Divorce..really???

What I'm going to write in this post is my own point of view , a lot of you may find it wrong, silly, weak,or even old time way of thinking so I want to say sorry in advance
Divorce for me is and always will be sad option, but I do not want to generalize so I will discuss my point regarding Abhi and Pragya's divorce only
since I heard about and then saw the divorce promo I could not feel anything but sadness, disappointment and some kind of defeat . I was following Abhagya's journey believing that they are meant for each other regardless of all the differences, MUs, or whatever \ whoever come in between them, I strongly believed that when these 2 tie the knot their bond will be unbreakable, they will never ever let go, they will cling to each other till death, they will, tease each other, screamed at each other , fight , even show or say that they hate each other but will never break their bond
I know some will argue that their bond is their love not their marriage so it is better if they got divorce and have a clean start ( their love will bring them back together). I do not agree with that , the best for me is that their marriage survive to the end , make them suffer as much as you want but never break their marriage please. that will be a victory for the bad gays and a defeat for them , waste for all the sacrifices they made, . they will be the weakest hero and heroin I ever followed if they make both their marriage and divorce look like a result of other( bad ) people's decisions and actions, if their marriage was decided for them make them choose to stay together no matter what, please save that small dreamy world Abhi and Pragya made for their selves behind the closed door of their room, the only world where they were safe of the evil of those who hate them and the blackmail of those who love them.
I want Pragya to stand for her self , actually asking for divorce is good for her and I can take it as I know she loves Abhi and asking for divorce is not only for herself but because she believes that will make him happy pragya asaking for divorce is not (asking for a divorce) it is another sacrifice Pragya will make but this time for the man she loves, for Abhi to accept this divorce easily will be a shock for me unless they show that he thinks she want to be with her old lover soresh or something,
remember the temple scene when Abhi find Pragya and Purap in the temple and thought that they are going to get married when he told pragya that he will set her free and grab her mangalsutra to breake it then Bulbul interfer... try to remember the exact scene here they showed only their hands on the screen abhi trying to bull of the mangalsutra and Pragya holding on to her mangalsutra when bulbul said it is not Pragya Abhi immediately let go , for me that was a brilliant
scene that shows how much he want her to be and to stay (his wife)
I belong to the old school that believe marriage is a sacred relation that deserved to be respected appreciated and fought for even if there is no love. just going through simple rituals of marriage will gives 2 people rights and exclusiveness no other relation will ever give even love, Actually trying to connect marriage to only love, intimacy, or even respect ( sorry for this as I value respect in marriage very much) is just a little piece of a large picture.
Like, IPKKND and other shows they can repeat their marriage rituals again in the future to sort of have a clean start and I defiantly want Abhi to give Pragya a new ring as Tannu is the one who gave him this ring to put on Pragya's finger but divorce will spoiled KB for me.for me this will be like ending this show and saying bye for Abhi and pragya then start watching a new show with a male and female lead surprisingly having the same names of the male and female lead of my old beloved show Kumkum bhagya.

I get what you mean about marriage being sacred. But wouldn't it be an insult to the marriage itself if they are being together when there is no trust or love? Why should Pragya stay and fight for a marriage with someone who doesn't trust her or even love her. I am sorry but he did many things before, but calling her characterless and pushing her to the door, also never once asked himself if the women he shared his bed with, is capable of such things he accused. For me, staying in the marriage after all this is a degrade to the sacred marriage itself.

Originally posted by: renukha871

I get what you mean about marriage being sacred. But wouldn't it be an insult to the marriage itself if they are being together when there is no trust or love? Why should Pragya stay and fight for a marriage with someone who doesn't trust her or even love her. I am sorry but he did many things before, but calling her characterless and pushing her to the door, also never once asked himself if the women he shared his bed with, is capable of such things he accused. For me, staying in the marriage after all this is a degrade to the sacred marriage itself.

Divorce is exactly what they need right now. Pragya has gone through enough and it's time for her to get out of it. Having all that said, I don't think divorce will happen anytime soon, because a couple needs to be married for a year to be divorced. Most likely, they will file for divorce and live separately. Eventually destiny will bring them together and by that time the court gives them, they would be in love with each other. And this time unite because they want to.

well it is why I refused to generalize at the beginning of my post, just in case of Abhi and Pragya giving the fact that we are dealing with a fiction story , divorcing each other is going to spoil the story for me, I know they made Abhi look so bad in the way he is handling this issue until now but I still hope that they will find a way to make it right without reaching the point of divorce.
Thanks for the information about the divorce laws ( we do not have the same laws over here) so I hope it is going to be like this I mean continue to be married but with pragya filing for divorce

I am old fashioned like that too. If they are meant to be together I would rather there be no divorce.

I want Abhi to wake up to the fact that he has a gem of a wife and that he has been ill treating her all along. No woman should have to put up with the crap that Pragya has had to endure in the Mehra household and if she were not in love with Abhi and the two were not meant to be, I would root for the divorce. But we all know this is the story of their love and how they overcome all odds because of her kumkum bhagya so true to that fabled story line, there should be no divorce (perhaps an estrangement) as her kumkum bhagya should not allow this bond to break and a break it will be if there is a divorce even if they end up re-marrying.

I am happy Pragya asked for a divorce as it should jerk Abhi out of his complacent mis-placed confidence that Tannu is an angel, Aliya is the personification of veracity, and that he himself is the judicious, fair and ever so virtuous one. Hoping the judge does decree that they live out their six months of separation and in that period budhu Abhi has the truth hammered into him by a set of outside circumstances and that he rue the day he set eyes on Tannu.

I believe in marriage but given how this marriage happened, I don't even think they are married. Abhi was not there in heart and mind when married. He hasn't been there so far either. Nor has he cared much about the marriage or Pragya as his wife in real sense. So, are they even married? I am not sure.

Originally posted by: -Tia-

I believe in marriage but given how this marriage happened, I don't even think they are married. Abhi was not there in heart and mind when married. He hasn't been there so far either. Nor has he cared much about the marriage or Pragya as his wife in real sense. So, are they even married? I am not sure.

Yep, he has tied a mangal sutra to which she holds on, well well. That's not enough for a marriage.

So, I don't mind if they divorce if that sets their equation right, if that takes him out of misunderstandings and if that gives the happiness that Pragya dreams of. If they are meant to be, things will get back together.

However, I don't think divorce will happen at all. The name of the show is Kumkum Bhagya and although Abhi has wanted to get out of this marriage on various occasions by hook or crook, it has survived. Even if Pragya wants out, it will still survive.

Kumkum Bhagya actually means the fortune/destiny of marriage and these two are tied into it. They will be always be.

I agree with every word you wrote Tia but again and again and as much as I tried to be reasonable I can never accept a divorce between Abhi and Pragya. If they reached this point and even if for one second they are not officially husband and wife , Kumkum bhagya will be spoiled behind repairing for me , if they are going to remarry 10th times in the future that will never set things right in my eyes again and as I said if I kept watching it will be like a new Shaw, new couple and new story
l said that I totally agree and want Pragya to ask for divorce but I do not want them to reach this point, I watched other series like IPKKND , rangrasya , etc in which the lead couple had some sort of crocked marriage but in case of Abhi and bragya their marriage was correct and lawful and despite everything and everyone they are legally husband and wife and till now regardless of everything including their feelings it is the only solid bond between them and any decent, nice or funny move they take towards each other come from this fact , I hope against hope that in spite of all the ugliness and hatred this fragile bond will survive and even subconsciously they will cling to it because it is the only thing uniting them right now until their deep buried love finally surfaced and make it more powerful in the future