Ishita's 'God Bharai' *Updated*

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-Gan-

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Posted: 10 years ago

"Unconditional love is hard to compete with."
Abbi Glines

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Of all the scenes that we have a past reference to...I'm glad we got to see this. Only today in the morning I wrote in Doc's thread...that Ishita will continue enduring insensitive barbs from others because of her physical inability to conceive as our society at large still puts regressive labels on a woman's infertility as if it's a character flaw. And for a daughter to give her mom a moment that she'd not otherwise experience just filled my heart. Yes sometimes children 'level' the field when adults can't. I was happy to see the face of Shagun when the child she bore called herself Ishita's child and wanted her father to do God bharai of her Ishima.

Rest I loved how respected and loved Appa is by his family and both son-in-laws stood up for him. Isn't it sad at this age and time how parents have to sell jewellery to give 'gold' to their daughter on an auspicious occasion because of the social pressure?

Raman resigning from his job...oh ho Shagun didn't think it would go this way did she? 😈

...and finally a dialogue that Shagun said (something like "All the drama...Yuck! makes me want to throw up" ) that I want to reply "Back at ya!" 😈 with the same reaction:

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Originally posted by: arshi21
I want to throw up too.
Shagun drama now seems like that khichdi which has turned dry and tasteless and now is being forcefully forced down our throats.

I want to throw up ON Shagun.

Originally posted by: Veeann

BTW, what did Shagun THINK would happen? Oops, my bad , she'd think if she had a brain na? So, ok, what did she feel would happen? Again, my bad, you need a heart to feel and woh toh Shagun doesn't have. So what find she imagine would happen? Hmm, that's better. Did she imagine Raman would say appa you thief, I hereby divorce your daughter. And then he would say, my wife position is vacant and only candidates with experience need apply, so ok, Shagun you are selected. And then they would live happily ever after with their Ghar Ka Chirag???

I mean, even for Shaguns non existent brain, heart and unlimited imagination, this scheme is a bit far fetched!!!! So what's your game plan Shagun? Do enlighten us because your eyebrows certainly seem to be planning something.

Edited by GanBarunFan - 10 years ago

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Eyes-Wide-Shut

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Posted: 10 years ago

Have fun in the meeting :) Will wait for you update. 😃

I am gonna go study, will return later in the evening. So many feels right now that I can't even begin to describe it. All I am gonna say is I heart Ruhi! And you know why this 'infertility' issue affects me a lot and I get too many feels talking about it.

And puttar was just so cute! #I wanna jump on puttar #I can't deal with his cuteness anymore

Missus and Ruhi stole the show, I will be back to update later in the evening. Also I replied to your comment on the Ishita letter topic, I am so happy that you liked it. 😃 I was scared I was gonna butcher Ishita's character. 😕

Time to go focus and learn some medicine!

Edited by Eyes-Wide-Shut - 10 years ago

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-K.13-

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Posted: 10 years ago

This is a horrible week to have a final because the episodes this week are pretty good thus far! Even though Shagun is schemin' like a villain, we don't see her face 80% of the episode, so Krishy is kush.

Originally posted by: Eyes-Wide-Shut

And puttar was just so cute! #I wanna jump on puttar #I can't deal with his cuteness anymore

@Doc - yo tambien. #Jump Puttar #Totally Platonic...or is it 😉

I loved today's episode because it reinforced our favorite family unit!

While I still wonder why Ruhi always has to be the one to defend Ishita, I loved the gesture behind the Godh Bharai. Today again, Ruhi provided solace to a woman who never thought she would have the opportunity to participate in this rasam. My heart strings were pulled during the entire sequence because Ishita's emotions throughout the entire rasam were just palpable.

The combination of spending an entire week over infertility in my reproductive medicine class & then watching today's episode has really turned me into a ball of feels. This issue always gets me thinking about what it really means to be a man or a woman. From what I have seen no matter which society/culture you are in, the ability to have children as a whole is given importance. After Romi and Ishita discovered their inability to have children, they both found themselves questioning their masculinity/femininity. This begs the question, is the ability to have a child the only thing that makes a man or woman? Couples look forward to having a child as a sign of their union and love. Not only would someone in this situation be insecure, but they may not want to burden someone else with this "issue." It's just such an incredibly difficult place to be in, and thank goodness we are slowly moving to a society where you are not just defined by the ability to procreate. I could continue my rambling, but it's starting to sound incoherent so I'll stop for now & leave you with...

Now coming to Puttar - I just love him more after today's episode. At least in this area, I knew he wouldn't disappoint! #GoPuttarGo

In regards to Romi's kaand - it looks like it will be Ishita who uncovers the reasons for his actions!

@Gan - thank you for capturing Shaguniya's face! 😆

#Their anniversary is technically tomorrow but #3 more days until the anniversary of the day it aired!

Welp...like doc, it's back to the books.

Edited by krishy13 - 10 years ago

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Aru.Divan

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Posted: 10 years ago

Shagun Shagun Shagun 🤣🤣.. The minute she heard the word "resignation" her low fuse was so dead. I mean look at her she definitely needs someone for her SPAs, designer stuffs and she has to definitely go around looking for someone 🤣. Shagun my free advice "Puttar is not trustworthy when it comes to all this, get hold of Suraj or seduce him🤣. I am sure you can get things go your way. All hail SuSh jodi 👍🏼👍🏼. Her ever boring expression through out the Godbharai ceremony made me feel she was going to puke on someone. If I was standing next to her I would have definitely moved away from her or offered her slice of nimbu. Try changing your expression for once, we might not want to kill but hate you less 🤣.

Another advice to CVs and the Bhallas, Try continuing the resignation drama and you will find Shagun out the very next day. The same day for packing her truckload of sarees and her other accessories. Next day by the time you people sit for breakfast Bimbo out of the house and there we have Shagun free IshRa Anniversary 😳😳

I loved Puttar and Bala when they stood for Appa 👏👏.. They stood and supported Appa more than a son. That way Appa's words regarding the two was "BANG ON". The decision puttar took cos his appa was blamed was a beautiful scene and one of the reasons why YHM is special to us 😳. I doubt whether Puttar would have done the same if Romi was in Appa's place. I agree Romi's track record is really bad but we would have got a different version of RKB 😃. I went back to the day when he took vows with his Biwi in their room "I will consider your family more than my own".. That scene ❤️ is still fresh in my mind.

IshRaRu ❤️. How perfect a family together and the song "Tere dil se" gives me the feeling that it was scored for these three. The song carries such lovely lyrics and it bring tears to my eyes whenever they play the song. When Ruhi Performed Ishitha's Godhbharai the proud look on Puttar's face and when Ruhi Asked "Whether she was Ishima's child" he had the feeling of a new father and the smile which adorned his face was so natural. Ishitha and Ruhi ❤️. Their relation is something which can never be explained to anyone and CVs we owe this to you. This was the sole reason why YHM started being special to their viewers. The rebirth of a child, follwed by the rebirth of a woman and then the rebirth of a Father. The ehsaas which was brought in is something soul rendering.

tere dil ka mere dil se rishta purana hain
the connection between your heart and my heart is old
in aankho se har aansu mujhko churana hain
I have to steal every tear out of these eyes
mujhko churana hain mujhko churana hain
I have to steal
teri bechaini ka teri tanhai ka ehsaas hain mujhko
I am aware of your restlessness and your loneliness
sun main jo saath tere hu phir tujhe hain kaisa gam
listen when I am with you then what sorrow do you have
dard baat lenge ham
we will share the pain
sun in palko mein khushiyo ka sapna sajana hain
listen, I have to decorate dreams of happiness in these eyelashes

I could not stop myself from pasting the lyrics of the song. Sorry about that.

Whatever Ruhi spoke was out of age but all I could see was the love for her Ishima. We as kids have been advised to stay away from elders talk and the minute elders gather for a talk the place should be free. Kids should mingle with kids. Yes CVs took her character far when it comes to this aspect. As an elderly person, Bala's mom should not let out such words with kids around. Her own grandson is standing in the same hall as Ruhi. Sharvu when it comes to dealing with such things is no less. Adi as well. On the whole CVs have stretched the character of kids. This scene takes me back to the day when Ruhi innocently asked her dadi the meaning of "Bhaanj" when Ishitha helped Pooja with her delivery. The very same day Bala's mom used the word to insult another woman. Kids get affected when they hear such things and grow. When it comes to Ruhi, an unstable family was she had. It was this lady who turned tables for her. Even now the kid is made to face Shagun's drama. Adi does not spare Ruhi when it comes to feeding her ears against her Ishima. May be I found this quiet natural. I am all going "HAIL RUHI". I have ranted here .. Sorry !!

Precap !! Romi deserves this for hiding it from his family. We could have even felt with the guy had he taken the alone but listening to Shagun 😡.. He deserves more. Every time he has troubled the Iyers from the beginning and got away with it. This time a hard core lesson should be thought and RKB is back at it... GO RKB !

Gan those lines "Unconditional lines is hard to compete with" loved it. How apt ?? You do it so well everyday. I feel great to read such things everyday and the collage. Moment captured forever. Yes the video has its own beauty but your collage speaks volumes. Thanks a lot ❤️🤗

Edited by arunabhi - 10 years ago

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kavya

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Posted: 10 years ago

Today's Epi was decent... i love how Raman always stand by iyer family... always values relations... Raman's Dilouges to his boss were superb and KP as always done great job 👏

Godbharai scen was very touching... ishru and ishraRu moments were emotional and Beautiful... and that BG song Tere Dil ka Mere Dil se rishta purana hai always bring tears and smile on my face at the same time 😳

Kaise Main Bataun Ye tera is Tarha Rona Dekha Nahi jhata hai.. During this lyrics camera focused on Raman while ishu was teary eyed... it was Beautiful puttar really can't see Biwi in tears and always make her laugh in fact both Ruhi and Raman always make ishu Smile... which i really love... that little family moment of ishraRu was Awww moment very cute... cutest family ishraRu i want addition in that family Ruhi's little bro or sis ishra baby...

Again didn't enjoyed those banj Dilouges and Ruhi speaking to vandu MiL in that rude manner... kids should not mouth such Dilouges my POV... Ruhanika is cute and talented actor adore her 😳

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Neha

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Very late, aren't I?

Well, the episode was reminiscent of the old YHM days in that it wasn't the story of just two individuals or a single vamp, but rather two very different families coming together for those two people, severely hurt by the people in their past and being healed by a little kid.

Like a lot of other people, I feel that Ruhi's dialogues are too grown up for her age and the CVs have already crossed the limit with taking creative liberties for a seven year old. However, they are (rightly) banking on Ruhi as the person who corrects all the wrongs done to her parents, especially her mother. YHM, above anything else, is the story of the daughter of an infertile woman - and today they did justice to the theme.

Every single actors' emotions were picture perfect during the entire scene. Raman's tears and then the sad but proud smile on his face, Ishita being overwhelmed by the love the kid showers on her, Madhavi Iyer standing on the by lanes and being completely awed by the concern and the togetherness of the family that accepted her daughter - the same daughter who had been scorned and derided by the people around her for her inability to conceive - seeing her actually become a mother in front of her eyes today - Neenaji was perfect in her almost melancholic happiness.

We got a complete IshRaRu moment and whatever Ruhi said and did and happened and did not happen, I don't care about it. I watch the show for these three characters together, and seeing them in such a poignant moment - all I could ask for.

From there the Appa drama starts. Abhayji was perfect in his portrayal of a confused man, but with humility and confidence in his character. And the two son-in-laws proved what Madhavi taunted Bala's mother about - they have two daughters and two sons.

I think the beauty of our culture lies in the way we handle relationships. It's never "your father" or "his son" or anything - every little relationship we are bound to, we adopt it for life. Raman stood by his father figure - no doubts, no inclinations anywhere else - without thinking twice. You want to demean my father? I'd rather you keep your job.

That is the RKB I've loved watching.

I wish he was jobless for a few more days - Shagun would happily pack her bags and move away to some other rich hapless guy with her criminal tween in tow, and we could have the IshRa confession in some barn or garage with 1980s songs playing the background.🤣

Shagun's plan is not clear to me at this moment. Yes, pitting father-in-law against Raman was a master stroke if she just wanted Raman to feel disgusted and helpless. But what next? Did she think Raman would leave Ishita, his daughter's mother, for some petty cash stolen by someone else and that too when he could pay it back in a jiffy?😳

No use calling Ishita dumb, Shagun is dumber. Romi of course is the dumbest.

From here the story moves on to Romi's current kaand, for which he shall be beaten with a saucepan on the head (can anyone say Tom and Jerry?😆) and then ignored for about a week and Ishita will again mend the relationship cracks.

I get that Romi is a loving son and brother and probably a good person by heart but inherently he is selfish. And I really want Toshi - who is primarily responsible for it - to look into her upbringing for it. Even Raman was once blinded by HIS wife and HIS son and Romi is always just about HIMself and Simmi was also once blind and selfish when the Param fiasco came to light. There is absolutely something wrong with the way they handle their kids - the same thing is now happening with Adi and to a certain extent Ruhi. Raman and Simmi have paid their dues for their blow-ups, now it's seriously time for Romi to understand where his faults lie and correct them. Or else, this track is useless and probably just another scapegoat to keep Shagun on our screens for some more time.😵

I was surprised by Shagun's non-emotive reaction to her OWN daughter's jibe that she is Ishita's daughter. Maybe it was AH's acting ot simply Shagun's character - but there was no feeling of remorse or shame or regret on her face. How could you be so blase about losing the kid you carried for nine months and not feel a figurative slap on your face when she indirectly says that she would rather have been born to the woman who feel does not deserve anything? When she actually believes that she was supposed to be in someone else' womb? How could you just stand there and act so impassive?🤔😳

Overall, a good episode with a generous dose of RKB and IshRaRu added to it. The acting by KP, DT, RD and Abhay and Neena - ji was phenomenal today.

#throwShagunout

#finallysomesense

#throwShagunout

#puraanedin aane waale hain

#throwShagunout

Edited by SurrealFantasy - 10 years ago

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Coco

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Posted: 10 years ago

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"The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves, and not to twist them to fit our own image. Otherwise we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them." ~Thomas Merton

"The greatest gift that you can give to others is the gift of unconditional love and acceptance." ~Brian Tracy

Beautiful collages once again G! Once again you have done wonders. You have beautiful capture the wonderful family moment. I loved that Ruhi stood up for her mother. But what I did not love was her adult dialogues. Ruhi was always shown mature for her age but she had this innocence to her. Lately they have been giving her adult dialogues instead to mature innocent dialogues.

It was nice to see her standing up for her mother. Society will always see women like Ishita as incomplete but they will never realize that you dont need to give birth to a child to become a mother. A person who raises you has more rights to be called a mother than those who give birth and abandon their children. For me the whole god bhaari scene was such an epic symbol for women like Bala's mom and Shagun to see that Ishita is a mother. Those rasams and traditions we have for mother to be are to bless the mother to be and her child.So Ruhi did that for her mother, so society women can see for their own eyes that her Ishimaa is not bhaanj. On top of that Ruhi asked her father to put her in her mother's lap to complete the family moment. This god bhaari showed society that IshraRu are a complete family. The god bhaari scene was beautiful executed by DT, RD, and KP.

Shagun's face was worth a million dollars today. What can you really expect from a delusional woman like Shagun. She thinks her ex husband still loves her. She can plot and plan but she will never be able to break the thread of IshraRu. Their love is a lot stronger than her. Their bond is more intelligent than her. No matter what she will do, in the end it makes them stronger. When Raman announced his resignation, her expressed showed that her plan backfired because Raman stayed loyal to his family. It will also bring Ishra closer. Thats why I say Shagun do whatever you want because your actions are making IshraRu stronger as a family.

The appa scene was very emotional and very well acted by the respected actors. It was nice to see the actor get a chance to show his talent. I really hate people like Shagun, who for their selfish reasons ruin a honest and hard-working man's reputation.

Overall the episode was a lot better than what we have seen last week. We show some old YHM charm today.😃

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ANU

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Posted: 10 years ago

Today's episode was Nice. Loved ishru scenes..very touching and emotional..had tears...brilliant acting by DT AND RD...
Will wait 4 ur collage and update GAN...

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kavya

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Posted: 10 years ago

Edited at pg1 ... Will be waiting for college and update Gan... 😊

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Sunita

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Agreedd Gan jaan, Unconditional Love is hard to compete and OMG Ruhi baacha.. she rocked the screen today... Such a beautiful scene that was. Her words were so crisp and clear. Her stern and strong voice is something which I like about her.👏👏👏

OMG.. and that moment when Ruhi does Ishima's Godbharai.. 😳Hailaa.. I was in Awe and that title song made me feel heavy, I didn't realise when i started crying. It touched my heart and Raman starring at his beautiful Girls..Awww😳

My fav was when Ruhi asked Raman to keep her on her IshiMa's lap!😳😳😳

A mother is always a mother.. No Real, no Sautan... A beautiful message passed to the audience.

After really long, we got to see something Superbb!😃😳

and IshRaRu hug.. the most precious and beautiful moment... the Real Mohabbatein Moment!❤️😳

Mr.Iyer's acting... kudosss!! I was likeee Wowww.. The way he emoted the pain of a father, his financial pressures and the wrong accusations on him for being called as 'Chor'... was simply Outstanding!👏

Shagun Shagun... phitte muh teraaa!! Yuck.. she wants to throw up! We have to throw up on You b🤬...Aaja, we will turn you into one big mess!😡😡😡

Raman Raman Raman.. hayeee!! This putter, gussa mein bhi Hotness!😳😳😳

I so loved his business-to-business level talk.. How right is Raman. Manager kuch zyada over react kia. That was Super Brilliant! Perfect Script!👏

Looking forward for IshRa emotional hug scene😭😳

Edited by avni_19 - 10 years ago