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Posted: 10 years ago
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I don't know, just really liked reading this post. So much to ponder. And you've worded it so well.
Trust, to him means seeing through his lies.Trust to Nandini means not being lied to. Contrasting.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Firebolt

I don't know, just really liked reading this post. So much to ponder. And you've worded it so well.

Trust, to him means seeing through his lies.Trust to Nandini means not being lied to. Contrasting.


Succinctly put.👏
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: shibz

Agreed!

I personally believe there is no wrong or right..there are only opinions that differ!

I've said it even before that both of them are right in their place.. however Manik really needs to sort his brains!
It kind of amazed me how Manik asked for all the promises & Nandu happily gave it.. He hadn't made any promises himself on the confession night! Neither did Nandu ask for any.. But Manik trusted her promise..so he was happy too.

He broke her heart & her trust immediately the next day but he clearly kept an open end! When she voiced out at first that she doesn't believe his lies, he was hopeful & asked her to stop him but it was too late since her mind had already taken the negative route.. She asked him to prove her doubts wrong & that was enough for Manik to carry on with his revenge drama!

I don't blame either of them..because both had their own reasons.. It's not that Manik did not trust Nandu enough to share Dhruv's secret with her.. it is because he couldn't! He was confused..he was unsure.. Nandini's shaken trust made his action easier.. & even after that in his heart he wished she hadn't believed him! Because where there is love, there is hope! He probably thought that he could move on.. but in actual he couldn't!

Now if Nandini has made a decision for Manik & herself, she's going on the same path as Manik.. that might help her understand Manik's perspective when he had made the decision for both!

Similar to the way Manik & Dhruv's trust was rebuilt! For Manik to understand that Dhruv was right in his place, he had to go through the same.. Dhruv guarded Alya's secret & later he covered up for Manik when he couldn't make it to the intra-college competition.. Manik also accepted that some secrets are best kept hidden when he had one of his own!

It will be interesting to see how Manik will realize his love for Nandini.. he badly needs to because the girl holds him so close to her heart!


Yes, there is no wrong or right, especially in matters of the heart. After all it is a matter of perception and perceptions are shaped by so many factors including the environment one was raised, the experiences one has had and the attitude one has to life in general and people in particular.

I too want Manik to realise his love for Nandini. He has seen enough of her emotions to know by now how much he means to her. Even during their 'break' she could not hide her concern and care for him. And yes, I want him to make a few unconditional promises to her.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Aarya-

And what is love if it doesn't hurt... 😉
As always you pen so well...


True. The beautiful love stories also are the most pain/angst filled ones.

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