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this topic is not meant for bashing any character or actor. just my two cents on the current track.
i was wondering that we do not know what and why raman is not saying anything to adi's demands. agreed the serial is trying to portray a man being torn between his wife and son. but raman's no stand appoach annoys agreed.
however what will a father of a child do who is showing clear signs of psychoses and the counsellor saying provide him a safe environment? when a child is physically sick we do everything not to upset or hurt him till he/she is ok. so wen a child is having a psychological difficulty/ maladjustement why and when is a father wrong in thinking of fulfilling his needs. till now raman has not agreed to his nonsensical demands had he he would ask an apology from ishita.
adi no doubt is a rotten apple but a child of 5-6 yrs witnessing a bitter divoce and thn instigation how on earth is he supposed to think straight? a normal divorce affects kids. here we have a bitter divorce remarriage etc...
raman is over confident that ishita will understand and a logical mind will also say save the child who is probably not in a state to understand atleast till he is in touch with reality and accepts the reality. he is sure ruhi will not be affected as ishita is there to take care of her.
yes he displaced his anger on her, but as per his characteriztion- obbsessive love for adi, impulsive behavior, easily frustrated person still he knew he was wrong and infront of adi not once did he say ishita is wrong reinforcing adis step mother belief.
this track can give the masses such a good example if handled well espically from a psychological point of view and show the vulberabilities and insecurities of all a child who doesnt know where his family is. a father who unconditionally loves his kid. a mother/wife who only knows to love though it comes across as crazy at times.
in this track my heart goes out to raman no doubt how flawed, how spineless, how obsessed he is its him only who will loose one to gain the other.
just just hope no matter what they never show ruhi against any of her ishima or raman papa.