A lot of Raman supporters are writing about why cant Raman perform Lohri pooja with Shagun, when Ishita celebrated their anniversary on New Years??
According to me - here is why RAMAN IS SOOO WRONG...
Well, so THE BIG DIFFERENCE b/w IShita's New year stunt and Raman's Lohri stunt is that :
1. Ishita was doing it to make Adi happy as the susu thought it was an IMPORTANT day in his parents life. She celebrated their anniversary on New Year's where there is NO RITUAL for couples to perform, so technically Ishita was not replacing Shagun with herself in that stunt, it wasn't hers and Raman's anniversary that she asked Shagun to celebrate with Raman 😡😡😡 Can you understand this fundamental difference????
But, in case of Lohri, it was special day for Raman-Ishita marriage, their first Lohri after marriage, where it is customary for a couple to perform the puja - and Raman didn't think twice before saying yes to Adi...🤢🤢🤢
2. Yes, Ishita asked Raman to give khandani ear-rings to Shagun on New Year's day, because again she was trying to pacify susu about something that he believed was taken from his mom, for Ishita material things don't matter and for her it was enough that Raman had given them to her already, so they were hers to give now. Agree that they were khandani, but she was just giving it for KHANDAN's CHIRAG's happiness...😆😆😆😆
But, in case of Lohri, it was customary for Raman-Ishita to throw the popcorns in the fire and do the pheras. Nothing that was previously given to Shagun was taken if susu could think that. Nothing was done to exclude susu and his mom. There was no way susu had a reason to feel bad on this occasion like he did about the ear-rings...
3. Last but not least, when IShita pulled the New Year anniversary stunt, she was not at all aware of Shagun's and Adi's plans to demean her. SHe was trying to make susu happy, that's all.
But, in case of Lohri, and by all the stunts Shagun and Adi have pulled so far, like asking Ishita to say sorry, calling her a neighbor in front of his friends, insisting that Raman perform puja with Shagun, cant Raman GET IT WHAT ADI IS TRYING TO DO ????😡😡😡🤢🤢🤢
Does he not know that susu burnt his hand to incriminate Ishita?
Does he not know that susu sent IShita to Ashok's bachelor party by deceit?
Does he not know that susu was responsible for almost sending Mrs. Iyer to heaven?
Does he not know that susu blamed IShita for giving him wrong meds?
Does he not know that susu asked Ishita to apologies to Shagun for no fault of hers?
Does he not know that susu wants to blame Ishita for not wanting him in the house?
Does he not know that susu called Ishita a neighbor in front of his friends?
Does he not know Shagun and her antics and her vampish character in instigating susu to all these crime?
AND
Did he not scold Ishita for pulling the New Year stunt and tell her that it was wrong of her to give false hopes to Adi, so what is he doing now???😡😡
AFTER ALL THESE EXAMPLES...even the dumbest person on the planet will not do what susu is asking him to do PLEASE SUSU AND HURT ISHITA bcoz in then he has made a case for all the bashing he is getting from the forum.
IS there a BIG difference b/w what Ishita did on New years and what Raman is doing on Lohri?? YES...
Although I don't support even Ishita's New year stunt
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