Ramans feelings and expression

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I donno how far are those feelings and expressions justified
After knowing Shagun and after all that she has done to him why does her worst still effect him
He knows
1. Shagun is so self-centered she doesn't even care for her kids
2.Everything for her means a show off and i dont think rituals mean anything to that female all she wants is people to show off, her kids to attend her function just for the sake of it I dont find even a small feeling from her side that she wants to spend time with Ruhi, wedding and functions mean just parties and a reason to buy expensive and designer
3. She doesnt even bother to understand the burden she is putting on her own brother

I dont understand why Raman was so upset listening to that women speak all the shit I mean if he really loves Ishu and movied on why did he even bother even after knowing Shaguns character
Shagun a women with vental choices
Money over family and kids,looks over true feeling(not that Raman is less handsome compared to that Ashok) ,Polish over Principles and values.
I dont find it justified to feel for a person who betrayed you and dint leave a chance to ruin you

I dont really understand why did CV's come up with such a thing
If it was just to show that Ishita is different then that was not needed she already made it very clear she would be there foe him and wants the world to see that he isnt alone
I dint really understand


PS: Just felt like sharing my view nothing offensive
sorry in case it hurts any one
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Posted: 10 years ago
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he is already in thought that he is not good husband and has been hurting Ishita.
Shagun's words just acted as salt on wounds.
It is not about Shagun's words it is about his thought that he is not a good husband
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: SAKIV-RAM

he is already in thought that he is not good husband and has been hurting Ishita.

Shagun's words just acted as salt on wounds.
It is not about Shagun's words it is about his thought that he is not a good husband

May be but still I don't know if that way really needed
I mean he know how it feels ,i mean insecure feeling so Ishita would feel bad right he can understand it better because he goes through that when mani speaks so i feel he shouldnt have reacted that way

but now according to what u told I feel you are right too
thank you
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: sulochana90

May be but still I don't know if that way really needed
I mean he know how it feels ,i mean insecure feeling so Ishita would feel bad right he can understand it better because he goes through that when mani speaks so i feel he shouldnt have reacted that way

but now according to what u told I feel you are right too
thank you

he din't react much different there.
He has been dejected and dull whole day.Ishita knew it but she is trying her best to get him back to original.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: SAKIV-RAM

he is already in thought that he is not good husband and has been hurting Ishita.

Shagun's words just acted as salt on wounds.
It is not about Shagun's words it is about his thought that he is not a good husband



Yup he word of shagun about compromises in marraige stuck in his mind and he is thinking even they (Ishra) especislly ishu is compromising a lot for him and his family
But one thing shaguns words somewhere still affect him

Hope we see one day when he stops letting other people words affecting him and let ishu talk and thinking make his heart filled with love that he doesn't let his love go away its high time he stops letting other people words affect him and cry all the time
Don't like him crying all the time like SP bahus and rather conquered his love expressing his feelings thoughts to ishu
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: SAKIV-RAM

he din't react much different there.
He has been dejected and dull whole day.Ishita knew it but she is trying her best to get him back to original.

I just hope this track is over soon and I wish they are not separated
If not confession I at least wish things get back to normal
Raavan kumar and JKR mood
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Angel13



Yup he word of shagun about compromises in marraige stuck in his mind and he is thinking even they (Ishra) especislly ishu is compromising a lot for him and his family
But one thing shaguns words somewhere still affect him

Hope we see one day when he stops letting other people words affecting him and let ishu talk and thinking make his heart filled with love that he doesn't let his love go away its high time he stops letting other people words affect him and cry all the time
Don't like him crying all the time like SP bahus and rather conquered his love expressing his feelings thoughts to ishu

thank you for clarifying
ya he should understand that any relation is a combination of all compromise love hard times happy times ups downs and everything
Like you said i wish that day comes soon he realizes that her happiness lies in him no matter what like his happiness lies in her...
and ya i so wish that day comes soon n both express there feelings for each other instead of suffering so much and crying... together they can face anything...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Actually a part of me felt that he wasn't upset about Shagun badmouthing him, but rather upset that her words are a reflection of his marriage with Ishita. Shagun was saying how she didn't have the perfect wedding and had to make so many compromises and Raman is interpreting her words as If he failed Ishita in their marriage. I think he knows that he didn't fail in his first marriage, Shagun did...but now he believes he's failing in his marriage with Ishita.
In my opinion, I think Raman has completely moved on from Shagun. He could have easily reacted and said something in his defense to Shagun, but he didn't. As of late I've noticed that her taunts don't effect him as much because he doesn't respond to them like he used to initially. This I believe is a good sign because once you stop loving someone, their words don't really phase you and it's not necessary to give them a befitting reply.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Shagun doesn't affect him, even her words didn't stay back in his mind. It was Ishita and his turmoil related to her that had him occupied. And the fact that in all the pain in his life, she finds happiness and has no complains, it makes him more guilty. It was all about Ishita not Shagun.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Aisha15

Actually a part of me felt that he wasn't upset about Shagun badmouthing him, but rather upset that her words are a reflection of his marriage with Ishita. Shagun was saying how she didn't have the perfect wedding and had to make so many compromises and Raman is interpreting her words as If he failed Ishita in their marriage. I think he knows that he didn't fail in his first marriage, Shagun did...but now he believes he's failing in his marriage with Ishita.

In my opinion, I think Raman has completely moved on from Shagun. He could have easily reacted and said something in his defense to Shagun, but he didn't. As of late I've noticed that her taunts don't effect him as much because he doesn't respond to them like he used to initially. This I believe is a good sign because once you stop loving someone, their words don't really phase you and it's not necessary to give them a befitting reply.

Ya you are right I was just to frustrated to even think in this way
but he knows Ishita well by now so he shouldnt feel bad about there wedding celebrations because it was so perfect the way it was , it was not a page3 affair unlike what shagun wants but i agree with you about the rest
thank you for posting your view and making it clear for me

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