Different Parameters of Healthy Flirting - Page 2

Originally posted by: Arshie

no one...karishma is at fault... d girl should set her limits and not cross it for anyone...if she could react with tears for pritam, snap and yell at rahul...y is she silent with upen???

I dont mean to react so strongly but I couldn't help it. So its ok for a man to shamelessly flirt with a women knowing that she is in a committed relationship. And what should Karishma do ??

She never flirted with anyone. she tried to stop the Pritam flirting business and was yelled at by Salman, Upen and her are just friends. Sometimes we take some liberty with friends and as far as Rahul is concerned she made is very clear she is not interested in him

How is it always the woman's fault. this is not 10th century where you blame a woman for everything. This is 2014.

Originally posted by: Arshie

no one...karishma is at fault... d girl should set her limits and not cross it for anyone...if she could react with tears for pritam, snap and yell at rahul...y is she silent with upen???

I am not Karishma fan but girls should set their limit huh ?? How about guys have some control over their 'you know what' and just back the hell off when the girl is uncomfortable with it.

Originally posted by: edifiz100

I am not Karishma fan but girls should set their limit huh ?? How about guys have some control over their 'you know what' and just back the hell off when the girl is uncomfortable with it.

Originally posted by: TheBoss

But the girl wasn't uncomfortable. We wouldnt be discussing all this if she had been uncomfortable.

I think its perception. The way Sonali was challenging Upen to kiss her and was clearly ok with him getting so close to her but with Ali she didnt like the way he touched her. Just cos shes ok with Upen does it mean its ok for Ali to do the same? The answer is No.

she was uncomfortable in my eyes. She was laughing nervously like a fool and at the same time telling him she has a bf, shes not interested, she ignores him etc etc. Not just to him but other housemates. Show me one instance where she encouraged him to continue with this.

Originally posted by: edifiz100

I dont mean to react so strongly but I couldn't help it. So its ok for a man to shamelessly flirt with a women knowing that she is in a committed relationship. And what should Karishma do ??

She never flirted with anyone. she tried to stop the Pritam flirting business and was yelled at by Salman, Upen and her are just friends. Sometimes we take some liberty with friends and as far as Rahul is concerned she made is very clear she is not interested in him

How is it always the woman's fault. this is not 10th century where you blame a woman for everything. This is 2014.

Originally posted by: edifiz100

I am not Karishma fan but girls should set their limit huh ?? How about guys have some control over their 'you know what' and just back the hell off when the girl is uncomfortable with it.

Its a simple case of supply and demand. There are women who are enablers like Tanna for people like Mahajan. You scratch my back I scratch yours has been going on for thousands of years.

Pritam more so coz he's married not just married but a Father too plus his wife is preggers so the onus is on him to curb it in