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will rashmi get divorced or not ??

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I don't want r&n to get divorce they should think atleast abt their daughter their divorce will effect it alot I get nikhil has made big mistake he should realise his mistake n come back to rashmi n in the end he will

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Just by realising your mistake and coming back doesn't make everything go back to normal.
It's like Rashmi is in denial, blaming the other woman and not her own husband. Soon she will realise that Nikhil has really messed up and her trust in him will break. They can divorce and still have joint custody of the child or Rashmi have full custody and let Nikhil see her every now and then but Rashmi shouldn't have to live with some one who hurt her. It's not a good lesson for her child.
It will take quite a while for anything to go almost back to normal in Rashmi and Nikhil's relationship, whether they stay together or not.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Rashmi should not go back. Rashmi deserves much better. Forgiving your husband and living with him is no solution. Rashmi should divorce him. Only then yrkkh cvs will give a good message.
I know breaking your own marriage is not easy but sometimes you have to and hope cvs will show the right thing
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Look dear TM, what is wrong with getting divorced? The kid will be just fine. Cheating done by your spouse is a very valid reason for a Divorse, so why should Rashmi compromise?

The kid will not feel anything wrong iwth this.

I know a lot of people whose parents are divorced, both here in Canada and in India, and all of them seem to be completely okay with it. This is a false notion that some moral police carry and we should get rid of it. I admit that divorse should not occur without reason but Rashmi has a very valid reason for it.


The both of them can share the custody or Rashmi can take the custody and allow Nikhill to visit the daughter.


[Nothing against the TM, but I am simply against the idea of pitying the child whose parents are getting divorced. As painful as it is to see your family breaking, it is more painful for a kid to realize that your mother has buried her happiness for you. I am saying this from personal experience. ]

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I don't want nikhil to be changed character..hope it will be an MU
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Posted: 10 years ago
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rashmi should give divorce to nikhil
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mini2013

I don't want nikhil to be changed character..hope it will be an MU


Yes I hope it's mu maybe rashmi had a mu Abt him or maybe he's ill so he said to rashmi so she could move on life but u never knows!! But my heart is saying nikhil is not cheating on rashmi I hope it's true
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I think Rashmi will get a divorce because then her and Deviyani will connect. Deviyani and Rashmi will bond over their pain.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: KaShCrazyAneesa

Just by realising your mistake and coming back doesn't make everything go back to normal.

It's like Rashmi is in denial, blaming the other woman and not her own husband. Soon she will realise that Nikhil has really messed up and her trust in him will break. They can divorce and still have joint custody of the child or Rashmi have full custody and let Nikhil see her every now and then but Rashmi shouldn't have to live with some one who hurt her. It's not a good lesson for her child.
It will take quite a while for anything to go almost back to normal in Rashmi and Nikhil's relationship, whether they stay together or not.


Bang on!!
That's exactly what I feel too.
Even when akshara was ready to go back to naitik after he told her to leave the house vishambar never let her go because he wanted his daughter to have some self respect and not go in that house when she was clearly unwanted and without respect.
I think this is the time for rashmi to be strong and face her destiny..
As far as gayu is concerned she won't be a happy kid either if her fathers living abroad with some other woman..
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Rashmi should not become weak at this particlar point of time...she should face her own life...akshara said it right..nikhil is not a child..he has done everything knowingly...forgiving him is something next to impossible..rashmi needs to be strong...and should take the right decision..

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