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Posted: 10 years ago
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poor jigar:( radha is gonna threaten jigar to marry her in a proper way this time with the priest and the whole family being witnesses just like when he married paridhi in front of his family as currently she is illegally his wife and tricked him into marrying her while he was getting married to paridhi and wants to be offically known as jigars legal wife just like paridhi is because she is pregnant with his child if he wants her to let meera and vidya go otherwise she will hurt them( her own neices).
just hope that koki and gopi get there on time to save jigar from marrying that witch radha.
cannot wait to see the look on radhas face when gopi and koki bring meera and vidya home and her marriage gets stopped:)
whats gonna happen with paridhi?
i don't want jigar to marry radha but what difference would it make if he doe cos he unknowingly married radha too when he was getting married to paridhi?
say if jigar and radha would have already gotten married by the time koki and gopi come with the kids then what? No it better not cos according to an sbs reporter everything is gonna end for radha and whole family especially jigar and paridhi will teach her a lesson once and for all.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Paridhi should get out of the show too.
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To be honest, and I'm not dissing anyone's religion or culture but how is this possible? Jigar went through all the motions and vachans with Paridi. He put sindoor on her and the mangalsutra, which he did not do with Radha. Is a second woman allowed to assist the bride in taking the peras and then consider herself to be a legal wife. How is this even possible? Did the family not think to object that this would be the outcome? An outsider supporting the bride. Why couldn't Gopi or Kinjal help. Why didn't the pandit point out the possibility? It is almost like a kangaroo court - judgement without any clear rules or justice.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Xarina

To be honest, and I'm not dissing anyone's religion or culture but how is this possible? Jigar went through all the motions and vachans with Paridi. He put sindoor on her and the mangalsutra, which he did not do with Radha. Is a second woman allowed to assist the bride in taking the peras and then consider herself to be a legal wife. How is this even possible? Did the family not think to object that this would be the outcome? An outsider supporting the bride. Why couldn't Gopi or Kinjal help. Why didn't the pandit point out the possibility? It is almost like a kangaroo court - judgement without any clear rules or justice.



I never heard of such a thing a as any woman helping a bride with the seven pheras and then declaring her self the grooms husband in Hinduism. I have been to a few Hindu weddings and never saw such a thing in any of them. 😲 Maybe someone who is more knowledgeable on this topic can enlighten us. I have heard of sauten which means "the other woman" but not the above.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: fahima1234

poor jigar:( radha is gonna threaten jigar to marry her in a proper way this time with the priest and the whole family being witnesses just like when he married paridhi in front of his family as currently she is illegally his wife and tricked him into marrying her while he was getting married to paridhi and wants to be offically known as jigars legal wife just like paridhi is because she is pregnant with his child if he wants her to let meera and vidya go otherwise she will hurt them( her own neices).

just hope that koki and gopi get there on time to save jigar from marrying that witch radha.
cannot wait to see the look on radhas face when gopi and koki bring meera and vidya home and her marriage gets stopped:)
whats gonna happen with paridhi?
i don't want jigar to marry radha but what difference would it make if he doe cos he unknowingly married radha too when he was getting married to paridhi?
say if jigar and radha would have already gotten married by the time koki and gopi come with the kids then what? No it better not cos according to an sbs reporter everything is gonna end for radha and whole family especially jigar and paridhi will teach her a lesson once and for all.

When and how did Jigar get married to Radha?. Just because she helped Paridhi take pheras, is she also married to Jigar. Did Jigar apply Sindoor in her maang or did Jigar put mangalsutra around her neck. That way even Rashi helped Gopi take pheras with Ahem does that mean that Rashi was also married to Ahem.
Pardon me for saying this but just because Radha slept with Jigar and is claiming to be carrying his child she does not become his wife. Let her prove that Jigar is the father of the child she is carrying. And even if it is so, she conned Jigar into sleeping with her . So she has no legal or moral right. Jigar need not marry her nor do the Modi's have to let her stay with them. If at all Jigar's parenthood is proved he can financially help Radha and her child. I don't think even the law would say anything beyond this.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: MADHYAMAVATHI

When and how did Jigar get married to Radha?. Just because she helped Paridhi take pheras, is she also married to Jigar. Did Jigar apply Sindoor in her maang or did Jigar put mangalsutra around her neck. That way even Rashi helped Gopi take pheras with Ahem does that mean that Rashi was also married to Ahem.

Pardon me for saying this but just because Radha slept with Jigar and is claiming to be carrying his child she does not become his wife. Let her prove that Jigar is the father of the child she is carrying. And even if it is so, she conned Jigar into sleeping with her . So she has no legal or moral right. Jigar need not marry her nor do the Modi's have to let her stay with them. If at all Jigar's parenthood is proved he can financially help Radha and her child. I don't think even the law would say anything beyond this.



Well said. I find that extremely confusing. 👏 😕
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: skanthan



I never heard of such a thing a as any woman helping a bride with the seven pheras and then declaring her self the grooms husband in Hinduism. I have been to a few Hindu weddings and never saw such a thing in any of them. 😲 Maybe someone who is more knowledgeable on this topic can enlighten us. I have heard of sauten which means "the other woman" but not the above.

I don't think that the cvs are very professional, especially the way that recent storylines are unfolding. Yes, if the bride was switched and kept ghunghat on her face until all the rituals are completed I would understand, but this 😕. Surely as a writer you should do your research before you are let loose on the public. I've always said that the cvs are ninnies. This proves it.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Xarina

To be honest, and I'm not dissing anyone's religion or culture but how is this possible? Jigar went through all the motions and vachans with Paridi. He put sindoor on her and the mangalsutra, which he did not do with Radha. Is a second woman allowed to assist the bride in taking the peras and then consider herself to be a legal wife. How is this even possible? Did the family not think to object that this would be the outcome? An outsider supporting the bride. Why couldn't Gopi or Kinjal help. Why didn't the pandit point out the possibility? It is almost like a kangaroo court - judgement without any clear rules or justice.


Well dear, you are surely not disrespecting anyone's religion. Honnestly, I am confused as well.

I am a devout Hindu and I am very confused on how this can happen as well. Marriage does not only involve all the pheres but also other rituals. A Hindu marriage must be performed from start to finish with the ghat-bandhan (when the shall of the groom and the dupatta of the bride and literally tied together with a cloth.)

I do not think that Radha and Jigar ever had that gath-bandhan or any other ritual such as the mangalsutra.

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