Rishta yeh kaisa jhilmil dhoop chav ka( 10th dec)

They say nobody can hurt more than a closest friend, nobody can hold a mirror of ugly truth in more firm hands, nobody can give a cruel jolt of reality in straight simple direct sentences than a bosom friend. Because he / she knows u inside out... the boggarts lurking inside deep dark alleys of your memory to terrify you, accepts you with your anomalies and lash out at you if you try to rebuke her for the shortcomings overlooking ur own imperfection .

Some thing similar happened with vibha today. Vikram forgot in his anger and grief of seeing shova groveling in front of that despicable vermin , that while he so strongly advocating sobha a new life and hope, he himself was stuck in his past and had not moved an inch in past 10 yrs. And that woman was a mere girlfriend...granted he had loved her with all his heart and dreamt a happily ever after life with her, but still he had not actually lived with her...he had not woke up seeing her face every morning or went to sleep kissing her goodnite, he had not given birth to a new life out of her, he had not shared life's small triumphs or losses with her , quarreled with her for a bad dinner or surprised her with a diamond necklace. His attachment was hardly comparable to shova's 9 compact years full of happy memories of life with a man who has suddenly become a stranger, a monster with turn of events. And yet he could not move on, the loss, the betrayal gnawed him so viciously that a normal, happy,caring man became a living zombie. And seriously he was certainly in no state to lecture sobha to move on and open herself to the possibilities of new life.Especially when as shova put it, her past is still a vivid present...she has to live with it, deal with it and fight with it every passing moment.

But then again he couldnot really help himself, hearing that sobha suddenly disappeared so late at night, his ground shook beneath his feet for a few precious moments until she emerged with defeat written all over her face. The anger for that man who made her life hell, made him utter sarcastic remarks ...what was she thinking when she went to plead senses from him ?? that he will hug her and say all is well ?? the pain she was going through was so unbearable that the couldnot just stop himself to emphasize the point, MOVE ON !! And hell the reaction he received ! In fact shova herself realised as soon as she finished her tirade,what she had done in the heat of the moment, she had opened the hidden box, threw its contents at his face and emptied it in front of audience. Hell !! she slapped her head...why she did that ??

And he staggered back home still stunt at the vehemence of her accusation , the mirror answered for him. She was right again. That witch has cursed his whole life with her evil spell, petrified him into the past and robbed off his ability to move on.

And even the realization hit right place itz manifestation was all different ! He became snappy, grumpy and unreasonably hot headed...sobha's presence might have calmed her down,but her marked absence and the news she would not be able to come soon hammered in the last nail in the coffin ! he had become addicted so much to sobha's soothing balm like approach to his feverish hot temper that unknowing he actually behaved like a tantrum throwing child waiting sobha pacify him...and with that crappy piece of information,his already ghoulish mood just snapped...how could she just leave him like that and went vacationing with her family ?? his heart burned so much that all reasons,informations, possibility,logic be damned ! She went away without seeing him personally and he would be unreasonable all day, he would be cranky, he would eat his employee's heads,he would not take her calls, he would make Mahesh run for his life , and he would sulk at the disorder. He would miss her all day. HAQ hai uska !!

sab bhag gayi forum chod ke !! have I written that bad, today ??😲 🥺

Shreya you write so beautifully!! I also noticed vikram's anger, frustration, and hurt regarding Shobas absence and her words about his past. You know what they say, we are hurt most by those who are near and dear to us 😉😳

Very beautiful post di Vikram was so much missing Shobha dat he was back to his old avatar Mr sadoo n his last expression was exactly like d same expression he had shown when had said "omg tujhe Shobha se pyaar ho gya" loved d way he expressed angrily just like a lion it will be very interesting to see how will he helped Shobha to move on maybe with d help of reverse psychology 😆

A brilliant post shreya and sach main a nonwriter has no words to post

I guess many are put off by shobhas pleading at the start of the episode and
did not watch the rest sadly

Beautifully put Shreya.
I didn't watch the first part of the episode because I couldn't see her go back and give Samarth one last chance. But the later scene when she rants to her MIL and Vikram explained her frame of mind so clearly. She went back to the man she spent 9 wonderful years with and asked for the father of her children to come back. She is the one who has to explain to her innocent kids why their father will not come back and they are not a family anymore. Vikram was right in asking her to put it all behind her that she doesn't need such a prick in her life. She will realise tomorrow that her daughter needs a father figure who will stand up for her dignity and her son needs a role model who will show him that it is important to respect women. But today, its the day she ended her marriage and needed to make one last attempt to make sure that her family stays intact.
Vikram needed to pay attention to his own advice and move on. He is a person who is stuck in the same place where a very selfish girl left him. He is able to see that Shobha needs to let go of her abusive marriage. But he doesn't realise that he is limiting himself by holding on to his past relationship. I'm glad that he threw away all his memories and decided not to let it hold him back.
It was a day when both friends shoved bitter pills down each other's throats. Tonight we see its effect on Vikram and tomorrow Shobha will be better too. At the end of the day, that's what friends are for. To help us do what we cannot do by ourselves.

Originally posted by: asdpsanmol

A brilliant post shreya and sach main a nonwriter has no words to post

rekha !
bekar ki baaten bolna bandh bhi karo ! nonwriter and all ! 2--4 line comment nehi likhoge toh god promise kaal se main ViBha moments likh i bandh kar dungi ! trust me u guys comments inspire me to write, ur enthusiasm boost confidence. issliye chota mota i sahi, comments toh likhnai padhega.

Originally posted by: rithureuben

Beautifully put Shreya.
I didn't watch the first part of the episode because I couldn't see her go back and give Samarth one last chance. But the later scene when she rants to her MIL and Vikram explained her frame of mind so clearly. She went back to the man she spent 9 wonderful years with and asked for the father of her children to come back. She is the one who has to explain to her innocent kids why their father will not come back and they are not a family anymore. Vikram was right in asking her to put it all behind her that she doesn't need such a prick in her life. She will realise tomorrow that her daughter needs a father figure who will stand up for her dignity and her son needs a role model who will show him that it is important to respect women. But today, its the day she ended her marriage and needed to make one last attempt to make sure that her family stays intact.
Vikram needed to pay attention to his own advice and move on. He is a person who is stuck in the same place where a very selfish girl left him. He is able to see that Shobha needs to let go of her abusive marriage. But he doesn't realise that he is limiting himself by holding on to his past relationship. I'm glad that he threw away all his memories and decided not to let it hold him back.
It was a day when both friends shoved bitter pills down each other's throats. Tonight we see its effect on Vikram and tomorrow Shobha will be better too. At the end of the day, that's what friends are for. To help us do what we cannot do by ourselves.

oh such a nice response rithu...he didnt throw away all purane yaaden, he should have made a bonfire out of that damned diary and file.😡 she was desperate for her children re, but after sometime she will realise it is better for her children to grow fatherless than to have a father who is a bad example for them.and they kids ! dear dear ! they grew mature overnight...they saw their father abusing their mother, and decided not to talk about him anymore...instead find their father in sobha only. hope one day vikram becomes a true father figure to then, he has all the qualities to be a grt father.

Originally posted by: asdpsanmol

I guess many are put off by shobhas pleading at the start of the episode and
did not watch the rest sadly

infact i muted the video for a while and did not let samarth's bakwas to bheja fry me. lol
by the way, how is the title...what do u think about my giving lyrical titles to my posts ? are they appropriate ?