Why so ignorant?

We are again and again speculating will Shoba accept Vikram or not?

They want to show shobha's heart pure and clean, without any ego, jealousy, attitute which is very rare to find. Indian tv industry do not know that without this quality a person can be a good humane being.

This is so true.
Vikram's admiration for Shobha grew into love over the time of the 6 months perk when he felt he travelled the parameters of trust understanding & respect into his love for her. He clearly sees her as hid life partner as hus best frirnd .. Also the stage at which he is fallin in love is like the cross of certain timeine pf the love journey so the way here love for him is absorbing Shobha with all her qualities & he loves her two kids. His MoveOn his reasoning of doing what his heart listens to and he has given mqny hints to Shobha in his conversation where is she ????
Vikram is always clear about his thoughts he is mature the way he was trying to approach he will stick to it always he knows what he wants in life... Also he is self sufficent too yes aAs i always say alovve brings strenght & weaknesses hope the strenght stays as strenght & he should get his share of love!!

Coming to Shobha . She has never had a male friend looks like never spent quality work time with a male and her ways of talking she is mixing friendship yes its the foundation with the way she commands the way he sees Vikram a part of her life and many other gestures under the same roof tag of bond & friendship, she has not seen beyond that though her heart may have moved on mind is pre occupied by several other things & on top of that she thinks Vikram loves Sarika but again she knows he is ready for a relationship then why not seeing her side of feeling..
She says he is always there when she is in trouble she have a lot of close sweet talks with him they smile together she see loads of comfort with him...,

I feel only a rgird person pointing out to her thst her comfort zone lies in Vikram will only shake her up!! She is still in a bubble of friendship as she says na logon ko aadat hai relationship ko bixes mai daal nay ki... Talks are loyd & clear what is not hitting her are the feeling from heart to mind !! Also does her heart hear his heart beat only ic they show her thinking abt him like pamoering with tea giving her the medicine that lamp holding upright , ir soneone confront her about it & tell her that she is also attracted to a wonderful man life Vikram Shobha's gaadi will not be on track.

Now Samarth himself says to Vikram who r u to Shobha he says a well wisher a friend who u cannot be for those 9 years what u could'bt be !! Shobha has to be ckear in ger thoughts what she knows ant friendship & relationship extending between man & woman . Only 3rd persons triggering some fibgers pointed will show her that Maybe...

Every episode I guess there r some pieces gluing thier relationship but what is Shobha mot seeing which Vikram shows is again unanswerable as Shobha has not realized or is ignorant or doesn't walk on the same path yet ...

@Shanti

We all want self realuzation when does that come sometimes automatically sonetimes when a thrid prrson questions .. Avni case she bluntly told her why dont u marry ... Later Sarika says aqp ki wajah say see nothing is striking her !! This man is doing so much whole heartely & with pure intentions & concern & love kuch tho bond hai this bond is no longer friendship ita more ... Will there ever be self realization i. Her donno ..

How thw writes will write her behavipur to understand that Vikram sees her beyond just firndhip & loves her does she reciprocate the same way is a challenge !! Lots of mind & heqet puzzle peices are acattered from Shobha'sside. Ahe hs to hlue she has to make an atgempt she has to move in that direction its possible its beautiful uts doable a right man who was always a right man & kept his cards right knows your weekness & strenght sees ghe right encourages that in you shouldnt that grow into thenlive u need ???

Dynamics digging deeper should be Shobha's effort and see the path where one positive step & both can see a new light in their lives happiness in abundance and above all trust & respect !

Shobha has been ignorant of many things her whole life. Hopefully Vikram wont be ignorant of her feelings for long. Soon he might realise she thinks of him only as a friend once samarth comes back. There is no need for him to suffer , he shall always be her friend and well wisher.

[Dynamics digging deeper should be Shobha's effort and see the path where one positive step & both can see a new light in their lives happiness in abundance and above all trust & respect ! ]

As Naani says she is in Neel Mode Ie Denial mode !!

She has various ways of talking to Vikram her gestures are more than being friend.. Vikram is one amazing pure soul who understands Shobha and her gestures the way they are and he reciprocates the way in various waveleghts .. For Shobha she needs to catch that wavelenght which gives her a skip in her heart beat & feels teh same equation as his,..

Society sees their relationship in a different way They are talkin like that Mr. Chadda said Aap dono kay beech mai kya ho raha hai humay pata hai !!

She says logon ko boxes mai dalney ki aadat hai , She sees him in her comfort zone.. So molding herself to understand what this realition is moving towards is her own self help ,, Even Carima said earlier that someone would hold her hand , she should get somone who truley respects her..

She needs to glue her pieces together herself, Does she need someone to guide her only Vikram can thats where that one chord which will strike her heart she needs to catch its a slow development from her side its also loads of other things in her mind She needs to calm down peace out and think by her heart and mind together...

Originally posted by: asdpsanmol

Shobha has been ignorant of many things her whole life. Hopefully Vikram wont be ignorant of her feelings for long. Soon he might realise she thinks of him only as a friend once samarth comes back. There is no need for him to suffer , he shall always be her friend and well wisher.

Originally posted by: shanti05

As Naani says she is in Neel Mode Ie Denial mode !!

She has various ways of talking to Vikram her gestures are more than being friend.. Vikram is one amazing pure soul who understands Shobha and her gestures the way they are and he reciprocates the way in various waveleghts .. For Shobha she needs to catch that wavelenght which gives her a skip in her heart beat & feels teh same equation as his,..

Society sees their relationship in a different way They are talkin like that Mr. Chadda said Aap dono kay beech mai kya ho raha hai humay pata hai !!

She says logon ko boxes mai dalney ki aadat hai , She sees him in her comfort zone.. So molding herself to understand what this realition is moving towards is her own self help ,, Even Carima said earlier that someone would hold her hand , she should get somone who truley respects her..

She needs to glue her pieces together herself, Does she need someone to guide her only Vikram can thats where that one chord which will strike her heart she needs to catch its a slow development from her side its also loads of other things in her mind She needs to calm down peace out and think by her heart and mind together...