Agar TUM Support Karte...

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Posted: 10 years ago
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In last episode Parth's dialoge was, "Agar TUM support karte, toh mujhe support karne ki zaroorat nahi padti."...tht was so true...spsly coz tht was answer whn Randhir include Renuka's example... ...Randhir nvr understood nd not ready 2 understand the fact tht as a life partner his DAD also failed in relationship...nd ths's d thng, jo use sabse pahle samajhne ki zaroorat hai...coz tab hi woh kisi relationship or can say tht in his life mein aage badh sakta hai...coz, chahe koi b comption ho ya relationship, humesha end mein uska PAST hi aa kar use spoil karta hai, aur humesha finishing line par aa kar woh BackOut kar jata hai...poin to b noted, BackOut karta hai, na ki Haarta hai...but uska BackOut karna Haarne se kam nahi hota. Now come to the point tht, is Renuka right in her place?...nd my answer is NO (atleast my answer is)...she can b right in her relationshipS wid her X & Next, but Not Right In Her Relationship With Her Only Son...as Sanyukta said, "Mana Randhir jaisa hai woh Renuka ne use nahi banaya but (her mistake was or can say is...) Usne Randhir Ko Aisa Banane Se Roka Bhi Nahi."... ...nd un4chuntly, Sanyukta did same mistake in her relationship with Randhir (atleat ths is my POV)...Randhir did totally wrong with Sanyukta but Sanyukta also did't right with him...tht's y, i do't like Parth's dialoge in last episode whn he said, pahle Randhir priorty tha Sanyukta ki...no! nvr!!...Sanyukta ki priorty kabhi b Randhir nahi tha (my POV)...Engegment ke time, she choosed her famly; Engegment todne ke time, she choosed her famly; Ghar chhodne ke time, she choosed her dream; nd Internship ke time, she choosed her famly & dream...whr is Randhir in her decisions...1st engagement nd now internship, Sanyukta diched him (Randhir's POV)...Practically ths time she was right (like Engagement ke time Randhir)...but apne dad ki company mein internship jeetne ke chakkar mein, did't she totally blind...aur jab madam ki aankh khuli toh sara damage ho chuka tha. 🤢 In last episode, she questioned to Randhir, Kya apne future & dream ke baare mein sochana Selfish hona hota hai?...NO! dear...but apne partner ke future ke baare mein na sochana, Selfish hona hota hai...jo ki naa Sanyukta ne socha aur naa hi Randhir ne...and result is THEY BrokeUp...yeh toh hona hi tha...as Sanyukta's last dialoge in last episode, "Unfortunately, (Sanyukta&Randhir) Ek Hi Team Mein bhi Hain."...jaha Ek ki Haar Doosare ki Jeet kabhi nahi ban sakti...NEVER...but Ek ki Jeet, Dono ki Jeet zaroor ho sakti hai...but now itz't EASY...coz, "Aag ka dariya, Doob ke jaana...Ishq Nahi Aasaan.". ⭐️ Kuch jyada hi filmy ho gaya naa...lol! ;)...actually, moi ne post LoveStory ke liye bana diya hai...jabki, SaddaHaq is Not a LoveStory. 😈 Dil-e-Nadaan! tujhe huaa kya hai?...Aakhir iss dard ki dawa kya hai?...Humko unse hai wafa ki umeed, jo nahi jante wafa kya hai? PS- Bahut dino ke baad post banaya hai guyz (ofcource, coz do't like currnt track)...so waiting for ur cumnts. <3 ...&...spsl mention, ths is totally my POV...m't agnst Sanyukta and don't support Randhir's actions at this time...i jst hate CVs Bewakoofiyan. ;)

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I disagree yeah what Sanyukta did post enagerment was really irriatiing but she did make up for all that during that dowry episode and post that she was loyal and supported RD even though he kept getting angry on many instances when they were in relationship ,remember when he wanted to get intimate and she wanted time he was like "Tum mujhe pyaar hi nahin karti hain" and all ,to be frank Sanyu was very understanding and bore all his tantrums and mood swings which i think no other girl would bear ,Yes i agree she did promise to support him and she did if he woudnt bring this revenge thing in the picture ,i still havent forgotten that scene where he almost man handled her and forced her to join hands with him or loose him ,she was almost going to join him in his revenge plan but parth saved that day as always ,if you noticed she tried many times to talk to him and speak to him and make him understand but by then ishika came in between and that KISS yuckkk broke them apart .
i dont even think Sanyukta needs to do anything from her part to get back to RD ,as Parth rightly said Sanyukta beech main hain hi nahin ,its ishika and his revenge that is in the picture.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: clars

I disagree yeah what Sanyukta did post enagerment was really irriatiing but she did make up for all that during that dowry episode and post that she was loyal and supported RD even though he kept getting angry on many instances when they were in relationship ,remember when he wanted to get intimate and she wanted time he was like "Tum mujhe pyaar hi nahin karti hain" and all ,to be frank Sanyu was very understanding and bore all his tantrums and mood swings which i think no other girl would bear ,Yes i agree she did promise to support him and she did if he woudnt bring this revenge thing in the picture ,i still havent forgotten that scene where he almost man handled her and forced her to join hands with him or loose him ,she was almost going to join him in his revenge plan but parth saved that day as always ,if you noticed she tried many times to talk to him and speak to him and make him understand but by then ishika came in between and that KISS yuckkk broke them apart .

i dont even think Sanyukta needs to do anything from her part to get back to RD ,as Parth rightly said Sanyukta beech main hain hi nahin ,its ishika and his revenge that is in the picture.

i complettely agree with u!sanyu has always been d understanding one in dr relationship!still remember hw rd used to get angry fr silly things n sanyuktha used to control him.as u said she has bore all his tantrums aand moodswings..n she even confessed her love infront f her whole family n even her mother..vch is never easy fr ny girl!n sanyuktha vd have surely joined rd fr d internship provided he vldnt have bought ds revenge plan f his in between..like u mentioned she tried her best to save dr relationship bt dt kiss..n d realization dn he has cheated n her hit her hard..n she broke up wid him n rightly so!i also dnt wnt sanyuktha to do nythng nw..she shld jst sit back n concentrate on her goal!its rd who shld win her back..n hw he s gng to do dt is left to him..bt wt ever it s its nt gng to b easy fr him.once u braek some ones trust its nt easy to win it bk!..bt wt ever points u bring out..ds tym according to me its randhir who s wrong!completely wrong
Edited by sree71995 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I agree at certain points but disagree at some...

It's not Randhir's past that is haunting him, it's his ignorance and ideology that needs to be rectified. Randhir is a grown up now and is mature enough to understand things. Rather than being reckless and working on his impulses he should use his genius brain for once to understand why his family broke than blaming Renuka for everything.
We always pin-point Sanyukta in this blame game but have we ever questioned Randhir? Sanyukta ko chodo, was Randhir always dedicated towards Sanyukta???
When she broke her engagement, the partial reason was Randhir, when she chose her dreams, the partial reason was again Randhir...

To what extent shall a girl sacrifice her self for the happiness for others? Randhir was never constrained by his family... Whatever he wished he did, but unfortunately Sanyukta was always constrained. Kabhi family ko khush kia toh kabhi Randhir ko, bechari kya khud k bare mein ek baar bhi na soche?
If Sanyukta was selfish then Randhir is the most selfish one here...
How was she supposed to make Randhir understand when he had given her an ultimatum???
He went so far as to hurt her not only physically but emotionally was well... how can u wish that Sanyukta will shower her companionship upon him??

I'm glad that Sanyukta made the right decision. For once she thought about herself rather being used as a doormat by everyone...

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: -foreverhers-

I agree at certain points but disagree at some...

It's not Randhir's past that is haunting him, it's his ignorance and ideology that needs to be rectified. Randhir is a grown up now and is mature enough to understand things. Rather than being reckless and working on his impulses he should use his genius brain for once to understand why his family broke than blaming Renuka for everything.
We always pin-point Sanyukta in this blame game but have we ever questioned Randhir? Sanyukta ko chodo, was Randhir always dedicated towards Sanyukta???
When she broke her engagement, the partial reason was Randhir, when she chose her dreams, the partial reason was again Randhir...

To what extent shall a girl sacrifice her self for the happiness for others? Randhir was never constrained by his family... Whatever he wished he did, but unfortunately Sanyukta was always constrained. Kabhi family ko khush kia toh kabhi Randhir ko, bechari kya khud k bare mein ek baar bhi na soche?
If Sanyukta was selfish then Randhir is the most selfish one here...
How was she supposed to make Randhir understand when he had given her an ultimatum???
He went so far as to hurt her not only physically but emotionally was well... how can u wish that Sanyukta will shower her companionship upon him??

I'm glad that Sanyukta made the right decision. For once she thought about herself rather being used as a doormat by everyone...

👏👏 Well said , remember the scene where post the dowry drama she comes back to college and meets RD in the lab and Says "Main Kachra hoon nah "😭 i think that time we got to see her completely broken she felt betrayed by her family and esp RD however he explianed to her the reason and all was ok,however he runied it this time with that revenge crap seriously y the hell has he to drag her in all this mess and nowadays the cold behaviour,Taunts its getting really irriating and frustrating to see him behave this way ,thats y i loved how parth made him see the real picture and i luved when he said that u were her first priority [and rightly said no wonder she told her mom to not be harsh with him as she loves him]but now its her carreer and if he has left her then he has no right to stop her from acheving her dreams and aspirations and trust me thank god she saved Renuka and the sanyal company W*F was RD planning to do ,man he wanted to murder them all was he even in his right senses when he decided that
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: -foreverhers-

I agree at certain points but disagree at some...

It's not Randhir's past that is haunting him, it's his ignorance and ideology that needs to be rectified. Randhir is a grown up now and is mature enough to understand things. Rather than being reckless and working on his impulses he should use his genius brain for once to understand why his family broke than blaming Renuka for everything.
We always pin-point Sanyukta in this blame game but have we ever questioned Randhir? Sanyukta ko chodo, was Randhir always dedicated towards Sanyukta???
When she broke her engagement, the partial reason was Randhir, when she chose her dreams, the partial reason was again Randhir...

To what extent shall a girl sacrifice her self for the happiness for others? Randhir was never constrained by his family... Whatever he wished he did, but unfortunately Sanyukta was always constrained. Kabhi family ko khush kia toh kabhi Randhir ko, bechari kya khud k bare mein ek baar bhi na soche?
If Sanyukta was selfish then Randhir is the most selfish one here...
How was she supposed to make Randhir understand when he had given her an ultimatum???
He went so far as to hurt her not only physically but emotionally was well... how can u wish that Sanyukta will shower her companionship upon him??

I'm glad that Sanyukta made the right decision. For once she thought about herself rather being used as a doormat by everyone...

👏👏this is it!
Edited by sree71995 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Wondeful post pahal di!! N i totally agree , mere oops sorry , hamare rd ke liye i feel so bad smetimes 😭 but atvd same time sanyukta is too correct!! Cvs bhi kitna confude karte hain 😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Haye rabba! lagta h controvrsl post bana diya moi ne...lol!...anyways, thx 4 cumnts guyz...nd moi aaj mid-night mein chain se read kar k reply karoongi. :)
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Sorry dear but i don't agree with your post.
In engagement if u think sanyu was wrong then rd was also wrong.
He was drunk n he barged in sanyu's engagement.
Just tell me was he right?
I know he wanted 2 support sanyu but was his way was right?
He could even just talk with sanyu's dad.

Coming 2 give support rd while revenge track, do u remember for 1ce sanyu even was ready 2 sign the internship papers of sanyal company.
It was parth who stopped sanyu.
Thanks 2 parth 4 stopping sanyu umm time.
N after that rd manhandled her.
1 more thing do u remember vidarth told 2 sanyu dat x don't u just move on forgetting rd. Dat time she said i can't leave him otherwise he will harm himself.

Don't think dat m only sanyu's fan.
M die hard sandhir fan.
Edited by Mahi2012 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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it's an awewsome post pahal...i'm totally agree with it...i've not watched the show for some time...so i don't know about parth's dialogue...but u r totally right in saying that randhir has to understand that his father is also a failure in his parent's relationship...& for renuka sanyal i want to say only one thing may be she is a big successful business woman in her life but as a mother (randhir's mother) she is a big zero...whatever be her reasons the way she has ignored randhir uska koi explanation nahi ho sakta😡...

Randhir did totally wrong with Sanyukta but Sanyukta also did't right with him...tht's y, i do't like Parth's dialoge in last episode whn he said, pahle Randhir priorty tha Sanyukta ki...no! nvr!!...Sanyukta ki priorty kabhi b Randhir nahi tha (my POV)...Engegment ke time, she choosed her famly; Engegment todne ke time, she choosed her famly; Ghar chhodne ke time, she choosed her dream; nd Internship ke time, she choosed her famly & dream...whr is Randhir in her decisions...1st engagement nd now internship, Sanyukta diched him (Randhir's POV)...Practically ths time she was right (like Engagement ke time Randhir)...but apne dad ki company mein internship jeetne ke chakkar mein, did't she totally blind...aur jab madam ki aankh khuli toh sara damage ho chuka tha.

& i totally agree with ur point of view pahal...randhir was never sanyukta's prority (totally my point of view)...she always oscillates between her family & her dream...many will disagree but according to my view randhir was taken for granted in her life most of the time...yap i know this is not a love story...but career oriented women love ko priority nahi de sakti kya?...this is a question for cv s...aplog example kya set karna chahte hai renuka sanyal jaisi career oriented women ki example dekar jo apne career ke lie apni bete ke bare sochne ka waqt bhi nahi uske paas?...this is the fault of cv s througthout from the start of the show...they are very confused about career oriented women...i just don't know may be this is the reason i can never be able to connect with any of the female characters in this show though it is a female oriented show...

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