Kuch Meri Suno, Kuch Apni Kaho - Weekend Ramblings

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Posted: 10 years ago
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With Non-TRP ideas such as these, I won't be on any creative's team. 😭😭 Koi baat nahi, mein apni khud ki team bana loongi. 😎

Here we are all screaming at CVs/PH/Channel ki show us Sahir's past and what they are showing is KA's voodoo, Zeenat's water escapades and Alvira's fire dance around the tree and power tactics. Kya yaar? I understand Sahir's past is the only spade in your pathetic kitty and you want to prolong till the last week of HS. But then, you don't have anything else going on. You don't have Anam/Zaki VP chair ka politics, you don't have Saiyara's issues anymore. What do you have then? A 2 minute SAAZ hug in every episode and rest KA/Alvira/ACP nonsense? Zaki toh montage se nikla aur redundant ho gaya. What's his purpose now in lurking in the serial if Saiyara's VP post is not his goal anymore? It's not that he is taking any lead in dealing with that nincompoop ACP.😡

Why are we so against what Anam wears? What will happen to Saiyaraa ka reject maal? Someone has to use it, nahin? Thank you Anam Chaudhary for bravely going around showing those impressionable younge girls what not to wear.👏👏

Yahan Arzoo faasle mitane ki koshish mein lagi hai lekin Sahir is telling her that she is venturing into the no-flying no-parking no-everything zone. Kuch meri suno kuch apni kaho, ho paas toh aise chup na raho. Sahir must meet her halfway, she can't cover the entire distance herself nor should she be expected to. Marriage is a give and take, neither all give nor all take. My advice to Arzoo is to just start coming on to him. Throw your own shyness, inhibitions out of the window, just assault his senses completely, make him helpless and then just coolly walk away. That is his punishment for not allowing you a glimpse into his heart. And make sure that KA is aware of this, so that who toh jal ke raakh ho jaye ki jo Zeenat ka right hai, who yeh mui bakri chin rahi hai. Let her do a slow roast.

Don't worry about Zeenat, KA, ACP, Alvira, Anam no one. Act like ghar mein sirf tum dono hi ho. If he does not want to open atit ke panne for you, start writing your own story with him, about you both, don't worry about the past. It is just that - past. Treat it like one. It is all from here and now for you. Take control and see where it takes you. Agar woh siddha siddha nahi aya apne aap raste per toh jakar lekar aao kaan pakad kar. The only way this wound is gonna heal faster is if you rip it open under the scorching heat, not wait for it to heal itself in the cool shadow. Desperate times my dear...

You should not take any comments about Zeenat to heart my dear. After all you are Arzoo. Who wants to be like Zeenat? Not you. Was she nice, loving, and good? May be maybe not. You tried asking him and he didn't say. So let it go. Why do you care? You know, who you are, right? That should be good enough for you. Ulta you should sunao him ki if he is expecting her to behave anything like Zeenat, it ain't gonna happen because a)So far you have told me zilch about Zeenat and b)I am Arzoo, not Zeenat so deal with it.
A few words for you too Sahir - Are you dying of any non-treatable disease? Are all your faculties that Allah gave you still working in pristine condition? If answer to both these questions is a resounding no and yes respectively, then what is the problem shayar sahib? Everything else can be worked out, dealt with and figured out. Question is do you want to? It is all up to you. You decide. Is Arzoo worth opening up all your wounds, reliving your past, dealing with it and getting past it? Or is she just a distraction for you, just a living breathing warm body that you would like around you giving you a semblance of some normalcy in your life. And if so, for how long? You would have 2 comatose wives then. One who is lying on the bed, the other one who is walking around.

Face your pain, your fears, overcome them and move on. This time you are not alone. Arzoo is screaming loud and clear ki "Take a chance on me". Take her up on it. That is the only way to live, otherwise you are only breathing.
Life is short, so why waste it trying to tangle it. Talk to each other, about each other and for each other. Life is what you make out of it. It is all up to you. Would you let your past dictate your present and future or would you learn from it, bid it adieu and look forward to the future with hope and love by your side?

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Very well written 👏👏

I loved your advice for both Sahir and Aarzoo ...

I agree , Sahir needs to open up about his past to Aarzoo now ... There is no excuse why he cant tell the truth to his wife because this marriage was his wish and if he was never ready to share his pain with his second wife , then he should not hv married in the first place .. so yeah Sahir jee plss spill the beans now

Coming to Aarzoo , again agree .. what happened to that old Aarzoo Nausheen Khan who always believed in a identity of her own .. there is no need for her to become Zeenat or anyone else just to woo her husband ... If her husband loves the way she is , then he is made for her or else he was never meant to b yours .. this should b her thought process because by becoming someone else , she can never get true love ..

And about CVs , yes they dont hv much to show apart from SaAz moments .. so better they open up the past mystry and strengthen their storyline now instead of wasting screentime on Anam's kai kai and Kurti apa's vudoo nonsense 🤢
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Nice post MM. 😊
Looks like you are all ready to shake these two U and just say stop acting, start living 😛
Sahir should stop thinking that past can't be resolved, that mindset has to change ASAP. 🤓
And Arzoo has to stop worrying about the second wife tag and just go with her heart and the love and desire she senses in Sahir. Then their world will right itself. 😃
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Thank you all for reading this post and leaving the comments/liking it.
I was in a particularly rebellious mood when I wrote this and when I saw all this hide and seek going on I just snapped. 😆😆

I know this is a their story and I should be patient but sometimes I just need to vent to make room for new stuff. 😃
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Posted: 10 years ago
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hey there!
Such a mazedaar post!
All the anger and frustration, fuelled into making a very logically written piece :D
I too wish for a different approach..Hopefully, that is where they will take our characters.
Sahir is like- nahi nahi abhi nahi abhi karo intezaar🤣
But aakhir kab tak?
How long can one wait?
Arre nahi bata raha, na bataye, can't she just straight come out and tell him she loves him for all that he is, all that his past has made him. She feels it after all, toh bolke khatam kare.
But again, since their progressions are so slow, we might as well wait and wait and wait till that happens!
Jeez, that's put me in the mind of an OS now

Anyway,
Sorry for a hasty ramble!
Your post was lovely

Geet
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Very well written 👏
You are completely correct in saying that Sahir needs to meet Arzoo half way. Here she is trying to do all the hardwork and he is just does not tell her a thing. He is making here insecurities build up, which is not good. He is adding fuel to the crap that KA keeps on telling her

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