a moment of confusion is understandable..(Main flaw was they were not able to talk about it ),if she got to knw from manik once that he did not done any such thing then she could have lie for him...
N for manik..i could feel his pain..he felt betrayed..he has right too..a girl which he thinks that his star..protects him..does not trusted him when he needed her ..he had blind faith that she will stand by him whatever happens ,she will understand him..N top of that nw he has realised that he loves her so its gonna hurt even more..

So no other word i am neutral ..not supporting or blaming anyone...bt now it looks like nandu has be earn that trust back..manik seemed really pissed off..hope everything settles down soon
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: priyanka3677

very well said. she just said she dont know she never said that he did it.

so if manik says i hate u to her than its the irrational part of manik and it will break nandini.

so i want to see both take each other head on


i dont think manik will say i hate u for this...but manik did broke up with aliya due to this trust issue..we can say trust thing is really important here ..for both.. nandani even reacted well to this n now i guess its manik's turn to react..
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Posted: 10 years ago
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p.s. Mais liked your post. Mais.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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👏. Thank you for this wonderful post. I loved the way you wrote..
Proud to be a KY2 fan since the CV's havent butchered the lead's basic characteristics to suit favourable mass audience ideals. Arey! She is a 17 yr old girl not Mother India...And she said I AM NOT SURE...not I AM SURE HE DID IT. Imagine your mind being cooked like a khichdi with the extreme love u have for him,manipulations by veterans in emotional fencing, her own confusions compounded by his best friend,and lastly, her beliefs which she tries to uphold. And cherry in the cake,,the magistrate saying that her testimony is the decidg factor for the bail. Naturally, she voiced her fear..POOR GIRL...Just that the TIMING was unlucky for her..😕

Having said that, I am sooo looking forward to this track. Nandu is going to gain his trust back on her OWN terms, not with anyone's manipulations or her sacrificing her values and beliefs...And Manik also needs to introspect about the absolute trust he expects from others when he himself seems wanting in that respect..

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: rubys07

Is it Nandini's fault??

If Nandini had lied today, Manik would have been released, Fab4 would have been happy, we would have been happy, hell even I would have been happy.
But somewhere deep down, it would have killed Nandini's character credibility for me.
Keep in mind, it's not you, it's not me.
It's Nandini we're talking about.
The girl who believes in a totally irrational thing like fireflies glowing for true lovers.
The girl who comes at a party at 8 because "it's supposed to start at 8"
The girl who can't say "Your life mujhe kya go to hell" to her best friend *read Naveli* when she's being the dumbest girl on earth and believing a jerk instead of her.
The girl who has a heart of a 17 year old.
The girl who IS SEVENTEEN YEARS OLD.
The girl who used to believe that Manik Malhotra "always had it covered".
The girl whose believe got shaken when she saw no one around the water tank during the Harshad incident.
The girl who was shown a CC clip containing HALF, and may I repeat, ONLY HALF of the ACTUAL FOOTAGE of the accident.
The 17 year old girl who doesn't understand manipulation and politics. Who doesn't understand how your slightest confusion, one small seed of doubt can be used against you, can be used to make the person to whom you are EVERYTHING hate you.

The girl who saw HALF THE TRUTH.

How can anybody say it's her fault?

Everyone noticed the "I don't know" part. Didn't one single soul notice the way she'd freaked out when Manik started pulling his hand away from hers??
She got so scared, it's like she wanted to take back her words the moment she saw his face. She wanted to do everything and anything possible to get that look of trust, that touch of hand back. It's like she was drowning and she wanted to hold on to the last straw if possible.
It's like she could read in his eyes that she had let him down...like she had failed to be his protecting star and she wanted to burn, to burst in that moment if that's what it takes to save him, to gain that look back. How can anyone miss that?

She is a 17 year old girl.
Can't she have a moment of confusion?
Can't she ever give in to pressure and panic?
A 17 year old girl, for heaven's sake. And she's shown enough maturity for her age already.
I'm not saying she took the right decision. But nobody is capable of making all the right decisions always.
If we can excuse Manik for giving in to his impulses all these times, why can't we excuse Nandini for not understanding the "Gravity of the Situation" for once?

How is it our fault??
If we don't believe in fireflies.
If we don't believe in true love.
If we don't believe in never giving up on the people we love.
If we don't have the heart to love a beast.
If we don't have the power to turn that monster into a hero.
If we cannot be a Nandini.

It's not our fault.
Because that's just what we are, what we will be.
No matter whatever we go through, the essence of 'us' will always be buried deep down inside us.
It never goes away.

Similarly.
It's not Nandini's fault she can't lie.
It's not Nandini's fault she listens to her heart, that doesn't permit her to lie.
It's not Nandini's fault.
It's not.



FYI, I'm head-over-heels n love with Manik's character. I feel his pain and hurt as if they are my own. I've finished all my chocolates AND 1 week's worth of chocolate spread (because by that time I'd run out of chocolates) while watching the epi. I've actually used up half of my tissue box. And I have a test tomorrow for which I can't concentrate. I can come up with a 15351631553 words to describe those looks, that face of Manik, and yet it won't suffice. The boy just killed me.

And still, I believe it's not Nandini's fault.
Not this time.



just 3 words for u Ruby...BEAUTIFULLLY written ...WOW!!!!!👏
i dont know how u managed to sum it all up...but yes u did...can feel and relate to every word u wrote..

The hurt in his eyes the feeling of being back stabbed by the 1 person he opened up to...ouch! 💔

and the regret in hers ...for having put it there... 😔


seriously...i joined this forum just 2-3 days back...and already seeing such beautiful posts and write-ups...from U, KREESHAM, SIMMI,RIDA,NAINA,BACKWITHABANG DUSTU,CHOCOMANIAC..ARATHIM, SUE. 👍🏼 ...( sorry i dnt remember all the names...as still just getting to know u all...and with the 10 post limit for newbies like me...cant seem to mention my appreciation for you individually so posting my heartfelt appreciation here for u all)👏


Pehle hi MANAN fever tha...and now coz of all ur amazing posts...ye forum ka hangover bhi chadgaya 😃 .




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Edited by mydiva - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Senpoo

First of all if the creators had played it out different making the viewers not knowing what happened inside the store room, then the game would have been really interesting... Everyone of us would have been in Nandini's position confused and debating on whether Manik had done it or not... And Nandini's "Not sure" would have been most of our responses too... I am completely with Nandini and no blame on her...

My worry or confusion of her character goes beyond that...
For me it's not whether she trusts him and she believes that he did it or not... She believed what she saw and was shown by Nyonika.. She didn't go by her heart said but by what was sown into her minds... And when she just did that why is she crying? That she couldn't lie? Or out of guilt? In Manik's words "Don't tell me that you never lied..." And she also told that she learnt it all from Manik! Didn't she lie for Cabir in the hospital that too so very well?! Anyway, that's not my concern too..
What if Manik had really killed Soha accidentally (the situation inside the store room was so delicate that Soha could have done anything)? Is Nandini going to be the first person to stand in the witness box accusing Manik?! What if he really did kill Soha out of rage? Manik would go surrender himself, may be... But wouldn't Nandini do whatever she could do, to prove what drove him to do it?!
Here she went there all the while churning what she believed that Manik had done and that's what came out... If Nyonika tricked her to lie for saving Manik, why did she agree to it then? If she knows that she cannot lie, then why should she fall for the trick and come like a hero to save him? She was more of a mind person there than a heart person!!! She just played an alibi role but ended up saying what she saw and not what she felt... I didn't see my Nandini there...

Word ! i luvd nandini,s character more than manik but i didnt wanted to see her in this mess. For me if she was the protector of manik shining always for him didnt she realise the gravity of the situation, for God,s saje you are not in a park strolling n discussing with friends if manik is guilty. You are in front of the magistrate, doesnt that call for some serious thought before standing there? She had the sense to argue with nyonika about self defense n things like that yet at the most crucial juncture you seem to be clouded n at loss for words??? that is difficult for me to digest. Im not saying nandini is perfect or mature enuf to know everythg but this was naive n utterly stupid.
N Plz dont give tell me that she hasnt lied

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