where ishita is wrong..

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I liked Ishita- Amma's convo today n agree Ishita had no other choice but to bring Adi home for Raman, and bringing Shagun along was d only way they cud make Adi stay.
But my only problem is if Shagun can influence Adi so much, why cannot Raman or even Ishita make an effort to influence Adi? Why cant Raman explain to Adi that not all step moms r d same and Ishita wud love him even more dan his mother? Why cant ishita tell Raman about Adi's hatred for her and help him change it and make things better for her? Here is where Ishita is wrong.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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CVS doesn't have this much of time to think! They are more busy in showing Shagun shit. 😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Yes I also agree that Ishita had no choice but to bring Adi home. Any woman, especially someone like Ishita, wouldn't leave the child all alone in that situation. Ofcourse, the only way to bring Adi home is to bring Shagun along.
Ishita or Raman can't influence Adi that easily because Adi doesn't like either of them. He has openly showed hatred for both of them. So if they try to advise him or influence him in any way, it wouldn't work and would most likely backfire. He idolizes Shagun and loves her so much, that he listens to everything she says. The only other person he listens to is Bala. Even if Raman explained to him how good Ishita is, do you really think it would work with Adi? He has his mind set and the only person who is able to influence him at the moment is Shagun. So even if Raman tries to explain, Adi just going to be like, of course you are supporting your wife or she has tricked you into believing she is good.

Yes, Ishita is wrong in not telling Raman about the storytelling incident between Adi and her. She should tell him, so that he is aware of this. But I guess in a way, she doesn't want to ruin Raman's happiness. She sees how happy Raman is, in having Adi back with him and accepting him. So she is not telling him the truth, in order to let him be happy. If Raman learns that Adi is behaving like this, of course he will be hurt. So she is again, trying to prevent him.

For me, Ishita is wrong in trying to give Adi false hopes about his parents, in her attempt to make him happy. Raman is wrong in going along with Ishita's plans and not talking to Adi about the real situation - he and Shagun are divorced and Ishita is his present but Adi will always be his son.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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ISHITA is wrong when even she and others thought that she can be Adi's Mom or guardian... She could not be mom so easily as Adi had his Mom and the only relation in his life.
She should not entertain Shagun's all the demands.
She should ask for Raman, their medical group or Mani's help to give her job so that she can busy herself and give some space to them.
She should not leave her rights of being Raman's wife and Ruhi's mother. Pushing Raman and Shagun together was not at all good, she did mistake during whole New year episodes.
Wrongs -
1. Tries to be mother of Adi when he doesn't want at this point of time.
2. Clicking picture while Ardis's mother and father kissing him together.
3. Cutting fake anniversary cake
4. Giving her right as a DIL in family which she got after months of stay in the house within seconds to SHAGUN in the name of jwellery.
5. Hiding Adi's thought towards Ishita, as still others are as usually praising her in front of him and he is getting effected and still got a crack in mixing with all of them because of Ishita . If she could have told to everyone that Adi's view are not good towards her , no one should have given any responsibility of Adi to her and she could be saved and Adi could also take less time to mix with his family in Shagun's absence.

6. And most important one when she knows that Adi can go to this extent to harm himself to get some punishments for Ishita , she should have told talents to Raman as this is the second time he harm himself to let Ishita to. Face the burns. Hiding from Raman the major issue was and is wrong, she should have inform about this mental state to Adi's doctor maybe offline only.

7. While in the quest of Adi ignoring her daughter who came to a vulnerable state and not being satisfied by her mother's answers for the very first time.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Raman already knew Adi hated Ishita- it wasn't a a sudden thing. How could Ishita tell him about it when he was so happy in his own bubble of getting his son back? He was going on about Adi being normal with Ishita and how soon he'd call her Ishima too in the previous episodes. Ishita didn't have the heart to burst that bubble! Raman was truly happy in a very long time. Besides, Adi has got the acting thing down. Don't you think Raman could doubt Ishita's words on the story thing? We know how blind he is when it comes to Adi.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: -SakuraS-

Yes I also agree that Ishita had no choice but to bring Adi home. Any woman, especially someone like Ishita, wouldn't leave the child all alone in that situation. Ofcourse, the only way to bring Adi home is to bring Shagun along.

Ishita or Raman can't influence Adi that easily because Adi doesn't like either of them. He has openly showed hatred for both of them. So if they try to advise him or influence him in any way, it wouldn't work and would most likely backfire. He idolizes Shagun and loves her so much, that he listens to everything she says. The only other person he listens to is Bala. Even if Raman explained to him how good Ishita is, do you really think it would work with Adi? He has his mind set and the only person who is able to influence him at the moment is Shagun. So even if Raman tries to explain, Adi just going to be like, of course you are supporting your wife or she has tricked you into believing she is good.

Yes, Ishita is wrong in not telling Raman about the storytelling incident between Adi and her. She should tell him, so that he is aware of this. But I guess in a way, she doesn't want to ruin Raman's happiness. She sees how happy Raman is, in having Adi back with him and accepting him. So she is not telling him the truth, in order to let him be happy. If Raman learns that Adi is behaving like this, of course he will be hurt. So she is again, trying to prevent him.

For me, Ishita is wrong in trying to give Adi false hopes about his parents, in her attempt to make him happy. Raman is wrong in going along with Ishita's plans and not talking to Adi about the real situation - he and Shagun are divorced and Ishita is his present but Adi will always be his son.


hmm..brilliant post. i agree wid everything u wrote dere.. u summed it up all. 😊
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Wings-of-Fire

Raman already knew Adi hated Ishita- it wasn't a a sudden thing. How could Ishita tell him about it when he was so happy in his own bubble of getting his son back? He was going on about Adi being normal with Ishita and how soon he'd call her Ishima too in the previous episodes. Ishita didn't have the heart to burst that bubble! Raman was truly happy in a very long time. Besides, Adi has got the acting thing down. Don't you think Raman could doubt Ishita's words on the story thing? We know how blind he is when it comes to Adi.

atleast ishita cud do smthing herself to change adi's perception of her. also raman is not so blind to trust adi more dan ishita.
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