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simi

@Jaysean

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: minzkumar

Wow I get told to support my favourite n not give my opinion if someone replies on my post and bashes my favourite contestant (go n read your initial comment) n now suddenly you have rights to say whatever U want when I didn't some time ago... :) I will just ignore you from here.

I am not forcing anything on anyone. No one is stupid. The votes he gets shows itself. Haters can burn n keep hating. Maybe from next season they should have voting for contestants who U dislike...my point was why bash anyone, just support your own favourite n even U stated the same in one of your comments but bashed him too.

I am not the one that's forcing anything on anyone but by bashing him, I guess you are the one doing that. If I would have agreed with you, you would hv been happy right now that hey another fan of gautam is lost. I am sure even the person you support has major flaws n that's not my problem.

I will just ignore your posts now cos I only understand one language n that's English :)

Ok! Go read our entire conversation- my first response was very fair. I said it to you very nicely why people are talking about this relationship. You are the one who got defensive first talking about "you guys are celebs ha". If you cant discuss calmly then dont expect the other to be nice to you.

And when it comes to bashing, I dont unnecessarily bash. Go look at my record- I only criticize based on valid points. I have supported him in the past- be it when he was bullied, cornered, him during fights with HMs, him when he got all the punishments, him when he became captain and did it brilliantly. I have supported him and only gave you a reason why people are talking about his relationship in this post. You asked why talk about his personal life and I told you why. The whole point of this topic was that.

When it comes to not replying- I dont really care coz suddenly I am the one who is speaking gibberish when we were both clearly conversing in English five minutes ago (talk about hypocrisy and lame reasons)

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priyanka

@ankusanu

Stunner

+ 2

Posted: 10 years ago

#12

Vru gd post...
Seriously ppl need to understand dat...bt not of use...no body is getting dat

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Shrumunj

@Shrumunj

Sparkler

Posted: 10 years ago

#13

Criticising and bashing a contestant is great to read

Only when it's done in a healthy manner!

Here I see members attacking each other

For whom??

Why is everyone taking this so serious ?
It is just a game!

But I have to agree that bashing is going on a different level these days,
Iam sure there are many like me who don't even enjoy it after a certain point and even avoid reading it!

Let's make it fun and not like something like India pak war!

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Hashi

@HashiBoo

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 10 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: Jaysean
One thing I would like to say is that yes celebrities do have their personal lives and that should be respected. I respect most of their choices (I am talking about TV stars and BW stars). But the contestants that are in BB house are on a reality show where every move of theirs is public and they have agreed to let the public view/ form opinion on their behavior. Support or lack of it is depicted through their actions. Opinions are always wide ranged. It happens every season and they are aware of it. So, it is one thing to support them but public does have every right to discuss or form opinion on their relations/ moves as they are the ones that chose to make it public. At the end of the day, most of these people are hoping to get more work once they get out of this house- so they are busy building up images and getting their names out there. If one is so concerned about how it will be viewed/portrayed outside, they should not do it at first place.

Hay .. after sometime i have seen u ? u are no more GG fan ?

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simi

@Jaysean

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: HashiBoo

Hay .. after sometime i have seen u ? u are no more GG fan ?

Hey! I know. I was away for a while. I would be okay if he still wins but I dont like his showmance with Di. Its not even that I wouldnt be okay if they are together- the fact is that he is hiding it under the words "friends" when they are really not friends- coz you really wouldnt get a girl to feel your abs, massge you and give you birthday kisses if you are just a friend. I just aint a fan of that characteristic. He has done it in the past with Sonali too. I know Sonali said, "I like you" but he was the one giving her kisses while telling Pritam that he doesnt want her to get attached. I dont like how he manipulates girl's feelings. I am not saying Di is innocent- she was my least liked contestant and still is to an extent. But I feel like it takes two to tango and he shouldnt put the blame on her. Like with Sonali, he ended up saying that, "Sonali is using me" rather than clearing it out with her

I dont hate him since I dont hate any contestants and "Hate" is a strong word. I just dont like manipulating feelings but he seems to get sadistic pleasure out of that. So, all in all, this showmance just put me off.

I am not a hater but I am also not a strong supporter. I currently dont have any favorites. I would be happy if PG win. Its literally a turn and toss between them- Pritam or Gautam for the win. Thats all. Nobody else deserves it more than them.

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ItzMinzie

@ItzMinzie

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: Jaysean

Ok! Go read our entire conversation- my first response was very fair. I said it to you very nicely why people are talking about this relationship. You are the one who got defensive first talking about "you guys are celebs ha". If you cant discuss calmly then dont expect the other to be nice to you.

And when it comes to bashing, I dont unnecessarily bash. Go look at my record- I only criticize based on valid points. I have supported him in the past- be it when he was bullied, cornered, him during fights with HMs, him when he got all the punishments, him when he became captain and did it brilliantly. I have supported him and only gave you a reason why people are talking about his relationship in this post. You asked why talk about his personal life and I told you why. The whole point of this topic was that.

When it comes to not replying- I dont really care coz suddenly I am the one who is speaking gibberish when we were both clearly conversing in English five minutes ago (talk about hypocrisy and lame reasons)

I had no option but to reply to this. If you agree with someone who is laughing at a tv star called celeb then I just thought I will let you guys know what is difference between celeb n common people really. Thus my statement. We all have our favourites n best to support rather then bash. You say you bash n hv right to do so but hurts being called a hater. I know none of us wana be called a hater so don't do such things. Then I get called a preacher if I say that. My whole point was celebs whether big or small have their own personal life whether on screen or off screen. No one has the right to judge coz no one will like being judged about their own life right. Everyone has some shit in their life. Humans go wrong n make mistakes. Coming back to gautam he admitted his mistake that he went to washroom with diandra n all. He admits he was wrong. Some contestants don't even admit or think they are wrong even if they wrong.

It came to him as a shocker thus he reacted like that. I know there are so many cameras n obvious everything shows but contestants got told bathroom things wont get aired n he must hv thought by meaning bathroom the area outside the toilet where there are lockers is included n cameras R there for bigg boss but not going to be aired. The thing I fail to understand is people were liking him before he was with diandra n then started disliking him for being with her n now when he is telling her that he doesn't want to be close to her then he gets bashed again. I understand the manner he put it forward to her was in a harsh way but understand his side too instead of looking for every reason to bash him. He just got to know that his whole family saw n the whole of India include other countries. Admit it, it is embarrassing. Every guy does things but no one wants people to know. In this case, diandra is way more older n matured, she should hv first thought n not taking him or been physically close to him...if any girl will give such open invitation to a guy who is sexually deprived will go with the flow. He never said I blame diandra but said she took me to bathroom which is correct but yes he shouldn't hv gone if they R just friends but as I said its his personal life.

I wrote celeb n I get comments that people thought m referring to srk or Salman..ok what if I was...they had problems in their lives too...affairs, criminal case going on but start hating n bashing them in every post...from a fan become a hater? If U think neutrally, I am sure everyone will agree what I am saying.

I am not trying to make anyone like gautam..he still gets enough votes so its ok. At the end whoever will win, they wont give me or anyone anything so why waste on energy in negativity n hating n bashing. Be positive n just support ur favourite. That is my message through this post.

Edited by minzkumar - 10 years ago

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sidzafar31

@sidzafar31

Explorer

Posted: 10 years ago

#17

😳I thought I ler you know I think not letting this diandra deviate you from being gautam fan is fair. I saw on live feed a convo between upain & K. Diandra is after upain now (there is a post about it here too)