Kahan gaye iss aadmi ke hormones?????

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Arrey koi hai?đŸ€”

Badi mushkil hai..

Khoya isske hormones hai

Koi usey dhoondh ke laa dena

Jaake kahan hum rapat likhaye,

Koi batlayena..

Hum roye ya hansein...

Karein hum fans kya karein?💔

😡

Do I sound like a frustrated fan?😃

I wonder how frustrated Sanam must be feeling now!😭

Seriously...What can a girl do when a man decides to drown his hormones in his tears?😡

Hold him by the collar and shake him, knock some sense into him- like I want to do now...that'd yield some fast, short- acting results...

OR...

Sit and wait for him to come around...the time tested, lasting formula poor Sanam is trying now...😉

So, Aahil feels cheated...

There is only one truth glaring at him all the time...SHE CHEATED ME!

And what does a man do when he feels let down by his wife?😡

No points for guessing...He runs to his mamađŸ˜Č...And no matter how really sweet and nice your MIL is😳...it really irritates a woman😡...TRUST ME!😳 (Thank God . Most men just do it out of instinct...if they knew how it gets their wives riled up, they'd do it more often!)

And when it is a conniving witch like Tanveer he runs to...I wonder what prevents Sanam from shooting herself in exasperation!

So then, how can we wake his sleeping hormones? (BTW, by hormones I don't mean ahem..ahem.😉.All I am asking for is some tender loving glances from our man...and then there'd be no stopping Aahil.😆)

For God's sake...I wish Sanam'd stop playing Detective...😒

Which man in history got turned on by detective skills? (Gul's heroines are dumb!đŸ„±)

If on the other hand, she were to faint into his waiting arms...evoke those protective feelings...Sanam'd miss the eye sex...we wouldn't!â˜ș

Ah! But if that happened, even the maker wouldn't be able to stop the floodgates.

đŸ€ȘEnough of frustrated fan girl mode...😳



...Back to analysing...



Does Aahil know the true worth of Sanam?

Dumb Q!đŸ„±- Ofc, he doesn't...

What attracted him to her?

The fiery Sanam who stood up defying him?...The same defiance that she showed when she deserted him on the day of their nikah?

The trusting Sanam who held onto him in her unconsciousness?...The trust that vanished when she failed to consult him or inform him when she disappeared...?

The healing Sanam who led him out of his shell?... The same divinity of which she made a mockery when she inflicted the deadliest wound of all...?

Who can he run to for comfort, other than the woman who sacrificed her life...her own child for him...The very same woman who tries to put up with the Daughter In Law she doesn't approve of...all for his sake...đŸ€”


Mother Vs Wife.

Son Vs Betrayed Husband.

Forget logic... Try to be FAIR...Who should win?

Against a bleeding heart...A thirsting spirit...A yearning Lover...The man's sense of justice holds him back...

Fair Enough!😭



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sylvia99 thumbnail
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hum roye ya hansein...
Karein hum fans kya karein?

Just scream...

That may release the burden...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: sylvia99

Hum roye ya hansein...

Karein hum fans kya karein?

Just scream...

That may release the burden...


Screaminnnggg...

đŸ€”

Whennn???
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Res... I'll be Bach!
I feel ya sista! !

After you supposedly slept with someone else after she gave you a clean slate ... you can bear to shout at her?

you could brush her aside and tell her she can wait.

Sanam has the strength of a wise saints.
I would have been screeching bloody murder right there where they slept. Rained a few blows where the lipstick marks lay.

Darn it. She's being patient and calm. And he tells her to WAIT?
I know, he doesn't know she knows. ..

But still, I'd be horribly guilt ridden if I was Aahil.

At least Zoya left before Asad insisted to explain that he didn't intend to end up half naked with Tanveer. Because she'd have forgiven him, and he'd have gone straight back to trusting Tannu over her. She decided then 'enough is enough ' I'm done here.

But Sanam? She rallied to free Aahil of his guilt. She succeeds.

Then what?
Edited by sageflower7 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hormones đŸ€Ł I feel ur frustration! Kya karein hum fans!!! I wish she would hold him by the collar and... â˜ș But ur right Aahil is just going by what he knows but once he finds out the truth I want him to feel guilty! I want to see angst, tears, guilt and pleading (Aahil) and strength, determination, zid and distance (Sanam). I want to see Miss Dhabevaali, Jallad Jin and their love!!! Of course after all the drama I want to see some hot passionate junoon 😉 â˜ș 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: sageflower7

Res... I'll be Bach!

I feel ya sista! !

After you supposedly slept with someone else after she gave you a clean slate ... you can bear to shout at her?

you could brush her aside and tell her she can wait.

Sanam has the strength of a wise saints.
I would have been screeching bloody murder right there where they slept. Rained a few blows where the lipstick marks lay.

Darn it. She's being patient and calm. And he tells her to WAIT?
I know, he doesn't know she knows. ..

But still, I'd be horribly guilt ridden if I was Aahil.

At least Zoya left before Asad insisted to explain that he didn't intend to end up half naked with Tanveer. Because she'd have forgiven him, and he'd have gone straight back to trusting Tannu over her. She decided then 'enough is enough ' I'm done here.

But Sanam? She rallied to free Aahil of his guilt. She succeeds.

Then what?


Sage,

I feel for the blind man...😭
How easy it is to be led on when you resolve to stay blind...
He dares not look at Sanam...lend her an ear..for fear of betrayal...Once bitten...He blames her for the burden of her sauten she handed over to him...
As if he was already not bound by chains of gratitude...now he is trapped in a relationship he can never do justice to...doesn't want to...yet his mother insistently reminds him...of his so called duties...which wouldn't have happened had she not betrayed him in the first place...
Aahil stopped thinking long back...his feelings and reasoning have gone numb...
She was his strength...
When she left, she broke him...to such an extent that he believes no one can heal him ever...
The 'deception' he was led to believe was real...
Would it even matter to 'her' who pushed to him into this unholy mess?
And now things are spiralling out of control...
He is getting more and more suffocated...the burden of an obligation he cannot reject and a commitment he cannot shake off...
Who is responsible?
If only she hadn't left...
It must be like sinking in quicksand...the more he struggles...the deeper he sinks...
And he can lash out only at ONE PERSON...
💔
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Raingoddess

Hormones đŸ€Ł I feel ur frustration! Kya karein hum fans!!! I wish she would hold him by the collar and... â˜ș But ur right Aahil is just going by what he knows but once he finds out the truth I want him to feel guilty! I want to see angst, tears, guilt and pleading (Aahil) and strength, determination, zid and distance (Sanam). I want to see Miss Dhabevaali, Jallad Jin and their love!!! Of course after all the drama I want to see some hot passionate junoon 😉 â˜ș 😆


😆
Aahil!
How I wish I could hate him!😳😭

Dhaabewaali...I feel..She buried her when she made him let go of his fears...She has seen the stricken child...She will never go back to that.😳

So..Refined Dhaabewaali, Reformed Jallad Jinn and their undying love...

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Lovely post chicksoup...LOVE your ability to show things in the correct perspective so nicely...specially these days when Ahil is coming under a lot of fire for pretty much everything going wrong with Sahil currently.

But I myself have a few questions...Would be glad if anyone would enlighten me...

Am i missing here something that the majority of the Forum pple are privy to????...for the life of me I just CAN'T figure out WHY Ahil would feel guilty when facing Sanam about something, in the first place when he woke up he can't even remember one bit (and that too for a man who had been a major player through out his adult life) even then when he was in his real senses he DID freak out BIG TIME.
But then Sanam2 puts a spell on him and he calmed down or stopped freaking out...NOw I don't think any of us know EXACTLY WHAT she did there, but we do know she did something...nor are we told how long or how far what ever Sanam2 did would last...

So his lack of guilt or what ever in facing Sanam is quite expected. Isn't it????

Now with regards to Zoya, I must be the only one who got really mad at her for putting Asad through all that mental torture for something he did not even do...and for the fact that Zoya NEVER apologized for doubting him in the first place even after all the mess cleared out...

Zoya knew what Tanveer was capable of, and on their first Nikkah day itself, Tanveer specifically told her, that she WOULD sleep with Asad whether Asya Nikkah happens or not...
Even with all this, when Tanveer called her up and asked her to come to some random warehouse to see her handiwork Zoya took one look and fell for it...
And poor Asad being a 'tehzeeb' person his whole life who has not slept around with women still was not believing anything had happened between him and Tanveer when he woke up and so when Zoya come in, ran after her to explain (how he had to save Tanveer from some 'goons' and ended up with being hit on the head and losing consciousness...) which he did not get to explain because she wouldn't let him.

Zoya just took one look and her mind was made up and that after knowing EXACTLY what Tanveer was and how she has tricked before and what she had said that very morning to her AND after Tanveer herself called her and gave her the address of the damned warehouse...

In my opinion ZOya was in the wrong here for NOT TRUSTING Asad and not even giving him a hearing before she just ran away, leaving a tormented Asad to search for her desperately for a month.

I'm so glad that Sanam is proving to be better than Zoya and she has put things in perspective regarding how things have already played out with Sanam/Seher with the same set up...so she is waiting to talk it out with Ahil first...
Now I don't know how things are going to be played out, from here onwards...but for NOW we don't know what happened with Ahil when Sanam2 put that spell on, so Ahil not showing any guilt is not surprising under the circumstances...

Do we expect Ahil to somehow supernaturally have some power to not be affected by Sanam2's black magic or something...???? Is that why we expect him to drown in guilt and go begging Sanam for forgiveness????

By the same token do we expect Sanam to drown in guilt when Ahil questions Sanam about why she kept the twin truth from him for so long and why she herself sent her twin in her place to face Ahil many times all this while...????



Edited by SheAish - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: SheAish


Lovely post chicksoup...LOVE your ability to show things in the correct perspective so nicely...specially these days when Ahil is coming under a lot of fire for pretty much everything going wrong with Sahil currently.

But I myself have a few questions...Would be glad if anyone would enlighten me...

Am i missing here something that the majority of the Forum pple are privy to????...for the life of me I just CAN'T figure out WHY Ahil would feel guilty when facing Sanam about something, in the first place when he woke up he can't even remember one bit (and that too for a man who had been a major player through out his adult life) even then when he was in his real senses he DID freak out BIG TIME.
But then Sanam2 puts a spell on him and he calmed down or stopped freaking out...NOw I don't think any of us know EXACTLY WHAT she did there, but we do know she did something...nor are we told how long or how far what ever Sanam2 did would last...

So his lack of guilt or what ever in facing Sanam is quite expected. Isn't it????

Now with regards to Zoya, I must be the only one who got really mad at her for putting Asad through all that mental torture for something he did not even do...and for the fact that Zoya NEVER apologized for doubting him in the first place even after all the mess cleared out...

Zoya knew what Tanveer was capable of, and on their first Nikkah day itself, Tanveer specifically told her, that she WOULD sleep with Asad whether Asya Nikkah happens or not...
Even with all this, when Tanveer called her up and asked her to come to some random warehouse to see her handiwork Zoya took one look and fell for it...
And poor Asad being a 'tehzeeb' person his whole life who has not slept around with women still was not believing anything had happened between him and Tanveer when he woke up and so when Zoya come in, ran after her to explain (how he had to save Tanveer from some 'goons' and ended up with being hit on the head and losing consciousness...) which he did not get to explain because she wouldn't let him.

Zoya just took one look and her mind was made up and that after knowing EXACTLY what Tanveer was and how she has tricked before and what she had said that very morning to her AND after Tanveer herself called her and gave her the address of the damned warehouse...

In my opinion ZOya was in the wrong here for NOT TRUSTING Asad and not even giving him a hearing before she just ran away, leaving a tormented Asad to search for her desperately for a month.

I'm so glad that Sanam is proving to be better than Zoya and she has put things in perspective regarding how things have already played out with Sanam/Seher with the same set up...so she is waiting to talk it out with Ahil first...
Now I don't know how things are going to be played out, from here onwards...but for NOW we don't know what happened with Ahil when Sanam2 put that spell on, so Ahil not showing any guilt is not surprising under the circumstances...

Do we expect Ahil to somehow supernaturally have some power to not be affected by Sanam2's black magic or something...???? Is that why we expect him to drown in guilt and go begging Sanam for forgiveness????

By the same token do we expect Sanam to drown in guilt when Ahil questions Sanam about why she kept the twin truth from him for so long and why she herself sent her twin in her place to face Ahil many times all this while...???? without having proof of Tanveer's chals...



Thanks. Aahil can never be anything less than a sweetheart...😳😆..Until Sanam starts hating him, that is...😉. It doesn't look like she will ever do that...so I am safely sympathising with my hero...

As for your Qs..will try to answer them.

Whatever Sanam 2 tried...it simply calmed him..Tanveer told him what he is supposed to believe...and so he believes...he knows.
Let us not forget here that if Tanveer could script a fake SR part 2, she can come up with a Fake pregnancy part 2 too..😉
This act will be revisited..with appropriate responses, hopefully.

I was actually shocked with Sehar's response here...though it was a nice perspective to tell off Sanam 2...I expected her to hit the roof knowing what he had done to her sister...I am hoping against hope that Sehar will soon hit the rock bottom of her patience and get her twin out of the mad-spooky-house!

Sanam forgave because she knows Tanveer must have played a dirty game...it may have happened, but she knows it is not his fault. Aahil- may or may not believe, actually...he should know better..and could assume that Tanveer is merely assuming things and doesn't want to explain anything...that way, it will not be an exact replica of Pregnancy part 2.😉

As for Zoya...Asad did not run behind to explain nothing happened...Tanveer told him he had gone into a mad frenzy and sought her...he believed himself to be an animal...especially since he always feared he had Rashid's meandering blood in him...He was shocked...but he had to tell her that whatever happened..he didn't know HOW it happened..NOT THAT it did not happen...

He was so easily fooled when Tanveer told him he had impregnated her that night..😉

I feel Zoya did the right thing by running away...

For Sanam...It is easier..Her first glimpse of Aahil was of him making out...She knows his reputation too well...Not that she'd tolerate infidelity...But here she knows that Billi and Sanam 2 are both playing a game..and probably succeeded...

She is shocked, sad...not angry.


Edited by chicksoup - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Chicksoup, I liked your post.

Aahil is the one guy I feel bad for at the moment. He knows nothing and is now in a confusing situation where he cannot put 2 and 2 together about what happened last night.
SA, I would feel for Sanam if she was really trying to make right of her situation. She first needs to be beside this man. why does she not realize that once Ammi's full truth is out, he will be a broken man. why does she not tell about the swap and kidnap. IMO Seher could do with some harsh words and bad treatment. Besides Aahil wouldn't harm a single hair on her. Maybe he'll just be a little put off and irritated, but once he has his Sanam in his life, he'd be in a better mood.
Never once have I seen her describe to Sanam how she and Aahil survived during those days. How she manipulated him by touching his cheeks to get her way and later snub off his advances.
What's the hold up? Why is seher doing this huge disservice to her sister? The longer the truth takes to come out the worse the ramifications

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