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I know its quite late for a comparison post.I have always been supporter for Raman and am now too.But I never hated Ishita for any fact.I always watched YHM for Ishra and as for myself I tend to support weaker side.
I have seen many comparison posts recently but everyone of you forgot one comparison.It is similar but very small compared to scale of what is happening now.As this time Shagun is involved ang playing active and Raman's mistakes counted big.We can't either forget those .But I just want to say but you definitly can't hate him for that.
Hating a lead character and watching the show .It looks strange to me.But definitly you can't say that Raman does not deserve Ishita.It may be true in your point of view but Raman need Ishita more.
Here I came with a comparison.Which no one bothered to remember.It is very small compared to what now happened but situation were same and repeated but opposite side.Only thing then was we din't make war then.
I am telling about Ruhi's custody reopen part.
Yes that part is what I am trying to speak about.
The moment Ishita got to know about Ruhi's custody getting reopened Ishita was completely angry on Raman and whole family scolded him blaming him for the mistake.
But is Raman wrong then ,how can any husband tolerate when some one call's his wife a ____.
We all accepted that to be communication gap.
Raman beared Ishita's scolding.Is Ishita a angry woman or she hates Raman no it is that point where the thought of loosing her child came in.
Ishita in her stable mind would definitly try to find he reason that made Raman angry and would have told hi slowly but when fear of loosing her child came in her anger bust out.
Ishita is not wrong then .I am not saying Raman is right in scolding Ishita but he also went through same pain of loosing his child .He is again scared that he may loose his son again.
Raman is definitly wrong in blaming Ishita all alone but he was just in trauma as was Ishita in that case.But the problem came with scale.Raman's anger is always considered more and we blamed him as he din't trust Ishita.
Raman definitly trust Ishita as Ishita trust Raman but at that point it is their fears which spoke but not them.
Then Ishita needed Raman's support to come out of it and Ishita got it as Raman dealt with patience.It is what a husband is supposed to do.
Raman also needed Ishita's support now which he is unable to get because of surrounding environment.
Ishita and Raman were always dependent to each other.They are each other's support system.
But Raman is more dependent on Ishita than Ishita on Raman.Raman is emotionally weak without Ishita .Without Ishita Raman always made wrong choices and it is always Ishita who guided him correctly and same happened for Ishita in her troubled times Raman was there for her.
But we should notice that Raman's biggest strength was not with him to handle this situation.He scolded Ishita but he was hurt by his own actions and felt unable to speak to his support and his support system which guides him.We have to be patient till Raman can properly speak with Ishita that would be the end of Raman's mistakes.Ishita will guide him to correct way and Raman will make everything right.For that he need Ishita.It is Ishita who will make Raman do right things.But you guys are saying Ishita should leave Raman ,But then wrong would alwasy be wrong and will never become right.Raman needs Ishita to make his every wrong right.
Then this looks even minute comparison.
At the same time Ruhi noticed other's change in behaviiour and started making demands which she won't.
She made unacceptable demands in regular term.Which Ishita and Raman never accepted in usual sence.But the thought it might be last day with her they agreed with every demand Ruhi made.
BUt Ruhi never wanted her demands to be accepted but wanted her parents to be normal.Unlike Adi .
Then every one pampered Ruhi.It is not that they din't loved her till then but it is fear that made them do that way.
Fear always sends humans to extreme ends.
It is same way but not exact as scale is differing.
Raman and Toshiji accepting Adi's demands is wrong but they are blinded by fear and love .Which we can't say Adi don't deserve beacuse he loves Shagun.
It is Shagun who is manipulating the kid we wont just trust any stranger compared to a friend.
See in our own forum about recent news Ramona confirmed saying there is no SHARAM pheres.We din't even doubt once to trust her as she was our old member and have given us information many times.
But same thing recently a member name priyaray confirmed about no YHM leap .But never trused her and asked for sources.
Both has told tructh but our preference on trust first went to known member over the unknown new member.Even though Priya tried in all convincing ways we still waited for trusted sources.
Same way it is for a kid .He had known her mother for ages and always loved him according to him .It would be obvious that he trusts his mother more than any .He need little time to accept the truth and a person to show it.We just need time for it.
I guess we remember a incident where divz interview was misinterpreted .Some member did much mess with it .But is DIVz wrong then but we assumed ourself that she is wrong and went to many lengths showing anger.We know how much Divz got hurt them by our actions,
We were not bad then but we were misleaded that made us do that.So everything happening is not a new thing and not new style no special creativity blunder or something we just need to be patient to know the result.
Everything is repeating the same way but scale differs.
But by this small reasoning we should not make our decisions.We just need to give time for things to adjust.
I now I made a lengthy banter.But just try to understand my POV.
We should'nt be hating any one .It is just situation changing.
Then my only one request to who ever is making posts saying Raman is foll or what ever same follws on who make posts bashing Ishita or Raman .
If you want to prove yourself stick to your belief.If you make a post bashing Raman/Ishita then you should never make another post praising Raman/Ishita.
If you could do that then I have no obljection with your posts.
My comparison may look stupid for comparing Ruhi's small wishes to Adi's illogical .But they varied by a large scale but patter followed is same.
I hope I made my point.
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