Sarita should have blasted Jagat years before

Yesterday Sarita blasted Jagat. Calling him callous towards Anjali. I would say far too late in the game lady. You should have done it years ago.

Yes, Im also wondering why she didnt blast him many years before?

Yup she should have blasted him years before...

but better late than never...

Exactly it shows how much women so underestimated and they need to rid out from shell ..And why this racism is still goes on in nook an corners of country..? Killing of womenhood and putting their capability and stability at stake..Its too late by Sarita when all these years she wants to keep mum and now she blazed in questioning hi,..It could have been done before ..All these years she stayed as a perfect wife to him in balancing the circumstances between daughter and father..Either she tried to sort out the bigotry present within him...??

It shows how much silence of woman like Sarita breed men like Jagat. More than 80% of the men folks are the way they are because some woman tolerate them just like that as mother, as wife, as sister and as daughter. No accountability asked.

My sister is a gynaec. She says we see the same story repeated everyday. If if we go and tell the family it is a boy, they immediately start cheering and shouting mithai lao.

I think Sarita kept quiet all these years as she was trying to maintain a picture of normal family life to Anjali, who didnt know till recently that her father hated her for being a girl.

Originally posted by: pallavi25

I think Sarita kept quiet all these years as she was trying to maintain a picture of normal family life to Anjali, who didnt know till recently that her father hated her for being a girl.

Sarita didnt want to upset the apple cart.

But now its a matter of life or death. Her daughter is risking her own life to prove a point to her father that a daughter is also capable of fulfilling such an impossible dream!

Yet still the father is emotionless, cold, cruel, even gloating that Anjali couldnt go!

Now Sarita cannot remain quiet any more, she burst out at his callous coldness, his indifference to his daughter's heartbreak!

Now that Anjali has been left behind by the team, hes actually satisfied. His unfeeling reaction is what finally broke the dam of Sarita's patience!

Originally posted by: Poluk

Like all good Indian wives she waited hoping that one day her husband would start loving her daughter and also did not have the courage to break free of the horrid relationship. For her generation, divorce was unthinkable and a social taboo.

Plus she had a daughter and arranging her respectable marriage would be a problem if she took a divorce. I have met women who say that if they had a son they would have easily walked out of the bad relationship they are in but with a daughter there are multiple complications involved like her security, marriage etc.

There are multiple reasons that affected her decision of tolerating her husband, financial security also being one. In fact I would say that she has sufferred much more than Anjali. Every slight to her beloved child would have made her heart bleed.

As you said earlier, its only when her child was totally heart broken that she got the courage to raise her voice.

Originally posted by: pallavi25

Yes, I agree, Indian women dont have the courage to leave an abusive marriage when they have daughters. With a son they feel they have the strength and leverage to face an uncertain future.

That is the mindset in Indian families that they wont be able to get their daughters married if parents are divorced. As if marriage is the only resolution in a girl's life!

I hated the way Sarita was keeping silent all this time while Jagat forced his decisions on her and Anjali, fixing Anjali's wedding without consulting either, ordering them around like they were chattel.

Hes a hateful man and I hope he gets his comeuppance soon. I dont see any justification for his behavior! Hes just another of those MCP, misogynist men!

Regarding your previous post, I am really appalled at the attitude of the men you mentioned! I dont know why this inbred misogyny is getting worse with each generation instead of getting better.